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The Man / Woman Dynamic
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The Man / Woman Dynamic Went to the gym tonight. Another scintillating Saturday night!! A coworker who I eat lunch with several days a week showed up with her husband to work out. While she did stop to say hi to me and exchange a few pleasantries, she really had no interest in talking to me. Her main point of conversation was that she did find someone to go to the gym with and she was meeting her AT the gym in a few minutes. Nice... I chose to not let it bother me, even when the two of them hopped on the treadmills farthest from me. They both know me, we all work together. When the cool down ended, I stepped off the treadmill and looked around for the spray and a rag to wipe down the machine. My spawn was useless then I asked her to hand me the ones that were next to her, so I shot her a glare and said never mind. At this point, I was starting to feel that sinking feeling set in. The... Why in the hell doesn't anybody like me?? feeling.... "Hi!!" A guy who had been working out was enthusiasticlly saying hi to me. In his outstretched hand was a spray bottle and rag, he had a giant smile on his face. "Thank you" I smiled back. He looked very familiar to me, I think it may have been someone I went to school with a million years ago, or perhaps someone who frequents the store where I work. Which brings me to the topic of my post. The Man / Woman dynamic. Why were the women who I WORK with so unfriendly? Why was the work-out guy SO friendly? |
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2/10/2020 3:34 pm |
just an update... The coworkers from the gym sought me out to talk to me today. They were excited to see me at the gym, but unsure of whether or not I was a 'gym talker', so they didn't want to glom onto me... But they invited me to work out with them tonight.
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just an update... The coworkers from the gym sought me out to talk to me today. They were excited to see me at the gym, but unsure of whether or not I was a 'gym talker', so they didn't want to glom onto me... But they invited me to work out with them tonight.
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2/9/2020 6:05 pm |
Not even close. LOL Grey leggings with a white shirt, white sports bra. Grey hoodie jacket.
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I'm quite sure that it will come to you if you do know him, and quite sure he does want you...a nice, professional, mature woman...hard to come by 
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That is so sad that your female co-workers treated you so poorly....in regards to the guy...I am sure he was attracted to you ...since you had black leggings on, sports bra with spaghetti strap top with a t-shirt over it😉 Grey leggings with a white shirt, white sports bra. Grey hoodie jacket.
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not sure about the women, maybe jealousy? the guy, maybe wanted you lolol He was attractive, it wouldn't be a terrible thing if he did want me. LOL
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I saw a meme on FB a while back.... Something like "not all the people you work with are friends, go to work, get paid, go home". Maybe that's it? I'm not that way, but can see some being that way. As for the guy, maybe he has an interest in you? Easier said than done... But it has always been my goal to be able to do that.
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I saw a meme on FB a while back.... Something like "not all the people you work with are friends, go to work, get paid, go home". Maybe that's it? I'm not that way, but can see some being that way. As for the guy, maybe he has an interest in you?
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not sure about the women, maybe jealousy? the guy, maybe wanted you lolol
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2/9/2020 3:01 am |
That is so sad that your female co-workers treated you so poorly....in regards to the guy...I am sure he was attracted to you ...since you had black leggings on, sports bra with spaghetti strap top with a t-shirt over it😉
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Some people have totally different personalities when they are at work as opposed to when they're not. That's one of the reasons I rarely ever socialize with anyone I know from work. Maybe work-out guy likes you? Or he's just the friendly, helpful type.
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You must not remember Junior HS and High School. The woman [your coworker friend]? She is with her husband this time. Did this "Other" woman show up? The other possibility may be she wants to keep work-time-friends separate from her daily social life.
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because men are nice and women be bitches, you see what we have to put up with? Knowing that, can you believe we dare to put our dicks in their mouths?  scary shit man, scary scary shit...
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thanks for sharing Why were the women who I WORK with so unfriendly? I can't answer this question However, some people at work are just there to get a paycheck they are not there to make friends or establish long-binding relationships I know that I cannot please everyone, some people enjoy my company I must remind myself that there are over 7 billion people on the planet, someone is going to like me, and, when they do, I must nurture that relationship with time and effort In business, acquiring a new customer can cost five times more than retaining an existing customer, so with people wouldn't a similar analogy make sense? And, some studies show that some companies dedicate at least 50 to 75 percent of their marketing budget to customer retention. If we nurtured our friends or people that are positive influences in our life, maybe, we would spend less time seeking new people just sayin' Why was the work-out guy SO friendly? to some, being friendly to strangers is so much easier, because you don't have any baggage to deal with, and you are on your best behavior, you say the right things, put on a happy face and are nice reminded me of this John Mayer - "I'm Gonna Find Another You" It's really over You made your stand You got me crying As was your plan But when my loneliness is through I'm gonna find another you You take your sweaters You take your time You might have your reasons But you will never have my rhyme I'm gonna sing my way away from blue I'm gonna find another you When I was your lover No one else would do If I'm forced to find another I hope she looks like you Yeah, and she's nicer too So go on, baby Make your little getaway My pride will keep me company And you just gave yours all away Oh, now I'm gonna dress myself for two Once for me, and once for someone new I'm gonna do some things you wouldn't let me do I'm gonna find another you They need you, but you don't need them.
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Maybe you look so good that the women that work with you are jealous or feel threatened. Likewise, you have said in a previous post that you are so much better than the others at your job. That too creates some nastiness. The stranger clearly thought you look good and made the move. If I was him, I'd be trying to get into your knickers too as a follow on from that. Lots of people like you here, so never think that they dont. Have a lovely day. X
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Do not worry about them. You have tons of people who love you; just look around you. I typically don’t socialize with my co-workers outside of work. I can my business live and my family/ friend live separate.
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Do not worry about them. You have tons of people who love you; just look around you. I typically don’t socialize with my co-workers outside of work. I can my business live and my family/ friend live separate. Horny02451
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2/8/2020 9:36 pm |
Maybe you look so good that the women that work with you are jealous or feel threatened. Likewise, you have said in a previous post that you are so much better than the others at your job. That too creates some nastiness. The stranger clearly thought you look good and made the move. If I was him, I'd be trying to get into your knickers too as a follow on from that. Lots of people like you here, so never think that they dont. Have a lovely day. X
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thanks for sharing Why were the women who I WORK with so unfriendly? I can't answer this question However, some people at work are just there to get a paycheck they are not there to make friends or establish long-binding relationships I know that I cannot please everyone, some people enjoy my company I must remind myself that there are over 7 billion people on the planet, someone is going to like me, and, when they do, I must nurture that relationship with time and effort In business, acquiring a new customer can cost five times more than retaining an existing customer, so with people wouldn't a similar analogy make sense? And, some studies show that some companies dedicate at least 50 to 75 percent of their marketing budget to customer retention. If we nurtured our friends or people that are positive influences in our life, maybe, we would spend less time seeking new people just sayin' Why was the work-out guy SO friendly? to some, being friendly to strangers is so much easier, because you don't have any baggage to deal with, and you are on your best behavior, you say the right things, put on a happy face and are nice reminded me of this John Mayer - "I'm Gonna Find Another You" It's really over You made your stand You got me crying As was your plan But when my loneliness is through I'm gonna find another you You take your sweaters You take your time You might have your reasons But you will never have my rhyme I'm gonna sing my way away from blue I'm gonna find another you When I was your lover No one else would do If I'm forced to find another I hope she looks like you Yeah, and she's nicer too So go on, baby Make your little getaway My pride will keep me company And you just gave yours all away Oh, now I'm gonna dress myself for two Once for me, and once for someone new I'm gonna do some things you wouldn't let me do I'm gonna find another you To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!! 
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2/8/2020 8:07 pm |
because men are nice and women be bitches, you see what we have to put up with? Knowing that, can you believe we dare to put our dicks in their mouths? scary shit man, scary scary shit...
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You must not remember Junior HS and High School. The woman [your coworker friend]? She is with her husband this time. Did this "Other" woman show up? The other possibility may be she wants to keep work-time-friends separate from her daily social life.
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Some people have totally different personalities when they are at work as opposed to when they're not. That's one of the reasons I rarely ever socialize with anyone I know from work. Maybe work-out guy likes you? Or he's just the friendly, helpful type. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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Maybe you female coworker is intimidated by you?
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Maybe you female coworker is intimidated by you?
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Sounds like your co work couple has a stick up their ass so not much of a loss there... 
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