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Blogs > secret_lade > Ramblings of the depraved.....

Singles Club... Population One  

secret_lade 49F
14389 posts
4/20/2020 4:16 pm
Singles Club... Population One

And, then there was me.....

The last, solitary member of the workplace singles club.

I feel this honor should come with some sort of trophy or medallion... A badge of honor!

When I had stopped seeing the Hippie, I found myself an honorary member of the newly formed Singes Club with Meme Guy. We were the only 2 coworkers at our peer level who weren't married or otherwise attached, we were the 'singles'.

It was our common thread... Which ended up leading to our friendship.

And now, he is a single no more.

Can I even call it the Singles Club anymore? Is it even a club when there is only one member?

Ugh...

I'm the Lone Single.

Kind of like a super hero... Only, no special powers and a little sad and pathetic.

Instead of a bandito mask, I'll be wearing a COVID-19 mask...

Fantastic

secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/22/2020 2:34 pm
    Quoting  :
Thank you for your sympathies!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/21/2020 3:00 pm
    Quoting travellerabc123:
    Maybe it's not by definition a group...
    But it is definitely by definition single.
    Doesn't get any more single than that.
    One...is the loneliest number...
True story.... That Three Dog Night song popped into my head the minute I titled this post! Now it's running through my head again! LOL


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/21/2020 2:58 pm
    Quoting easy_going2014:
    Hi secret_lade

    thanks for sharing

    I've gone to movies, concerts, baseball games, book signings by myself

    I haven't thought twice about it

    and, it's funny, 'cause when I tell people about the event, they all say, well, why didn't you ask me, of course I had asked them to some of the events

    the way I see it, if I want to do something, I do it, I don't need a crowd around me

    on the love front that becomes a different story

    give this one a listen

    Medina - "You And I" (Deadmau 5 remix)

    Nothing left for me to say, there's no more wicked games to play, it's time for me to walk away, I am all right..

    I feel like I'm on a high, a new beginning that is my life, I'm turning to the rhythm of the night, I am all right..

    The music is making me rowing, the only thing that keeps me awake is me knowing there's no one here to break me or bring me down and no one here to hurt me or fool around.

    I have no more time for you to hurt my feelings, I done enough to prove I am all that I believe in, we are at the end, no more stupid lies, I'm better of without you here by my side..

    So now there is no longer you and I you and I, you and I you and I, you and I you and I, you and i..

    There is no longer you and I you and I, you and I you and I, you and I you and I, you and i

    hmm
I tend to be kind of an introvert.... So, I end up doing a lot of stuff by myself, anyway. I just don't have my ally to commiserate with anymore... Or share bad date stories with now that he's living in his love bubble. LOL It'll be ok.


easy_going2014 57M
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14366 posts
4/21/2020 12:01 pm

 Hi secret_lade

thanks for sharing

I've gone to movies, concerts, baseball games, book signings by myself

I haven't thought twice about it

and, it's funny, 'cause when I tell people about the event, they all say, well, why didn't you ask me, of course I had asked them to some of the events

the way I see it, if I want to do something, I do it, I don't need a crowd around me

on the love front that becomes a different story

give this one a listen

Medina - "You And I" (Deadmau 5 remix)

Nothing left for me to say, there's no more wicked games to play, it's time for me to walk away, I am all right..

I feel like I'm on a high, a new beginning that is my life, I'm turning to the rhythm of the night, I am all right..

The music is making me rowing, the only thing that keeps me awake is me knowing there's no one here to break me or bring me down and no one here to hurt me or fool around.

I have no more time for you to hurt my feelings, I done enough to prove I am all that I believe in, we are at the end, no more stupid lies, I'm better of without you here by my side..

So now there is no longer you and I you and I, you and I you and I, you and I you and I, you and i..

There is no longer you and I you and I, you and I you and I, you and I you and I, you and i

hmm
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travellerabc123 54M
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3989 posts
4/21/2020 6:36 am

 Maybe it's not by definition a group...
But it is definitely by definition single.
Doesn't get any more single than that.
One...is the loneliest number...
Embrace the suck


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/20/2020 11:45 pm
    Quoting tickles4us:
    Well at least you have less exposure...
Lol... Bonus!!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/20/2020 11:44 pm
    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I understand where you're coming from.

    It's a challenge. 🌹
Eh... I'll be fine. I'm really not all that bothered by being a single. It just gets kind of awkward when your friends plan a couple get together, like dinner out or birthday thing, and it's just you. So, I don't end up participating or they don't include me.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/20/2020 11:23 pm
    Quoting mc_justmc:
    trophy?? medallion??? how about a bottle of lube or a dildo?
Can't exactly stick that on my desk at work... Lol


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/20/2020 11:18 pm
    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    Yes it is hard to call a club or group what it is with just one member, but just smile when you have a celebratory drink , you can have any thing of your choice, Have a nice glass of chilled Asti, put on my tab... be safe and Smile..
I'm actually not to broken up about it. It's only weird for me when we talk about getting together as a group outside of work.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/20/2020 11:10 pm
    Quoting ltrskr:
    Watch yourself in the mirror, that way u will have two in ur Group, but keep ur mask on.....lol!
Keep my mask on... Lol 😷


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/20/2020 11:08 pm
    Quoting Owatalife:
    Super Hero's come in many different shapes, sizes & flavours just maybe you haven'y hit your stride yet...sure it will come.
I haven't been trying very hard to 'not' be a single... But that's ok. When it's meant to be, the right guy will come along and I'll be single no more.


Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
4/20/2020 8:39 pm

 Super Hero's come in many different shapes, sizes & flavours just maybe you haven'y hit your stride yet...sure it will come.


ltrskr 75M
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4/20/2020 7:37 pm

 Watch yourself in the mirror, that way u will have two in ur Group, but keep ur mask on.....lol!


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
4/20/2020 7:12 pm

 Yes it is hard to call a club or group what it is with just one member, but just smile when you have a celebratory drink , you can have any thing of your choice, Have a nice glass of chilled Asti, put on my tab... be safe and Smile..
Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


mc_justmc 63M

4/20/2020 5:52 pm

 trophy?? medallion??? how about a bottle of lube or a dildo?


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/20/2020 5:37 pm

 I understand where you're coming from.

It's a challenge. 🌹


tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
4/20/2020 4:50 pm

 Well at least you have less exposure...
Vive La Difference


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