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Thinking of leaving seriously....  

bluangel733 50F
66 posts
6/27/2019 12:08 pm

Last Read:
11/19/2021 6:35 am

Thinking of leaving seriously....


I am , because I'm tired of meeting up and then the guys running off with some excuse. Maybe it's valid but this point it's happened too much and is flat out hurtful. So one day in a complete moment of clarity I thought why am I subjecting myself to this shit. I believe attractive ... i mean yeah not perfect but who cares.

XXXXNormOOOO 49M

11/25/2021 5:28 pm

Will give me a chance? I wont run away. I looked at your photos and you are beautiful! I mean that!
If you are still in Lima, Ohio I would like to go on a date with you?


Yours_4A_knight 59M

7/4/2019 4:11 pm

I have given up on meeting anyone through here . . well that is not the whole truth I have accepted that I am not attractive enough for women so I am just giving up on meeting anyone

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


backpocket13 50M
9007 posts
6/30/2019 4:54 am

Hey Darlin,
..........I don’t blame You one bit,.........Most of the people on this site are like School on a Saturday,.........No fuckin’ Class!.........That’s why I come here only to Blog,..........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
6/27/2019 6:48 pm

Found the love of your life and are attached.Sounds like you have it made.
What is it exactly that you are doing that makes them treat you as smarter than they are?Besides already having someone and looking for something on the side.

Using more than all the road!


davao68 73M

6/27/2019 3:44 pm

it's the nature of the beast- I think you know where the men hang out- this is a lazy way to meet anyone- I go to dance clubs- country western dance clubs- it's a closer environment when you dance and the women there can see you actually can move- lol


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
6/27/2019 3:02 pm

Only you can decide if you want / should stay.


flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
6/27/2019 2:26 pm

You just need to factor in for the brainless element on here- keyboard warriors and teasers who stand up those they agree to meet and stick to the non-negotiable traits and requirements and standards you seek

That could lead to leaving usre, and I am tempted almost daily to chuck this site and its daily velocity decline. However, shite though this is now, I;m not sure other sites, overtly sex based or vanilla dating based, are any better. Nor is outside life any easier, hence so many on here and trying online to connect with someone

Rejection, for whatever reason, spurious or otherwise, is horrible, but we men especially are expected to handle it no matter how often it is dished out to us, so I'm afraid you just need to cope with it and try not to be overly bitter and stay true to you and believe in you- even if that means no success on here, because it's far more important than anything this site has to offer


SexySexySophie 41F
1989 posts
6/27/2019 1:53 pm

I took a look at your profile before commenting. Your photographs show that you are very pretty, but it also does not in any way conceal the fact that you are a BBW. So those guys are morons. Seriously, you could put Cindy Crawford on this site and she would get some moron putting her down...

From reading your profile, it looks like you have met at least one person that worked out from the site. So there are some good ones out there. Just gotta keep at it firing away, I suppose. But I'm not one to talk. I'm often very discouraged after having a couple of bad meets and I don't meet anyone for a couple of months or more.


bitchkitty2017 71F

6/27/2019 1:13 pm

agree hang in there send out an ice breaker and get free gold i do it and it worked great ...never quit! Lol i been stood up 22 times since being on here so if i can do it you can as well


caballerohorny38 44M
64 posts
6/27/2019 12:55 pm

you look beautiful
💋💋💋


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
6/27/2019 12:51 pm

Well....i believe that the same people that are here are also out there....the names n faces may change but the attitudes and personalities are the same. If you feel you will get a different response off site...you have to go for it. As another commented, there are some wonderful people here....it takes patience n perseverance and discernment to find them though. The other thing is , perhaps you need to look inward as you are the only common denominator in these disappointments. Trust me...i have had this same conversation with myself. Only you can decide.... Good luck ~~


MechsHands1 50M
2 posts
6/27/2019 12:36 pm

Hang in there as there are soem good people out there. You just have to soift through them. I take breaks from the site for various reasons. Usually its the drama mongers. Yet I still keep getting drug back by the good people there.

Its hard and it sucks at times, but worth it when you find that connection.


Logan0867 56M
244 posts
6/27/2019 12:27 pm

It's their loss. I think your attractive. I think most guys on here are looking for a one and done. Personally I'm pickier than that and want to find a good FWB. I've found a few in the 10+ years I've been on but then life happens ( 1 moved, 1 passed away, etc). Whatever you choose to do good luck.


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