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Blogs > gymrat1974 > ManwranglerJen

I am fabulous; how are you?  

gymrat1974 49F  
1057 posts
4/12/2016 12:34 pm
I am fabulous; how are you?

I hate when people ask me how I am, especially on a dating site. Really? I mean, I know it's a courtesy, but no one cares. No one cares that the was stolen and I got passed over for a promotion at work. No one cares that I suffer from an eating disorder and that it's different from just being too fat or too thin or always hungry. No one cares for me to be anything but perfectly happy and a lovely size six with large breasts and a tight pussy. No one wants to know anything but what my eyes look like while I'm kneeling before him, looking up at him as I suck his dick. No one cares. So why do people ask? They aren't looking for genuine answers. They're only looking to fulfill a fantasy. So why bother asking? No questions asked and no replies given. Let's just go off into our own little corner and satisfy our urges like nature intended. Courtesies are for humans, and we have all lost all sense of humanity.



In reality, I genuinely appreciate the people who take the time to strike up a real conversation. While a lot of people are here for random sex, there are a surprising amount who want the conversational foreplay. I'm surprised, yes, but I'm also pleased that there are people out their seeking a friendly chat as much as their next conquest.

somebodywho1 67M

4/12/2016 12:40 pm

 Actually I ask that question all the time not as a courtesy but for a chance for that person to tell me something real about them. Sometimes they just need to vent to someone . Other times it a start to a good conversation. Either was it is an attempt at a contact and connection!


gymrat1974 49F  
557 posts
4/12/2016 12:48 pm

 You guys are both right. It's wonderful when how are you turns into a real conversation. I've been fortunate enough to make the acquaintance of people who have become genuine friends over the years. And it's nice when there are courtesies and pleasantries offered. I really, really hope that people recognize the sarcastic nature of most of what I say in these blogs.


Wantodouto123 62M
571 posts
4/12/2016 1:30 pm

 I care! No pun intended lol
I still/Wantodou2


gymrat1974 replies on 4/12/2016 1:40 pm:
LOL

gymrat1974 49F  
557 posts
4/12/2016 1:30 pm

 I think random sex has its place. I imagine there still could come a day when I would see someone I found attractive and make the attempt to ravage him, lol, but I'm also to the point in my life where I'd rather have the safety of getting to know someone. Being comfortable with someone goes a long, long way.


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