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Age.... What's in a number?
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Age.... What's in a number? Let's be honest... When you are attracted to someone, you are attracted to them. Young, old, in between.... It doesn't matter in the slightest. If you are attracted to them and they ask you , you say yes with enthusiasm. It doesn't matter HOW old they are, you've been eyeing them from afar, flirting with them, imagining the two of you naked beneath the sheets. Attraction has nothing to do with a physical . I receive a lot of messages from local men where I live. Most of them are crass and arrogant, containing the obligatory cock shot asking if I want to fuck his 8, , inches..... I don't respond to that stuff. The funny thing is, they will keep trying. , worded slighty different, old, tired photo of his cock. I don't delete anything, so it all continues to save on the . There is one persistent guy, now, is convinced we should hook up because he wants to be my partner in crime. The age on his profile? It started at 40, became 47.... And when I asked him what his true age is because I'd seen it at several different numbers, he returned with 52. Now, we don't actually know if he really is 52, do we? If a person can be dishonest about his age, he can probably be dishonest about his marital status, his job, where he lives..... Yah, he's not even a consideration. But, here's the thing.... I do have a type, have always had a type. It may be because I was raised by my grandparents and spent most of my childhood around people were + years older than I was, but I have always been attracted to older men. My ex- husband, I spent years with and had 3 with, was years older than I was. Did that stop me from seeing the Hippie, was younger than I was? Nope. Why? Because age is just a , and while he wasn't someone I would initially consider to be my type, I was attracted to him. While I know my thoughts don't really make a difference in the whole grand scheme of things.... It would be nice to see a little honesty for a change. Real ages.... Current photos... |
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Guys can be deceiving...because most of them want one thing...sex...and they will do almost anything to have it. In regards to the real ages and current photos...it would be nice if men were more sincere and honest.
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You are correct. Age is just a number. I normally find myself attracted you younger women, but there have been a few my age or older. As for age on this site, who knows! With as many glitches as there are, you could put in one age and your page say another! The bad thing about being online..... you never know if anything is the truth!!
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You are correct. Age is just a number. I normally find myself attracted you younger women, but there have been a few my age or older. As for age on this site, who knows! With as many glitches as there are, you could put in one age and your page say another! The bad thing about being online..... you never know if anything is the truth!!
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2/9/2020 3:07 am |
Guys can be deceiving...because most of them want one thing...sex...and they will do almost anything to have it. In regards to the real ages and current photos...it would be nice if men were more sincere and honest.
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Age is indeed just a number
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2/9/2020 2:03 am |
Age is indeed just a number
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Very intelligent, well-written
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2/8/2020 2:38 pm |
Very intelligent, well-written
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I'll bet you have....
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when I was "dating", not even trying now, I was 51-52 and I was with women as young as 30 and as old as 68. Age didn't matter to me, but the older women really forced me to keep the lube within reach. I turn the big 60 this year and I know that puts me on the other side of a red line for a lot of women, so I doubt my "dating" situation will improve.
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I can almost see someone lying about a marital status to get some, but age? what is the point of that, if you do end up meeting, it's going to show lol
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I liked this post "Type" over the years we tweak this or remove that from our wish list from the things that we hold dear and, there it is, the ever evolving "type" that is us from the day we are able to identify the behaviors we like we continue to make menta notes of this look, that cologne, that neckline, the smile, the laugh that soothes us the moments of silence that we long to hear sweet nothings whispered in our ear or all of the other things that say he or she is ok reminded me of this "...I've got to let you know You're one of my kind..." INXS - "Need You Tonight" Come over here All you got is this moment The twenty-first century's yesterday You can care all you want Everybody does yeah that's okay So slide over here And give me a moment Your moves are so raw I've got to let you know I've got to let you know You're one of my kind I need you tonight 'Cause I'm not sleeping There's something about you girl That makes me sweat How do you feel I'm lonely What do you think Can't take it all What ya gonna do Gonna live my life So slide over here And give me a moment Your moves are so raw I've got to let you know I've got to let you know You're one of my kind
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2/8/2020 7:46 am |
when I was "dating", not even trying now, I was 51-52 and I was with women as young as 30 and as old as 68. Age didn't matter to me, but the older women really forced me to keep the lube within reach. I turn the big 60 this year and I know that puts me on the other side of a red line for a lot of women, so I doubt my "dating" situation will improve.
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Yeah, the lying about the age thing really is a red flag. I'll admit I rule people out based on age.... mostly because my experiences have taught me that I don't have much in common with a man more than 8-10 years younger than me and I like to have a relationship that has more than just fucking involved. On the other side, I'm 52, and most men more than 5 or 6 years older than me usually have an "old" feel to them... fit or not, their skin feels and smells a certain way and more often than not, there's a definitive feel of patronizing and misogynistic thinking from them. I don't think I have a type... the younger I was, the more of an age difference I'd accept. Now I'm stuck in the middle between the hotties I have nothing in common socially with and the oldsters that I have nothing in common socially with. My pool is small but I'm happy with what I catch fortunately!  I look a lot younger than I am, which means, in the real world, the guys who tend to flirt with me now are younger. The men who attract my attention though, are older.
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I can almost see someone lying about a marital status to get some, but age? what is the point of that, if you do end up meeting, it's going to show lol
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I liked this post "Type" over the years we tweak this or remove that from our wish list from the things that we hold dear and, there it is, the ever evolving "type" that is us from the day we are able to identify the behaviors we like we continue to make menta notes of this look, that cologne, that neckline, the smile, the laugh that soothes us the moments of silence that we long to hear sweet nothings whispered in our ear or all of the other things that say he or she is ok reminded me of this "...I've got to let you know You're one of my kind..." INXS - "Need You Tonight" Come over here All you got is this moment The twenty-first century's yesterday You can care all you want Everybody does yeah that's okay So slide over here And give me a moment Your moves are so raw I've got to let you know I've got to let you know You're one of my kind I need you tonight 'Cause I'm not sleeping There's something about you girl That makes me sweat How do you feel I'm lonely What do you think Can't take it all What ya gonna do Gonna live my life So slide over here And give me a moment Your moves are so raw I've got to let you know I've got to let you know You're one of my kind To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!! 
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Yeah, the lying about the age thing really is a red flag. I'll admit I rule people out based on age.... mostly because my experiences have taught me that I don't have much in common with a man more than 8-10 years younger than me and I like to have a relationship that has more than just fucking involved. On the other side, I'm 52, and most men more than 5 or 6 years older than me usually have an "old" feel to them... fit or not, their skin feels and smells a certain way and more often than not, there's a definitive feel of patronizing and misogynistic thinking from them. I don't think I have a type... the younger I was, the more of an age difference I'd accept. Now I'm stuck in the middle between the hotties I have nothing in common socially with and the oldsters that I have nothing in common socially with. My pool is small but I'm happy with what I catch fortunately!
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Let's be honest... When you are attracted to someone, you are attracted to them. Young, old, in between.... It doesn't matter in the slightest. If you are attracted to them and they ask you out, you say yes with enthusiasm. It doesn't matter HOW old they are, you've been eyeing them from afar, flirting with them, imagining the two of you naked beneath the sheets. Attraction has nothing to do with a physical number. I receive a lot of messages from local men where I live. Most of them are crass and arrogant, containing the obligatory cock shot asking if I want to fuck his 8, 10, 12 inches..... I don't respond to that stuff. The funny thing is, they will keep trying. Same message, worded slighty different, old, tired photo of his cock. I don't delete anything, so it all continues to save on the original message. There is one persistent guy, now, who is convinced we should hook up because he wants to be my partner in crime. The age on his profile? It started at 40, became 47.... And when I asked him what his true age is because I'd seen it at several different numbers, he returned with 52. Now, we don't actually know if he really is 52, do we? If a person can be dishonest about his age, he can probably be dishonest about his marital status, his job, where he lives..... Yah, he's not even a consideration. But, here's the thing.... I do have a type, have always had a type. It may be because I was raised by my grandparents and spent most of my childhood around people were 10+ years older than I was, but I have always been attracted to older men. My ex- husband, who I spent 17 years with and had 3 children with, was 17 years older than I was. Did that stop me from seeing the Hippie, was younger than I was? Nope. Why? Because age is just a number, and while he wasn't someone I would initially consider to be my type, I was attracted to him. While I know my thoughts don't really make a difference in the whole grand scheme of things.... It would be nice to see a little honesty for a change. Real ages.... Current photos..
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