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The Name Game  

Cali_ashly25 36F
11 posts
11/5/2016 9:01 am
The Name Game

So I have a some male friends in their early 20's...let's call them J, C and R and there is a woman (we'll call her M) in her late 20's to early 30's that C and R have slept with. However, M REALLY wanted to sleep with J. J turned her down because he had a girlfriend at the time and even though they were long distance at that time because of his work, he was quite faithful. J and C were roommates, young , very attractive British boys. So, when M couldn't get J, she went for C. C, being single and admittedly horny, said no at first because M was well known for being easy and sleeping around in the workplace A LOT. But, finally, she and the horny wore him down and he slept with her. But during their encounter she called him J...Twice. He then proceeded to sleep with her another time. And after that he realized that he didn't really like her as a person. So he told her "no more". Fast forward a few weeks and R, another young attractive British guy, comes to work at the same place. Same story, she pursues..he resists...gets too horny and ends up sleeping with her. And what does she do? She calls him J during sex. But still he goes back. But this time, she doesn't call him J. She calls him by one of her exes names.

My question is this...would you sleep with some one again (and again) after they have called you the wrong name in bed? Unless it was some kinky role play type deal. In which case, that's kinda hot! But I mean in just everyday life and getting it on...would you? Am I the crazy one to think that if you can't get my name right, you don't get my lovely vagina? lol Discuss!....

Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
11/5/2016 10:52 am

 It's all fine with me. Welcome to blog land!!


Cali_ashly25 36F
5 posts
11/5/2016 10:23 pm

 Hmm...really? Interesting. Thank you for input!


hxdabears 61M

11/23/2016 7:10 am

 As a man, I wouldn't care what she called me unless I was looking for a monogamous relationship. Since none of the men in your blog appeared to be seeking anything more than fun, I see no issue at all.

In your case (and I enjoyed the "lovely vagina" remark), it seems a bit different. In our world, it's generally considered to be more of a gift for a woman to have sex with a man, so women seemingly are more desirous of their partner at least knowing their name. As usual, circumstances prevail...


Cali_ashly25 replies on 12/24/2016 7:07 am:
I see. So, only if you want to be in a relationship should someone know your name? I get "just having fun". Nothing wrong with that at all. However, in this case, she actually knew all of their names. As I said, this was a workplace situation and we all worked together for months. Went out drinking together...the whole nine. So it wasn't just random encounters in a bar. Even in that case, I'd still like for someone to remember my name. But if they didn't, ok. Just then don't call me ANY name. Just use the usual "oh baby, yeah...oh baby yeah" line. Lol!

Now, i'm not sure where this "it's a gift for a woman to have sex with a man" thing came from. I must be missing something in your explanation. Not because I think I'm better than anyone else, but because I respect myself and my body I think it's a gift for a man to have sex with ME. Shouldn't we all feel that way, though?

Thank you for your input! Sorry for the late response! Merry Christmas!

true2myself10 59M  
150 posts
1/23/2017 4:01 am

 yeah if you shouted out his name while i was with her it would be a no go . Definitely a red flag


candlestick3O 56M

8/11/2017 5:20 am

 I would say it all depends on how long you've known each other? under and hour i'd give them a pass, maybe even a week, maybe a month. But, after that you are right they should know my name ... I'm not just a cock to ride I have feelings and a name!


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