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Blogs > secret_lade > Ramblings of the depraved.....

How do you know they're your peeps?  

secret_lade 49F
14390 posts
11/26/2019 3:14 pm
How do you know they're your peeps?

They come to check on you when you only give them a thumbs up on their meme.

I was trying to help the most annoying person I've ever had the displeasure of working with log onto the computer for the millionth time today when Meme Guy showed up in the door.

Me - Hey, what's up?

Meme Guy - Just wanted to come check on you, make sure you're ok. I had a feeling something was up when you only thumbs-up'ed my meme yesterday.

Me - Aww.... I was just having a bad day. You know how I love those cat memes.

Sadly, I really do. I laugh at just about all of them.

Meme Guy - Ok, just checking.

The<b> weird </font></b>thing is, the common thread between Meme Guy and I is that we are both single. We've talked many times, including today, about the struggles of being our age and single.

It kind of sucks.

If he doesn't quit coming up with those depressing statistics on whether or not we will ever find love, going to have to myself.

But, I digress....

So Meme guy revealed to me that he had taken himself off all of his dating sites and decided to it quits. My heart literally went to him, he just seemed so sad. He's such a nice guy, I just wish he could find the right guy for him.

BTW - My friend that I had tried to get him together with, completely toying with him. Doesn't want to hang with him but sends him naked pictures of himself.

I feel disappointed in my friend.

secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/27/2019 3:47 pm
    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Okay... but gay men have sex with women , too..... we just call them bisexual [if he does] for some goofy reason. But they're still gay.
You're right..... it's true. I just know, I don't see him in a romantic way. I'm really certain he doesn't see me in that way either.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
11/27/2019 3:34 pm
    Quoting secret_lade:
    Believe me... nothing stupid going on with the sad, lonely gay guy. Just good friends. I like sex way to much to be with someone who would not be able to have sex with me.
Okay... but gay men have sex with women , too..... we just call them bisexual [if he does] for some goofy reason. But they're still gay.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/27/2019 3:29 pm
    Quoting KX450F2016:
    I can relate to that guy. I have pretty much given up after 2 marriages. I've never had any luck with women...... and I settled for the 2nd one.... never again. LOL So not sure how things will play out in the future. a FWB would be nice tho! LOL
Settling isn't good.... never works out. I settled for the last guy I was seeing.... I ended up unhappy and hurting him.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/27/2019 3:26 pm
    Quoting Heathen_G:
    I have no idea why you, or your gay friend, are so sad about being single.... and your friend, nobody wants a sad nice guy.

    You're not tied to anyone, you can do whatever your want, see whoever you want, go where ever you want. Take off on a day trip at the very moment of having the idea of taking a day, or weekend, trip......

    Being single is the most freedom you will ever have in your entire life. Do something fun! Do something that makes you grow in an enlightened way.

    Seriously now.... nobody is going to be attracted to sad lonely [feeling] people.

    You said your heart goes out to nice sad lonely gay guy.... don't do anything stupid.
    If , for some odd reason, you two decide to get together, that would be a mistake.
    Then you would both only become dependent on the other to keep your spirits up... and that doesn't work out. Not good for you either.

    Come on..get off your ass...
Believe me... nothing stupid going on with the sad, lonely gay guy. Just good friends. I like sex way to much to be with someone who would not be able to have sex with me.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
11/27/2019 5:00 am

 I have no idea why you, or your gay friend, are so sad about being single.... and your friend, nobody wants a sad nice guy.

You're not tied to anyone, you can do whatever your want, see whoever you want, go where ever you want. Take off on a day trip at the very moment of having the idea of taking a day, or weekend, trip......

Being single is the most freedom you will ever have in your entire life. Do something fun! Do something that makes you grow in an enlightened way.

Seriously now.... nobody is going to be attracted to sad lonely [feeling] people.

You said your heart goes out to nice sad lonely gay guy.... don't do anything stupid.
If , for some odd reason, you two decide to get together, that would be a mistake.
Then you would both only become dependent on the other to keep your spirits up... and that doesn't work out. Not good for you either.

Come on..get off your ass...


KX450F2016 55M
193 posts
11/27/2019 4:08 am

 I can relate to that guy. I have pretty much given up after 2 marriages. I've never had any luck with women...... and I settled for the 2nd one.... never again. LOL So not sure how things will play out in the future. a FWB would be nice tho! LOL


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/26/2019 8:24 pm

 I just wish it had been a little better outcome.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/26/2019 8:20 pm
    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    All one can do is try, like it has been said, you tried,,Have a good day
Yep.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/26/2019 8:20 pm
    Quoting 303naughtyplay:
    You have to gamble to some degree and find out the hard way. All there is to it.
Yep, you're right. Sometimes you just have to take a chance....


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/26/2019 8:17 pm
    Quoting easy_going2014:
    you know that they're your peeps because they take you out to lunch to your fave restaurant on your birthday, and, they buy you two birthday cakes to celebrate, when only one would be needed

    and, those that missed out promise to take you to Baby Doll's and bowling over the weekend

    that's how you know who your peeps are, and, they don't expect anything in return

    just sayin'

    reminded me of this

    Shabazz Palaces - "Shine a Light"

    Shine a light
    It's seven, it's heavy, it's heaven
    It's seven, it's heavy, it's heaven

    Shine a light on the fake
    This way my peeps can have it all
    Shine a light on the fake
    This way my peeps can have it all...
You sound like you have some amazing peeps. That's a lot of birthday cake.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/26/2019 8:14 pm
    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I've watched too many episodes of Dateline and Forensic Files to ever have a serious relationship again. It's just gonna end in my death for some insurance money.
On my.... Lol. You must have some good insurance.


mc_justmc 63M

11/26/2019 7:47 pm

 I've watched too many episodes of Dateline and Forensic Files to ever have a serious relationship again. It's just gonna end in my death for some insurance money.


easy_going2014 57M
Ask me for a photo
14366 posts
11/26/2019 6:52 pm

 you know that they're your peeps because they take you out to lunch to your fave restaurant on your birthday, and, they buy you two birthday cakes to celebrate, when only one would be needed

and, those that missed out promise to take you to Baby Doll's and bowling over the weekend

that's how you know who your peeps are, and, they don't expect anything in return

just sayin'

reminded me of this

Shabazz Palaces - "Shine a Light"

Shine a light
It's seven, it's heavy, it's heaven
It's seven, it's heavy, it's heaven

Shine a light on the fake
This way my peeps can have it all
Shine a light on the fake
This way my peeps can have it all...
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Good luck!!!


303naughtyplay 36M

11/26/2019 6:50 pm

 You have to gamble to some degree and find out the hard way. All there is to it.


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
11/26/2019 6:39 pm

 All one can do is try, like it has been said, you tried,,Have a good day
Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


369plusmore 59M

11/26/2019 4:27 pm

 You did what a good friend does.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/26/2019 3:51 pm
    Quoting  :
He's really a very nice guy who is just looking for a partner in life.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
11/26/2019 3:33 pm
    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Well... ya did your best. 😊 👍
I did.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
11/26/2019 3:32 pm

 Well... ya did your best. 😊 👍


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