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Blogs > secret_lade > Ramblings of the depraved.....

And.... Cut!  

secret_lade 49F
14390 posts
10/1/2020 5:59 pm
And.... Cut!

This shit-show of a day is done!

It was a day where I felt I was everywhere and nowhere all at once. A day that I wound up with a million different projects happening and everything managing to find itself on a back-burner for something else....

A day where I had so much to do but managed to get absolutely nothing done.

I HATE days like this.

Days filled with.... "have you got a second?"

Days filled with.... "When you get a moment"

Days filled with.... "I know you're on lunch but"

The highlight of my day was having Nose Hairs yelling at me and pushing a cart at me.

Really???

I don't know what he was angry about, it certainly wasn't me as I hadn't seen him all day, but it fucking pissed me off. There was a non-profit waiting right outside the door wanting to speak to him and this douche bag is trying to injure me with a cart.

I turned on my heel and started walking away.

"What does he want?" He was following behind me.

"I do not know."

"What does he want??"

"I DO NOT know. " I wanted to fucking deck him, I chose to be civil. "It's a non-profit that I just did a for."

I left it at that though, didn't even look in his direction. He was rambling on about something but I'd stopped listening. I just couldn't wait to get the fuck out of his presence.

Nose Hairs crossed a line with me today.

I honestly don't think I can be friendly with him again going forward. This was definitely behavior unbecoming of someone in a leadership position.

Unfortunate for him as I have quite a bit of clout where I work and I'm pretty much his only friend.

HONOLULU365 53M
61 posts
10/3/2020 5:20 pm

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Kisses.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/2/2020 7:46 pm
    Quoting MrWrong4RghtNow:
    I can honestly say I don’t miss working in retail at all. It was never a issue with customers. Navigating peoples needs is easy as long as you shut off your ego and get the job done. Fellow employees and superiors were where my patience was nil. I always worked at a fast pace and had high expectations for my performance at work. I never expected people to match me but hoped my example could pave the way. Sometimes it worked, many times it didn’t.
    What Nose Hairs did is unacceptable under any circumstances. Even if he was having a bad day or suffering some loss, he needs to be told by upper management that he has to hold himself accountable for his inappropriate actions and demeanor. It was his choice to act that way regardless and I hope he receives an official reprimand in his record.
    That or you get to run over him with forklift. Just kidding
I talked about it with my Work BFF before he left yesterday.... He wanted me to go right to his boss and tell her about it. I decided first to touch base with the guy who had been present for the entire interaction to get his input. He, of course, corroborated my story and offered to write a statement. He was able to fill me in on the events that happened before the exchange and what had made him so mad. I happened to catch him at that precise moment he lost his cool. In the end, I chose to not go to his boss, and not take the statement, but I do plan to have the conversation with him on Monday about inappropriate work behavior and my expectation that I will not tolerate this behavior going forward. He didn't work friday, or I would have taken care of it friday.


MrWrong4RghtNow 57M
2439 posts
10/2/2020 5:04 pm

 I can honestly say I don’t miss working in retail at all. It was never a issue with customers. Navigating peoples needs is easy as long as you shut off your ego and get the job done. Fellow employees and superiors were where my patience was nil. I always worked at a fast pace and had high expectations for my performance at work. I never expected people to match me but hoped my example could pave the way. Sometimes it worked, many times it didn’t.
What Nose Hairs did is unacceptable under any circumstances. Even if he was having a bad day or suffering some loss, he needs to be told by upper management that he has to hold himself accountable for his inappropriate actions and demeanor. It was his choice to act that way regardless and I hope he receives an official reprimand in his record.
That or you get to run over him with forklift. Just kidding
My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/2/2020 2:03 pm
    Quoting citizen4722:
    If he carries on like that he won't have any friends at all
    He's a wind-up merchant for sure!
Well, he lost me as a work friend.....


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
10/2/2020 12:58 pm

 If he carries on like that he won't have any friends at all
He's a wind-up merchant for sure!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/2/2020 3:27 am
    Quoting mc_justmc:
    That's unacceptable behavior. I have those days from time to time.
He is an adult man in a work environment that puts him face to face with employees and the public. There is no excuse to ever resort to hostility or violence. Ever.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/2/2020 3:25 am
    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Days like that? Hmmm... I know what you mean.
    THAT'S, not a good line. You can never cross back, regardless of why.
    Doesn't sound good. Are you going to speak with him, or let it rest for a while? I wouldn't be surprised if he realized what he'd done and doesn't come up to you to talk.
    Yeah, no one needs bullshit drama like that to deal with at work.
When stuff like this happens, I always give it 24 hours to see if it's still bothering me. Sometimes I see things in a new light, sometimes I don't. This time I don't. I'm actually going to talk to the 1 person who was present during this to get his perspective of the events and I will probably have a civilized conversation with him about his inappropriate behavior and my expectation that this type of behavior will not happen again.


mc_justmc 63M

10/2/2020 2:49 am

 That's unacceptable behavior. I have those days from time to time.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/2/2020 12:52 am

 Days like that? Hmmm... I know what you mean.
THAT'S, not a good line. You can never cross back, regardless of why.
Doesn't sound good. Are you going to speak with him, or let it rest for a while? I wouldn't be surprised if he realized what he'd done and doesn't come up to you to talk.
Yeah, no one needs bullshit drama like that to deal with at work.


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