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AFF can be harsh for first timers – A Man’s perspective
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AFF can be harsh for first timers – A Man’s perspective IT FEELS LIKE A FRESHER IN A COLLEGE, BEING RAGGED FOR BEING NEW, MOST OF IT HAS BEEN GRATIFYING, SOME DISAPPOINTING! We complete 30 days on Senior Sizzle on the 17th April and to this date we haven’t mated with anyone! Yeah we are virgins in that sense. But we never started this with a ticking clock in our hand, though this is also not an endless scouting project for us. Before coming here, we have had a long chat amongst ourselves on what we want and what we can offer to each other and to others. So, we are not a confused couple and we shall not go back on our words of meeting, connecting and mating, necessarily in the same order Coming back to the headline, as newbies we have encountered numerous setbacks, from getting over 100 dick pictures in a day from Single males, despite clearly saying we’re not interested in Single Males, to talking to couples who suddenly decide that only the male of the species shall go ahead as the female is too shy and Sanskaari. Then a few smart couples can’t make it to meet at a scheduled time and place, despite confirming in the past, for reasons only known to them. But they surely want to keep chatting! Some of them claim in ‘only real meet’ and when you interact, they want to do Cam sex to determine if we can last more than 60 mins! People ask for face pics, while they won’t share theirs, saying they are more experienced hence they have greater say in the matter. Couples claim they don’t do dirty talks and then the male wants to have intimate pictures of my wife while his lady is averse to the idea. When you refuse, they abuse. We interacted with over 60 couples in the past 25 days, mostly two liners on IM and single line mails that we received as response from them. Those were enough for us to move away from most of them. No, we are not snobs, we like to communicate well and we expect the same from our counterparts and that has seldom happened, thus far But we have also interacted with some very nice couples, clean, healthy and smart. Due to our travel schedule, we couldn’t meet with them and then came Chat Fatigue. Yeah! We started the cross talks with them over BBM and eventually, as they say, familiarity breeds contempt, we decided to drop our meets as chat fatigue set in. To admit, we are also little slow; not retards (No offence) but we are learning the ropes here at our own pace. We carefully read every profile, every item you have published and look at the pics. We make a move only after we are sure in our minds. Some couples say they love to communicate and connect before jumping into the sack and the only thing they talk is Tool size, whether wife will give oral and their wife won’t give oral. They can stop anytime during the act if they don’t feel like. A No is a No for them. But they will stretch their boundaries with my lady since they believe in perseverance!! Some couples join in as couples and then if you talk nice to them, you’re beating around the bush, if you talk sex to them, it is perverted. The wife invariably drops out of the chat but the husband is a relentless pursuer Now, their status is couple swap and suddenly they have this insatiable desire to do MMF Now the hunks and Mods: We are not models, we don’t seek one, though dream to covet one for sure but we know we are a little out of shape, so that’s a motivation for us to improve. But most “Good Looking couples” are a snob. They don’t talk nice and are demeaning. They also have a coterie of their own, which is fine, so we wish them good luck Some are confused couples, the men become forward, they want their wives to join in and start asking for intimacy from my wife. Hey buddy, what about some equality? You see we are only for couples, the 4 of us must agree to same levels of interaction, we must get equal opportunity. While they ask for space for their wives, they want dirty intimacy from other’s wife. Some wives are dominating as well. They will say “I know what I want, I shall demand pleasure but I don’t guarantee the same to you, we are conservative when it comes to certain things, you see” Well, good you for you guys but don’t be fickle minded, just be aware of what you want and what you can give and something unknown bust be left unsaid anyway, to add to the mystery Anyway, we are lined up to meet a few nice, classy couples. These are people very approachable and don’t judge others. Shall share our experience soon after our first encounter. Please don’t expect pictures of those those are not the documents we’d like to record and certainly not share. PS: The female is likely to have her version published soon, hope you will enjoy reading this and others coming your way |
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lovely words
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I have to say that you've covered a great deal of the things that many of us have experienced here over time. Although the list may not be total, it's pretty comprehensive and we've probably run across each of them over time. Of course, these are the negatives. And there are some positive experiences from time to time as well. Those are the ones that keep us interested, while we try to laugh the others away.
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Firstly, what you have written so clearly and concisely is all true. You are a skilled writer and communicator. Secondly, most of us experienced most of the things you describe though we have not had much of a real experience here as many many others clearly seem to have. Thirdly, age and experience have taught me that in any given time, place and group people with quality and genuineness are in roughly the same small proportion. But they make up for much of the muck otherwise. So don't lose heart my friend. You will definitely find more good friends with perseverance and enjoy the riches you have set out for...
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hi, what ever you have written is absolutely true. if u guys are comfortable with matured cpl, try with us.
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That's how it begins, how it happened for me. And it is such a pity that even courteous mails, by couple (ids - I would keep them at id level) ask for face pic, and dick (tool) pics, without even sharing a word , forget pic of there own. Courteous - a new definition.. your message is very well written. I am single male. here, with a desire to explore. BUT POSTING A COMMENT ON YOUR BLOG IS JUST AN EXPRESSION FO LIKING AND CONNECTING WITH THE MESSAGE. I have read your message "no single males " and the post is not a indirect request either lol
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Enjoyed the write up Dude..and cant wait fr Sarah s viewpoint too...reinforces our belief that it takes all kinds to fill this world ...and decent graceful..edu n well travelled articulate cpls...happy and content in their own relationship...do look out fr change and a swing...do exist on these sites and do have every reason or abso no reason to have a kink or two.... congrats on lasting a month here ...in this jungle of sorts....weve been here longer...albeit selectively.....been there done tht...and still do encounter each and every type of specimens you described so well.....but once in a while.....just once in a while....there comes up a cpl like u2....and reinforces our belief... tht alls not lost...so......look frwrd to u2...sometime....sooon vijay n sanjana
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Have been around here and have met a few ( too few for my liking, LO couples here. But if you think you are frustrated, just put yourself (the male of you) in my position as a single male and think about frustration. But it is always nice to see a good write up. There are some nice couples here and on FB, am sure you will find them.
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well keep it up
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Dpn't think you read the blog, read the epilogue, it ends in optimism. In fact it shows optimism all along
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great experience to share.......but does not loose hope and faith....everyone is not the same ...there may be someone as like you are so keep looking
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VERY TRUE YOU ARE..........
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we too cpl...from jaipur...with same thinking.
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4/5/2019 6:57 am |
Can't agree more. Very well written blog.
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Well written...Nice
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5/1/2019 5:15 am |
100% write blog. As we joined afd as female as am the most active here not my husband. He allowed me to meet men if my choice. By here most men will ask do you have place? Darling place question comes next let's we become comfortable to reach the level where we can have sex Yes we all are here for sex but everyone have own choices. If my choice is fulfilled yes I will go on bed. But in my view y man should arrange place
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True what has been written
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