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Wrong on SO many levels!  

secret_lade 49F
14389 posts
4/15/2020 5:19 pm
Wrong on SO many levels!


One of the guys in today's orientation class was openly hitting on .

Really?!

So much WRONG with this scenario....

For starters, he was married. Furthermore, his wife WORKS for us. Top that with he's 11 years younger than I am.

Good lord.....

My Work BFF stopped in my office at the tail end of it all when Mr. Flirt was the last newbie left for give a schedule . I hadn't been paying attention what the two of them were talking about, but when I looked Mr. Flirt was asking if I was going have lunch with him.

I wanted die.

"I've already taken my lunch, sorry."

My Work BFF just stared at .

Egads!!

"I don't think so. I heard you talking on the phone, and I heard you laughing with this guy, but I don't recall you taking lunch."

", but I did! Besides, you're married. Go home your wife."

I tried be as nonchalant as I could, but it was really weird. The Work BFF got a pretty good laugh out of the whole thing. I did not.

On an unrelated side note...

I need some help from my readers. On a couple of different occasions, including just a few moments ago, I've had men tell me I need a 'wish list' so they can worship my feet from afar.

What the heck are they talking about?

Am I missing something?

What am I supposed be wishing for?

Inquiring minds would like know.

secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/16/2020 2:11 pm

    Quoting tickles4us:
    I would expect that his wife knows and it is likely an open relationship or they play together even. Maybe the wife told him about her fantasies she has for the three of you! But yes he obviously has poor judgement to behave that way in a work environment given today's awareness and pushback against such abusive behavior. HR whom ever that may be needs to put a stop to it right away. Make it clear that such behavior is not acceptable.

    I think your attitude against doing the wish list thing is wise given it just opens up means for people to track you down and locate you. Some people start feeling very entitled when giving things to others.
Honestly, I don't think the 2 of them will last very long at work. Both are new, and the wife already has poor attendance. It won't break my heart to see them go.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/16/2020 2:02 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    Wow! He must think he's something special. Tell his wife.
He was a special kind of stupid.... That's for sure.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/16/2020 1:58 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    I can understand the flirting, you're a very good looking girl, but mibbe no' in that setting. Ye should change his name from McFlirt to McBellend!!

    Surely top of your wish list must be bogroll, then hand sanitiser!!

    Be careful mind, some of those guys are total nutters and bamsticks!
LOL Sanitizer and toilet paper.... That totally made me laugh. I also need lysol wipes.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/16/2020 1:53 pm

    Quoting ninehalfdick:
    once you see that about to happen in the future, remind class of sexual harassment in work place. times have changed. you lost about 2-4 class members for doing that, permantley -so back off
Food for thought.... I'll definitely be more prepared if that ever happens again. I was just totally unprepared for something like that.


tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
4/16/2020 9:07 am

I would expect that his wife knows and it is likely an open relationship or they play together even. Maybe the wife told him about her fantasies she has for the three of you! But yes he obviously has poor judgement to behave that way in a work environment given today's awareness and pushback against such abusive behavior. HR whom ever that may be needs to put a stop to it right away. Make it clear that such behavior is not acceptable.

I think your attitude against doing the wish list thing is wise given it just opens up means for people to track you down and locate you. Some people start feeling very entitled when giving things to others.

Vive La Difference


mc_justmc 63M

4/16/2020 6:33 am

Wow! He must think he's something special. Tell his wife.


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
4/16/2020 2:56 am

I can understand the flirting, you're a very good looking girl, but mibbe no' in that setting. Ye should change his name from McFlirt to McBellend!!

Surely top of your wish list must be bogroll, then hand sanitiser!!

Be careful mind, some of those guys are total nutters and bamsticks!


ninehalfdick 63M
2 posts
4/16/2020 2:38 am

once you see that about to happen in the future, remind class of sexual harassment in work place. times have changed. you lost about 2-4 class members for doing that, permantley -so back off


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/16/2020 1:50 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Humm . . . when you give a moral compass for Christmas what is the proper wrapping?
I'm thinking tin foil....


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/16/2020 1:49 am

    Quoting CUMHANDLEME:
    Moral Compass for Christmas … that's hysterical and so appropriate for some people.
This guy definitely needs one!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/16/2020 1:48 am

    Quoting  :

oh.... I'm totally not on here for any kind of financial gain, or gifts. I think I'll definitely pass on the wishlist.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/16/2020 1:45 am

    Quoting Owatalife:
    Sounds like whomever these guys are they all possess very thin skin by the sound of things.
Think skin?


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/16/2020 1:44 am

    Quoting Try4Now44:
    Biggggg balls! Not a smart move.
Definitely not a smart move... If he was willing to do something like that with me, on his very first day in orientation, what is he going to be like 2 months in when he's gotten comfortable with coworkers and really starts to open up? I can already see him getting fired for harassment of some kind.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/16/2020 1:41 am

    Quoting benard69:
    Not sure I would want to know about the foot thing..There are some Bat Shit Crazies on here...
I've encountered a few of the crazies... I just avoid them.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/16/2020 1:39 am

    Quoting AnewWoman:
    You kind of expect that stuff from married men here, but at work, that totally sucks. I once was at a customer's home and while his wife was in another room the ass wipe hit on me. I just gave him the evil eye and wanted so much to tell his wife, but didn't.
At work, totally didn't expect it. Some people are flirty by nature, but it's usually light hearted and you know it isn't meant to be taken seriously. This situation was definitely not leaving me feeling very good, which I hate. Even though I didn't do a thing wrong, I felt as though I had. I will likely not say anything to anyone, my Work BFF was there to witness a piece of it at the end, thank God.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/16/2020 1:32 am

    Quoting japaneseass:
    some people are just flirty in general...i get it...even in the wrong place...and that puts us in awkward situation... i wonder if he cares if his wife acted in the similar manner toward other male co-workers...ya know??? oh phuck, prolly he doesn't care, huh? what is this, are they in an open relationship??? sorry i don't do that at work...ya know??? i can't afford to lose my work, especially right now...
I know what you mean, I never mix work with romantic situations. There is just too much at stake. In my position, I can't actually have a relationship with any of my coworkers as it is frowned upon by the company.

He was way to comfortable with the flirting thing... He didn't even seem the least bit worried about it. I wondered, myself, if they were in an open relationship.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
4/16/2020 1:26 am

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    Holy crap! Can you fire the new guy for sexual harassment? Maybe have Santa give him a moral compass for Christmas....NOW?
Thankfully I won't be working with this guy at all... He's on a completely different shift. It was definitely an unpleasant experience for me, I ended up shooting out an email to his leaders and politely let them know to kind of keep an eye on his behaviors, in case he did this to anyone else going forward.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
4/15/2020 9:20 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    Holy crap! Can you fire the new guy for sexual harassment? Maybe have Santa give him a moral compass for Christmas....NOW?
Humm . . . when you give a moral compass for Christmas what is the proper wrapping?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
4/15/2020 9:16 pm

Moral Compass for Christmas … that's hysterical and so appropriate for some people.

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
4/15/2020 8:27 pm

Sounds like whomever these guys are they all possess very thin skin by the sound of things.


Try4Now44 50M

4/15/2020 7:50 pm

Biggggg balls! Not a smart move.


benard69 66M/66F  

4/15/2020 7:16 pm

Not sure I would want to know about the foot thing..There are some Bat Shit Crazies on here...


AnewWoman 65F
273 posts
4/15/2020 7:00 pm

You kind of expect that stuff from married men here, but at work, that totally sucks. I once was at a customer's home and while his wife was in another room the ass wipe hit on me. I just gave him the evil eye and wanted so much to tell his wife, but didn't.


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
4/15/2020 6:58 pm

some people are just flirty in general...i get it...even in the wrong place...and that puts us in awkward situation... i wonder if he cares if his wife acted in the similar manner toward other male co-workers...ya know??? oh phuck, prolly he doesn't care, huh? what is this, are they in an open relationship??? sorry i don't do that at work...ya know??? i can't afford to lose my work, especially right now...


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
4/15/2020 6:04 pm

Holy crap! Can you fire the new guy for sexual harassment? Maybe have Santa give him a moral compass for Christmas....NOW?

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


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