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12/23/2017 10:55 am |
I feel the same, thank you for sharing
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It also takes a great deal of special dedication to keep that up; more power to you!
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12/23/2017 11:39 am |
When life hands you lemons you make lemonade! Become a Apollorising2057 blog watcher!
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Oh, wow . . . I can certainly identify with your situation. While not nearly as severe as yours, mine is similar. My wife of 25 years is physically disabled, which means that virtually ALL of the 'stuff to do' around here is done by me (most of the cooking & cleaning, inside & outside maintenance of the house . . . I'm SURE you know what I'm talking about). I've been vilified by many in the years that I've been on this site . . . the most common being "If the marriage is bad, get out of it" . . . but that's the thing . . . the marriage ISN'T bad . . . but the last time we tried any 'physical intimacy' (that would be about 14 years ago) it almost hospitalized her.
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You are doing what you need to do. You are doing your best and that is all anyone can ask. Fuck everyone else. Particularly the worthless fucking trolls like the Heathen and that asshole Ted from Delaware, what a bunch of jerk-offs! You are a good woman and need no validation. I love to see my wife have fun because if I go I want her to know it is okay to be alive. Fortunately we have a great sex life among being great friends to each other. If I were to die tomorrow God forbid she knows she has my blessing to be a woman and enjoy her life There is no doubt in my mind your husband would feel the same after all you have given and done for him. God Bless! Have a great Holiday.
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Wow...that's a hell of a lot to go through. Good for you for still being there to care for him. You're absolutely right, too, in that you need to take care of yourself. You can't care for others if your needs are not being met. Merry Christmas and happy hunting!  Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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You are not alone and I take my hat off to all that are in your situation, you have surpassed all that most reasonable people subscribe to in a marriage. Wishing you a great Christmas and lots of lots of affection in the New Year.
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12/24/2017 4:31 am |
Everyone has their own story to tell and I have mine but I'm to private so I keep it inside but after reading yours I guess mine is miniscule in comparison. Yes you are a wonderful woman .
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You deserve a lot of credit for helping your husband all these years. I see nothing wrong with your being sexual. Ted
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You have nothing to apologize for nor are others entitled to an explanation. You have been a blessing both to those you care for and to those of us who’ve gotten to know you via this site and blog. XXOO 😘
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Thanks for sharing that. It always helps to get insight if someone is willing to share it.
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I am very happy for you to have found a lover. It does sound like what you have is a marriage in the legal sense but not in other important ways. Personally, I feel that if one partner cannot or will not have a sexual relationship with their spouse that spouse should not be expected to live a celibate life. BTW I meant to wish you a Happy Birthday in my comment in Judgement vs Preference. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well. 
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