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Compliment or a complaint  

cockinhand4uNow 60M
183 posts
7/5/2016 1:56 pm
Compliment or a complaint

So ladies and men,here is a question: Is it a compliment if the person you are with climaxes,orgasms very quickly? Or is that a big turn off. We see porn stars with the most amazing endurance. I myself don't have that kind of endurance, and frankly I don't think most women or men want their partners to go that long with out cumming. I would think I'm doing something wrong or they just aren't that into me if my partner doesn't come in a relatively short time. The more aroused and excited I am to be with that person the faster I will cum. That doesn't mean sex has to be over. On the contrary. If I cum quickly that means I will rebound quickly and it also means I have more time to devote to making my partner feel good. So what do you say. Do you want your lover to last and last till they cum or do you want them to cum quickly?

bestfriend2156 68M
840 posts
7/5/2016 2:11 pm

 I enjoy having the woman I'm with cum quickly and repeatedly. I'll get there eventually myself.


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
7/5/2016 2:21 pm

 No one should be comparing their sex life to porn or expecting the same. Porn just ruins sex with the high expectation and you really need to know what goes on before, during and after what you see in porn movies.

I agree that most men lose interest after they cum. I would like to meet someone that can cum multiple times as well instead of one and done.


cockinhand4uNow replies on 7/5/2016 6:34 pm:
there needs to be a happy medium. Lasting long enough to get you off and him. Then start all over.

dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
7/5/2016 2:54 pm

 I would LOVE to be able to cum within 5 minutes of penetration, but that most likely isn't going to happen if the guy only lasts a few minutes himself. I fail to see a man coming quickly as a turn on of any kind .. quite the opposite. Is it flattering that he cannot control himself? For about 2 seconds worth of flattery. I will agree with most of the women prior who have said the man is most likely done and lost interest once he has cum. Being able to build up your endurance is a good thing, and I believe a sign of experience. I want my guy to last at least until I am done. I have seen a guy that, despite my asking him to, refuses to masterbate and build up some tolerance to stimulation ... even though he comes in under a minute usually. He is also a once and done man. THAT attitude is extremely selfish .. it is purely all about him at that point.
At the other extreme, if I have spent 20 mins trying to cum and haven't, and I say I give up, just get it over with. Cuz at that point, I am done trying and it is no longer fun!


cockinhand4uNow replies on 7/5/2016 6:26 pm:
I'm sorry your lover seems to be so selfish and take your needs into consideration.

cockinhand4uNow replies on 7/5/2016 6:39 pm:
selfishness sucks. No reason to keep a selfish lover

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