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Blogs > ShyTurtles > My Blog

Race...  

ShyTurtles 27F  
158 posts
12/14/2020 9:57 pm
Race...

So apparently this needs to be said. I noticed a rather irksome and gross trend in my messages as I've been going through them and clearing them out and it involves my race...or rather perceived race by some of you who clearly didn't read all the info on my profile. I am not white, I am mixed. I am African-American and Puerto-Rican. Do not come into my DMs calling me a race I am not and saying you find it attractive/me attractive for being that race or are looking to do race play with me. I don't want anything to do with any race play kinks as they make me incredibly uncomfortable for a multitude of reasons. So does being called white for more personal reasons. From now on, I'm blocking anyone that does either of those things instead of just deleting their messages. I'm tired of it.

SingleItalianGy2 52M
1205 posts
12/14/2020 10:29 pm

 It's a shame people here still act like kids and instead of reading a profile they only look at pictures. Stick to your guns and avoid the chaos and frustration caused by the ones ignorant enough to say such things with out reading first.


ShyTurtles replies on 12/15/2020 9:00 pm:
It honestly really is a shame. You'd swear they should be literate enough to read a little or have enough common sense not to say that kind of stuff point blank. But alas, common sense isn't common despite it's name.

willbthick4u 62M

12/15/2020 12:27 am

 Your a lady a very sexy lady indeed.

Where you where born has nothing to do with that, where you mum and dad was born is irrelevant as its you they are interested in.

Its not your job to educate people, if a persons level of intelligence doesn't match yours well that person not going to have much in common with you.

Connection is a big part of chemistry...

Thanks for the share

Russ x


ShyTurtles replies on 12/15/2020 8:58 pm:
Yeah, I know. It's just incredibly frustrating, especially when it's back to back like it was, you know? Those kinds of people are not ones I ever intend to associate with as they lack all manner of common decency and tact. Can't get past that even for a second to me.

jajo696 113F
Ask me for a photo
4287 posts
12/15/2020 12:32 am

 Most dont read...others cant...cuz they are standards...and others dont give a hoot what you say on a profile anyway. Its a shame and frustrating to say the least. Yup...stick to your guns. Good luck ~~


dogslife2live01 71M
Ask me for a photo

12/15/2020 3:58 am

 so totally agree with you... there is no need to assonate with anyone that looks at humans by race, color, or religion.
bonne vie
there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


DiscreetQuirky 55M
280 posts
12/15/2020 5:12 am
    Quoting willbthick4u:
    Your a lady a very sexy lady indeed.

    Where you where born has nothing to do with that, where you mum and dad was born is irrelevant as its you they are interested in.

    Its not your job to educate people, if a persons level of intelligence doesn't match yours well that person not going to have much in common with you.

    Connection is a big part of chemistry...

    Thanks for the share

    Russ x
Felt like responding since I wrote a blog entry that mentioned racism, but I think Russ said it at least as well as I could. People ought to recognize you for your personality and character (and obvious attractiveness!). Never mind your parentage.


profcoquin27bis 59M
4323 posts
12/15/2020 10:26 am

 the word race should not exist, we all belong to the human species.


fortran9095 39M
33 posts
12/16/2020 8:56 pm

 I'm sorry to hear you are having this problem. Such insensitive jerks on here.


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