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Blogs > secret_lade > Ramblings of the depraved.....

Is this happening with anyone else?  

secret_lade 49F
14391 posts
12/13/2020 5:22 am
Is this happening with anyone else?


I find myself in a huge rut.

My weekdays are filled with the monotony of work shit.

Nose Hairs in my office talking about dogs, places to visit on vacations I will never take, and the workplace gossip that I may or may not have heard. An endless sea of new faces in forms of hiring, faces that I have no hope of remembering names half of which will be gone before I even get a chance see them twice. Bitchy customers who have spent too much Christmas and take it out when 'the price is too high'.

Those are my favorites!

Anymore, my weekends are a fun sponge of their own....

Going nowhere, doing nothing, streaming movies and tv shows while the cat stares at from its perch the chair. (Just as she's doing at this very moment.)

Even my creativity is being sapped.

I find it challenging be witty and charming in my funny little blog posts.

Even as I'm writing this, at 8:19 in the morning... There is a barking in the hall way and Apartment Complex Stud is telling someone "Fuck You" while someone else is arguing back....

And I'm not compelled turn it into a funny "only where I live" post.

Instead, I'm angrily mulling away in my mind the fact that I ordered new work shoes from Amazon Prime on December 4th and I just received an email saying...

'Oops! Sorry they are late! Your order should arrive on December 10. If you have not received it by December you may file a complaint and request your money back.'

Really??

Here's the kicker!

The tracking info shows they were checked into the Gaylord postal terminal December 9th.

They've been in my town for 4 days.... It's already the th!! But have somehow managed not make it onto my door step.

It's a sad state of affairs.

secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/15/2020 5:05 pm
    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    All I can say is "Better to be safe then in dead"
    They said in June we will have it worse then before come fall.
    The only ones to blame are the ones that don't care about other.
I'm curious to see what is going to happen now that they've released the vaccine.


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
12/15/2020 2:12 pm

 All I can say is "Better to be safe then in dead"
They said in June we will have it worse then before come fall.
The only ones to blame are the ones that don't care about other.


topherific 61M
5209 posts
12/14/2020 9:03 pm

 not a pre-requirement for fun


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/14/2020 3:36 pm
    Quoting topherific:
    its a rut time of year compounded by the ICK ass for weekends i would be inclined to try and spark them up a bit
I don't ski, though...


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/14/2020 3:34 pm

 This year has been just so terrible... It feels never ending.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/14/2020 3:32 pm
    Quoting citizen4722:
    I'm having issues with my gas and electricity supplier. "If it ain't broke...etc...."
That's a tough one... You can't live without gas and electricity. Can you threaten to switch providers?


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/14/2020 3:30 pm
    Quoting freespirit11501:
    Until recently, I've had a difficult time feeling good about anything, even the holidays. Sleeping has become a bit of a hardship and some days, it really feels like I am just going through the paces. If this is a rut, then I have been in one completely. I suppose we just have to find something that makes us happy and focus on that. God luck with your shipment.
My shoes finally came today.... True story, I got the UPS survey asking me if I was satisfied with my shipment before the shoes were even delivered. I responded that I would let them know when the shoes actually show up. About an hour later, I got a call from a representative. LOL


freespirit11501 54M
1542 posts
12/14/2020 1:05 pm

 Until recently, I've had a difficult time feeling good about anything, even the holidays. Sleeping has become a bit of a hardship and some days, it really feels like I am just going through the paces. If this is a rut, then I have been in one completely. I suppose we just have to find something that makes us happy and focus on that. God luck with your shipment.
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citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
12/14/2020 7:50 am

 I'm having issues with my gas and electricity supplier. "If it ain't broke...etc...."


MrWrong4RghtNow 57M
2439 posts
12/14/2020 12:32 am

 Yep. Rut here too. But my meds help. Or so i think
My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


topherific 61M
5209 posts
12/13/2020 7:39 pm

 its a rut time of year compounded by the ICK ass for weekends i would be inclined to try and spark them up a bit


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/13/2020 5:28 pm
    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Yeah... I can relate; not to the shoes, and the fighting and the movie streaming or the cat or the employees or the rut... but all that other stuff you mentioned.

    Yep... it's a f**king glum day today.
    But heck, there's always tomorrow.
    Right? 🌹❗😎
Tomorrow is a workday Monday..... Ugh....


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/13/2020 5:27 pm
    Quoting mc_justmc:
    just think of all the wild sex that's going to happen when this is all over! >>!
I can only hope.... Although, at the moment, it feels like it will never be over. Ever....


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/13/2020 5:24 pm
    Quoting flannel_light:
    I ordered something the end of November was supposed to be here on the 3 of December then saying it's running late, it will be on the 5 of December and tracking said it was in Greensboro NC and then on the 7 of December telling me I would get it on the 10 . Yeap I got it on the 10 of December. All of this was with Walmart. The Covid-19 has finally gotten to me I am not doing what I had plan to do for Christmas. I will make my homemade red velvet cake. We have an ordinance posted now to wear all fask mask in restaurants ,all the stores and everywhere else and no one's getting in. The store owners asked at Dollar tree if you got a mask and if they say no they'll tell them, we won't let you in here so they have to put it on or leave.
    My nosey neighbor is starting her crap again and where I live it's Apartment complex for low income through Hide. We both are going through similar circumstances.
Where I live, it's been mandatory mask order since April. When they talk about mask fatigue, I'm here to say it's real. Sometimes I feel like calling in to work just so I don't have wear a mask.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/13/2020 5:20 pm
    Quoting KX450F2016:
    Yes, the postal service has been taking longer.... altho they raised the rates til Dec. 30th!! FedEx and UPS have still been ok tho. Sounds like my weekends, but I keep busy in my shop & listing on Ebay.... and here a bit too! LOL
I need to find something constructive to do with my time. I'm beginning to feel like a shut in, which is not good.


KX450F2016 55M
193 posts
12/13/2020 3:47 pm

 Yes, the postal service has been taking longer.... altho they raised the rates til Dec. 30th!! FedEx and UPS have still been ok tho. Sounds like my weekends, but I keep busy in my shop & listing on Ebay.... and here a bit too! LOL


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
12/13/2020 2:32 pm

 I ordered something the end of November was supposed to be here on the 3 of December then saying it's running late, it will be on the 5 of December and tracking said it was in Greensboro NC and then on the 7 of December telling me I would get it on the 10 . Yeap I got it on the 10 of December. All of this was with Walmart. The Covid-19 has finally gotten to me I am not doing what I had plan to do for Christmas. I will make my homemade red velvet cake. We have an ordinance posted now to wear all fask mask in restaurants ,all the stores and everywhere else and no one's getting in. The store owners asked at Dollar tree if you got a mask and if they say no they'll tell them, we won't let you in here so they have to put it on or leave.
My nosey neighbor is starting her crap again and where I live it's Apartment complex for low income through Hide. We both are going through similar circumstances.
The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


mc_justmc 63M

12/13/2020 12:05 pm

 just think of all the wild sex that's going to happen when this is all over! >>!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
12/13/2020 8:47 am

 Yeah... I can relate; not to the shoes, and the fighting and the movie streaming or the cat or the employees or the rut... but all that other stuff you mentioned.

Yep... it's a f**king glum day today.
But heck, there's always tomorrow.
Right? 🌹❗😎


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