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Preparing to pay for sex: Day 1, Research  

CeriosEros 39M
615 posts
8/13/2016 11:49 pm

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8/24/2016 5:16 pm

Preparing to pay for sex: Day 1, Research


So, I decided to pay for sex. Not my finest moment but it needs to be done. I thought I was above paying for sex. Back in the day I thought "Who needs to pay for sex. I'm a below average looking, reasonably smart, oddly charming guy. I'm sure I'll find some girl who's just horny and drunk enough to lower her standards for 5 minutes and turn me into a man." That didn't happen. Then I got a little older then I thought "Paying for sex is disgusting. I don't want my first time to come with a side of syphilis. I would never pay for sex. I hate going to bars and clubs. I'll just find someone online." And a swing and a miss again. Now I'm more like "I'll be 32 next month and I've never had sex. My dad died at 35. My grandfather died at 37. The men in my family don't live that long...Fuck it. Materubation isn't satisfying that ich anymore. Let's do it." Now the preparations begin.

First thing I did was research. If you didn't know is a shady business. I have to know what I'm getting into. So after some research I decided to go with a independent escort. Meaning she doesn't have a<b> </font></b>or madam. She isn't being forced sell herself or had been sold to someone human trafficking ring from a third world country. Which is important to me.

Along with the research I need to do some physical training. Not just cardio because let's face it no one wants to fuck out of shape. There's nothing worse than huffing and puffing on the pussy. But also male kegels or Pc exercises. For one reason. One I'm going to be spending a couple hundred bucks on sex. I want to get my monies worth. A couple hundred bucks for 8 seconds of sex doesn't seem worth it.

There's still some questions I need to research and some risk I need to calculate like if it's worth the risk to attempt oral sex on her or is it better for me to have her come to my house or a neutral site. But I guess those answers will have to wait for another day.

CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
8/13/2016 11:51 pm

I could use some advice from guys or girls who have been down the road I'm going. Thanks for your comments.


porterpiper1 57F
3755 posts
8/14/2016 12:29 am

No matter how much research you do there are still risk, I would not let a complete stranger come to my home, a neutral place is a lot safer for you, second if you choose to go down on her, there are protection for that too,I wish you luck,


moonfish 56M  
466 posts
8/14/2016 5:42 am

You seem like well educated man, good looking and you write well. For the life of me, I can't understand why you can't get laid. Maybe you over analyse things. I would just keep on persevering, you will find someone eventually. Regarding a hooker, I think that's a good idea, nothing wrong with that. Just don't take her to your house and don't go down on her and use protection. Hookers can be hit and miss. I hope you find a nice one who does not take advantage of you. Good Luck.


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