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Suck it up, Buttercup!  

secret_lade 49F
14311 posts
1/10/2020 3:39 pm
Suck it up, Buttercup!


You pushed the crazy button....

After getting absolutely no sleep last night, I wasn't in the best of moods today at work.

Top that off with 4 hours of new hire orientation in a room the size of a thimble with the heat set on blazing inferno....

I was a ticking time bomb when Boss #1 popped his head into my office to lecture me about leaving the conference room door open.

Not only did he shush me, he stepped back a full step when I unleashed my wrath on him.

Needless to say, he didn't speak to me for the rest of the day. I'm pretty sure he was afraid.

Prick.... That's what you get for pushing the crazy button.

fwblook4unow 48M

1/21/2020 2:04 am

Secret_lade

You had every right to respond to your boss. I cant imagine how hot the room would have been if the door was shut.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
1/11/2020 12:57 pm

Hi secret_lade

thanks for sharing this work story

like you, I've stood my ground and said my peace and counted to three (Oh Brother where art thou)

I try to be calm, patient

but, it is hard

we don't know what is going on in everyone's head

made me think of this one

Vershon - "On and Off Switch"

One Time
A no just now, dem a fight me a long, long, long time, yeah
Can't stop me, can't stop me flow, yeah
Can't stop me, can't stop me flow, yeah
Ooh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

Me ears have an on and off switch
So when me hear the pagans a talk shit
Me just turn dem off, turn dem off
Turn dem off, me just turn dem off
A the Most High God me walk with
So me no waste my time 'pon crosses
Me just turn dem off, turn dem off
Turn dem off, me just turn dem off

Weh dem a say, weh dem a say from man a money life
Nah gi' dem me energy plus me bloody time
Nuff a dem a bow out, a so man go behind crosses and parasite
A weh dem coming like?
But Mobay say a badman thing
So no bwoy cyaan violate Shabdon thing
We out here, real top ranking
And the Queffa boss nah stop win

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secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/11/2020 5:19 am

    Quoting LakeRidgeBBWSeek:
    Retired here, so all I have to worry about is my FWB doing something crazy that I have to deal with! I was a boss many times, never really liked it tho. I had several bosses that I didnt like also, only one that ever put 'moves' on me, an older widowed woman who made her desires well known to me any time we worked alone together. We had a few after work sessions in her office, she was pretty good, and her age didnt turn me off, was 10 years my senior, and am betting her hubby was well satisfied when alive, by her. Of course, as far as I know, she had no idea I was also having funn with two of my co-workers, one of whom was married, the other was engaged. both had good reason to keep our funn secret.
I have always refrained from having workplace relationships.... In my current position fraternization is not allowed and I could lose my job. Doing the single mom thing, so I can't afford to push that envelope. I have seen so many workplace relationships go terribly wrong....


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/11/2020 5:16 am

    Quoting  :

It does, and it doesn't. Boss #1 can really make your work life miserable if he so chooses.... We usually get along fairly well, even with all his craziness.


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
1/11/2020 4:08 am

Retired here, so all I have to worry about is my FWB doing something crazy that I have to deal with! I was a boss many times, never really liked it tho. I had several bosses that I didnt like also, only one that ever put 'moves' on me, an older widowed woman who made her desires well known to me any time we worked alone together. We had a few after work sessions in her office, she was pretty good, and her age didnt turn me off, was 10 years my senior, and am betting her hubby was well satisfied when alive, by her. Of course, as far as I know, she had no idea I was also having funn with two of my co-workers, one of whom was married, the other was engaged. both had good reason to keep our funn secret.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/10/2020 9:44 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    just glad that stuff is all in my past. retirement is nice, I have the best boss, I even give me days off , sometimes a week at a time.. but I don't pay for it..
Lucky you.... I have many years before I can even think about that.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/10/2020 9:43 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    Take no prisoners!
    And don't leave any evidence behind.
I like your spirit!! Rawr!!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/10/2020 9:42 pm

    Quoting dpguy1957:
    Hope you don't get a DCM notice (don't come Monday)
No, nothing like that. I'm respectful, even when angry. I just let him know my frustrations.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/10/2020 9:40 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    3 times today I had a supervisor go off "to me" about one of my crew members and it got annoying even if it wasn't about me. I guess everyone wanted to vent to me. I hope you and your boss get past this. I like hearing about y'alls interactions.
We will, this happens periodically. I can only deal with crazy for so long before I join in.... Lol.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/10/2020 9:38 pm

    Quoting purpleman2986:
    Yes Some bosses have no situational awareness before they make comment. They’re clueless.
He's definitely one of them.... all he sees is what he wants to look at and the only situation that matters is the one he is in currently.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/10/2020 9:36 pm

    Quoting SirlickalotNM:
    That crazy button can be some scary stuff and when it gets pushed you don't forget it, even years later. Your posts don't disappoint.
I really do normally try to roll with it all, I just had a really short fuse today. The good thing about him is, he can usually roll with thos, too. It doesn't happen very often.... and he knows that.


SirlickalotNM 61M  
147 posts
1/10/2020 9:00 pm

That crazy button can be some scary stuff and when it gets pushed you don't forget it, even years later. Your posts don't disappoint.


purpleman2986 49M  
133 posts
1/10/2020 7:25 pm

Yes Some bosses have no situational awareness before they make comment. They’re clueless.


mc_justmc 63M

1/10/2020 7:22 pm

3 times today I had a supervisor go off "to me" about one of my crew members and it got annoying even if it wasn't about me. I guess everyone wanted to vent to me. I hope you and your boss get past this. I like hearing about y'alls interactions.


dpguy1957 67M  
501 posts
1/10/2020 5:53 pm

Hope you don't get a DCM notice (don't come Monday)


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
1/10/2020 5:19 pm

Take no prisoners!
And don't leave any evidence behind.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
1/10/2020 5:02 pm

just glad that stuff is all in my past. retirement is nice, I have the best boss, I even give me days off , sometimes a week at a time.. but I don't pay for it..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/10/2020 4:48 pm

It takes a lot for me to get to this mad.... So if I do, you deserve the wrath.


stopbyandsayboo 52M
1295 posts
1/10/2020 4:44 pm

Heck. I am afraid just reading the LOL

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/10/2020 4:43 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Eeeee.... scary stuff 😮.
    I've always been impressed when the "quiet" one in the office - would let it all out. Always 'scary'. 😶

    Hey... nothing wrong with posting your blog in the 'comments section' as well. It won't get butchered. 👌👍😎
I posted it there today.... The gremlins do seem to be getting worse and worse.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
1/10/2020 4:42 pm

Suck it up, Buttercup!

You pushed the crazy button....

After getting absolutely no sleep last night, I wasn't in the best of moods today at work.

Top that off with 4 hours of new hire orientation in a room the size of a thimble with the heat set on blazing inferno....

I was a ticking time bomb when Boss #1 popped his head into my office to lecture me about leaving the conference room door open.

Not only did he shush me, he stepped back a full step when I unleashed my wrath on him.

Needless to say, he didn't speak to me for the rest of the day. I'm pretty sure he was afraid.

Prick.... That's what you get for pushing the crazy button


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
1/10/2020 4:33 pm

Eeeee.... scary stuff 😮.
I've always been impressed when the "quiet" one in the office - would let it all out. Always 'scary'. 😶

Hey... nothing wrong with posting your blog in the 'comments section' as well. It won't get butchered. 👌👍😎


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