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Which would you consider more intimate?  

candylicker_6t9 62M
72 posts
9/26/2019 8:47 am
Which would you consider more intimate?

Having a debate with Gf. She prefers company male company and has several friends she spends time with( not having sex but hanging , talking and sharing etc.) , I like have sex, not necessary have a close personal relationship, just some hot freaky fun.(Don't care if we meet each other's family)
Sex is more personal to me.
Being too close personally is more intimate than having a fuck buddy
Both are equal, I dont want my significant other to do either.
I don't care if they do either


candylicker_6t9 62M
317 posts
9/26/2019 8:50 am

Me personally, i think the friendship is more intimate, she says it's sex, but we would like to know how others feel about it.


dogslife2live01 71M

9/26/2019 9:19 am

well if you believe sex is opening your body to someone, and intimacy is opening your soul to someone
and it is possible to fuck someone with no feelings for then but to open your true self to someone takes total trust
then intimacy, sex, and friendship are different creatures but
intimacy holds the strongest bond between people

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


candylicker_6t9 62M
317 posts
9/26/2019 9:36 am

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That's why i left options of, they are both equal and i disapprove of both or don't care either way. I tried to include all possible options. We are not looking to be right. Just wondering how others feel about the topic


candylicker_6t9 62M
317 posts
9/26/2019 11:09 am

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I see your point. But its not " no platonic friendships" It's that she wants no female friends, just male. Somehow thinking that men are not as messy as women. Not true at all, but her perception. I mean, i have platonic females, but I don't seek those type relationships with females over males.

And as far as the I don't care. I guess i could have phrased that a bit different. Not that "I don''t care" but, more as long as we are secure in ours I am not concerned nor worried or threatened what they do with someone else.


candylicker_6t9 62M
317 posts
9/26/2019 12:25 pm

    Quoting  :

Oops, That must have been a typo or an autocorrect. It should have said prefers MALE company. I have corrected it. Should have proofread it better.


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