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Suggestion #3: Fill out your profile  

babeegurl70 53F
36 posts
1/8/2017 1:59 pm
Suggestion #3: Fill out your profile


So you have your gold membership and a decent profile pic. The next step would be to complete your profile.

You don't have to write a novel like I have, but it needs to be more than one or two sentences. I want to know if I'm going to fit what you want. If not, I'm don't need to waste your time or mine. Be honest about who you are and what you are looking for. Confidence is ok, but don't be a braggart. Don't brag about how well you do in the bedroom or that you will be the best at .... whatever. That's for me to decide. When someone brags like that, I feel like the opposite is probably true. Recently, I was with someone who bragged about being the best pussy eater I would ever have. First of all, I had to ask. A lady should never have to ask. Then he was only there for about 5 seconds. That's not enough enough time for my clitoris to pop her head out. His excuse was that I was with another man a few days before. Well I washed since then. The guy was also wearing a condom, so I don't buy it. Well, I guarantee my pussy has been satisfied way better than that. Don't make promises you won't keep.

You could use the site suggestions to get you started. Modify the wording and make it your own. Put some effort into it. It does not have to static. Mine is constantly changing as I am constantly changing what I'm look for. Review it every so often and update it as necessary. Make sure spelling, grammar and punctuation is on point. Yes, we look for that stuff. The more effort you put into your profile tells prospective partners how much effort you are going to put towards them. We like men who puts effort into us.

Keep the sexual innuendos to a minimum. Yes, we all know this is a sex site. We all know the ultimate goal is to bump and grind. But women want an emotional connection. We want an emphasis on the word "friend" in friends with benefits not just the "benefits" part. Trust me, if you fulfill the "friend" part first, the "benefits" will come.

While we are on this subject let's talk about definitions from a woman's perspective. May sure you use the correct terminology on your profile.

Friends with benefits -- you hang out and do other things outside of the bedroom, not necessarily having sex every time you're together. Relationship is based on friendship, not sex, Neither party is obligated to meet each other's family nor are they obligated to be available to each other's beck and call. Neither are expected to be exclusive.

Fuck Buddy -- you meet for sex and that's it. Relationship is based on sex. Yes you can go out and fun together, but it is not a prerequisite. Neither give a damn about each other's family or job situation. Most likely you won't even get to know each other's last name. Neither party is exclusive. Hint: most women don't prefer this situation.

Girlfriend/boyfriend -- exclusive relationship. There are strings attached. The L-word is used often. You are required to meet her family. You are required to take her out for dates. You are required to give her roses for Valentine's Day, Birthday gifts, Christmas gifts and Anniversary gifts. An exclusive pussy is an expensive pussy, but at least there will be pussy.

Next time I will write about making contact..

Later,



ironman2769 58M  
12877 posts
1/9/2017 5:01 pm

I have rewritten my profile so many times.......and its still not right....

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