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the art of rejection
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the art of rejection hello party people, today's blog is about rejection. nobody likes to be<b> rejected. </font></b>very few people can handle it with any grace or consideration. I've accepted and<b> rejected </font></b>and I've been accepted and I've been<b> rejected. </font></b>I don't let it affect my confidence and I try not to take it personally. granted, I don't recall being<b> rejected </font></b>that often but when it happens, and there's no prior relationship there, it doesn't bother me that much. now, being insulted, on the other hand, really has a poisonous effect. I find it amusing, however, that the only times I get insulted on this site are when I am politely rejecting someone. so which is it? I see so many profiles of people who are upset because they would prefer a negative response to none at all. personally, I would prefer the no response. that's how I handle most people on here that approach me and do not arouse my interest. I just don't speak to them. I don't owe you any explanations and I don't enjoy insulting or hurting people so a lot of times I just don't do it. no response leaves no room for argument. sometimes it does happen though that I fully intended to respond to someone and didn't get to it fast enough, or they got buried in my email, (happens all the time) so they then come back at me with a sort of preemptive rejection which I consider to be the back lash of their own insecurity. that then causes me to reject them when they would've otherwise been at least in the game. I don't do passive aggressive and I don't do arguments. you're not going to be able to guilt trip me or manipulate me into doing something for you outside of the scope of.. and get this because I know its hard for some of you.. of WHAT I WANT. the sense of entitlement with some of you is mind blowing! I mean who told you you could fuck? that you have some sort of god given rights to my body? what a joke! I've got news for most of you guys.. you're not worth the trouble. now I say most because there are absolutely some beautiful, caring, strong and compassionate fuck machines on here that I have had the pleasure of meeting and mutually pleasuring. they are respectful and kind and honest about what they want and genuinely interested in what I want and those are the people I consider to be worth the time and trouble of actual engagement. oh and I mustn't forget attractive! some serious hotties on here, but you have to sift through so much garbage to find them! that's why it's offputting to so many. I've seen many great women and couples come and go from here because they've been absolutely disgusted and bombarded with the depravity and disrespectful, disparaging comments of so many of the men on here. and the demands! OMG!!! you guys are even sick of each other! almost every single profile I see on here says NO SINGLE MEN!!! LMAO that's most of you! so, for anyone who may have messaged me and might be waiting for a reply here's the best I can do.. if we've chatted back and forth and I haven't had to hand your ass to you for any reason, we're probably still cool and you just got buried in the inbox. don't be afraid to message me i'm probably not going to reject you. now, if you've messaged me twenty to fifty times and I haven't responded? you've either said something to put me off, acted in a manner that caused me to distrust you, or I just never had any interest at all. don't bother messaging me anymore because when and if you begin your backlash you will absolutely be blocked and I won't even read past the first unpleasant word. so make it good!  the point i'm trying to make here is that to some, like publicity, bad attention is still good attention. if I don't want to give you my attention, I won't. period. trust me, you don't want to be insulted by me and I've no wish to insult you either. don't be impatient, don't be pushy, and don't be disrespectful or I absolutely WILL reject you and there will be no further interaction between us. oh, and for the 70 year old man who messaged me today about wanting to blind fold me and do all these things? explaining them in great detail and asking if there was a chance? in your case i'm going to make an exception for rejection. what you depicted in your email to me was the most nightmarish, vile and disgusting interaction I could've ever imagined. I threw up a little bit in my mouth as I read your horrible fantasy and the thought that you would include me in it was bad enough, but that you would think for a moment that a young, intelligent and beautiful woman would ever want to have such a revolting experience is truly offensive to me. no. there is no chance. not ever. have a little fucking respect.  |
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I don't recall seeing your previous posts, but they and you are very interesting. I'd like to have the opportunity to engage, and it seems crazy to me that people you've met somehow hold it against you that you met here. One of my (open) relationships has a colorful past of sex positivity that probably qualifies me as open enough to handle you. Anyway I'm interested in what you want - hope to find you on chat or a ghosted out mailbox entry (I know a trick!).
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Wow.....what's left to say? Especially the last paragraph.....sad and wrong on many levels.....Hang in there and have a lovely weekend!! Open invitation to Galveston for an erotic, freaky time if you like!!
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9/13/2016 10:33 pm |
I liked reading this. Thanks
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