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Ripping off that bandaid...
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Ripping off that bandaid... I took this picture quite some time ago to share with someone I'd been casually seeing. I never ended up sending it to him... He was the type of guy that brought out all of my insecurities. I heard stories about ex's... I heard stories about beautiful women he wished his family would set him up with... I heard stories about sexual trysts he'd had in the past... With each new story I felt a little less attractive, a little more like he was using me until someone better came along, and the thought of sharing this photo with him slipped further and further from my mind.... Along with my desire to spend any time with him. Here's the thing guys... A lot of us women don't want to hear this kind of stuff. We already have all those nagging worries in the back of our minds about whether or not we are attractive or good at sex and those types of conversations only manage to heighten that worry. Rational Mind - There must be something to me that he finds attractive or he wouldn't be here. Irrational Mind - Why does he keep talking about this beautiful woman he wishes his would set him up with? I'm sitting right here, on a date with him, and all he can talk about is another woman.... I'm not good enough. Once a guy plants that seed of doubt in our minds, it's impossible to remove. I was cleaning some junk out of my phone today and I came across this old picture. At first I felt silly, and thought... what was I thinking? Then I thought, you know.... That picture isn't half bad. It's a very flattering view of me, I wish I'd had the courage to share it with someone... Someone who would actually like to see this view of me. And, my blog came to mind. I write a lot about my daily happenings. The funny, the bizarre, the sad... But I share very little about my appearance. I've always managed to keep that private. Sometimes... Sometimes you have to rip off that bandaid, though. So, here you go readers, a tiny peek into the realm of the Secret_Lade.  |
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I see a beautiful lady Now I have you complete From head to toes Xoxoxoxoxxo Thomas I'm sure you look beautiful In the shower . PS. I have alit of your blogs to catch up on.  I do end up posting a lot on here, don't I. LOL
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I see a beautiful lady Now I have you complete From head to toes Xoxoxoxoxxo Thomas I'm sure you look beautiful In the shower . PS. I have alit of your blogs to catch up on.
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Yes. Anyone who is not completely enthralled by you is a bonafide fool. I have to tell you that I've become a fan of your writing. The author's voice really speaks to me.
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Yes. Anyone who is not completely enthralled by you is a bonafide fool. I have to tell you that I've become a fan of your writing. The author's voice really speaks to me. *. *. *
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Very flattering pic, showing just enough to weg anyone's appetite
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Hello! This is great! I have a bit of experience in this and hoping for me. Will you help? Local availability all the time and will travel for the right reasons. Smile, it could be you. Can't wait hear from you.
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Hello! This is great! I have a bit of experience in this and hoping for me. Will you help? Local availability all the time and will travel for the right reasons. Smile, it could be you. Can't wait hear from you.
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Very flattering pic, showing just enough to weg anyone's appetite
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11/27/2020 5:35 pm |
Hi
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luv ur boobs
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Thank you for sharing the beautiful picture of a beautiful lady. After a few dates, IF the women asks, in the interests of honesty, I share how many and how long. Any more than that is pretty stupid (or at least arrogant) of the guy. Probably wanted to build himself up from a weak ego. You deserve better, and it is good that you got out. Now you just need to get him out of your head!
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Thank you for sharing the beautiful picture of a beautiful lady. After a few dates, IF the women asks, in the interests of honesty, I share how many and how long. Any more than that is pretty stupid (or at least arrogant) of the guy. Probably wanted to build himself up from a weak ego. You deserve better, and it is good that you got out. Now you just need to get him out of your head!
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Great topic. I have some experience in this and would enjoy chatting with anyone on it. Thank you for the cool post on it. I am also available for local meetings with short notice and will travel for right circumstances. I look forward to hearing from you and hope to see you soon and have some real fun! Wonderful pic.
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Great topic. I have some experience in this and would enjoy chatting with anyone on it. Thank you for the cool post on it. I am also available for local meetings with short notice and will travel for right circumstances. I look forward to hearing from you and hope to see you soon and have some real fun! Wonderful pic.
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Thanks for sharing that pic...phew! That idiot guy must have really poor eye-sight
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This guy did not understand at any point that I felt uncomfortable when he did this. I did tell him, but he made it seem as though I was somehow being dramatic because, after all, "It's just sex." I finally told him my needs changed and I was looking for something different than he was willing to offer. He still doesn't understand, to this day....
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Thanks for sharing that pic...phew! That idiot guy must have really poor eye-sight
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11/15/2020 3:16 am |
Absolutely stunning Secret_Lade. Such a beautiful sexy pic....would have been a huge turn on for me if you sent me that pic😘 Have you done any sexting efore?
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Nice pic.But I have to say I like the profile pics better. Nice feet and toes. What can I say.Got a bit of a foot and toe fetish!
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Nice pic.But I have to say I like the profile pics better. Nice feet and toes. What can I say.Got a bit of a foot and toe fetish!
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First of all. That is sexy pic and you should be proud of it. Secondly, what he did was horrible, no one should be taken for granted like that. I know when I’m with someone, I give 110% of my attention to that person and expect the same in return. That’s mutual respect. I make sure she feels special because I think she is special. That’s what you deserve also so kudos for ending that relationship. His loss.
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11/11/2020 3:05 am |
Absolutely stunning Secret_Lade. Such a beautiful sexy pic....would have been a huge turn on for me if you sent me that pic😘 Have you done any sexting efore?
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First of all. That is sexy pic and you should be proud of it. Secondly, what he did was horrible, no one should be taken for granted like that. I know when I’m with someone, I give 110% of my attention to that person and expect the same in return. That’s mutual respect. I make sure she feels special because I think she is special. That’s what you deserve also so kudos for ending that relationship. His loss. PLEASE COME AND CHECK OUT MY BLOG AND IF YOU ENJOYED IT LEAVE ME A COMMENT. KEEP IT SEXY!!
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Thanks for sharing. Nice pic. 👍
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a lovely pic..............you deserved better......
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