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New level of creepiness
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New level of creepiness Someone sent a message a few days ago and attached his mug shot. Turns out I actually kind of know him, he's from my home town, don't particularly like him and definitely don't want him to find out who I am. So replied back saying I wasn't interested (being nice about it mind) and left it at that. The next day I get a message from someone who appeared to be a brand new member. So replied back asking him if he's new, or back for more. "I'm new that's my first time ever for dating on a site like this. Feels like I'm a virgin lol. Is that a bad thing for you?" Few messages sent back and forth. Seemed like a genuine guy. "So what now? Do we meet for a drink, or keep chatting?" he asks. Replied back suggesting we exchange mug shots first and take it from there. I normally don't send my picture first, but because he was new and I wanted him to know there are real and genuine people on here (which apparently doesn't happen very often), I stupidly attached my picture. "I think we know each other already. Is that a problem?" with his picture attached. Same guy as the day before!!!! "Yeah I feel like a virgin on here" my ass!!!! Why would someone do that if I already turned them down! And obviously he now knows who I am as well. Slick, lying, creepy loser. Not happy about this at all. So my lesson for this time: Never send my picture first. Ever!!!! And even after all the crap I've seen and heard on here, I'm still too trusting. x  |
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True regarding the headless torso, I suppose I do that so as not to get recognised like most of us when out and about  It's the weekends that are a dead give away for me now having met someone on another site on a weekday night a few months ago, a few towns away (safe) only to find out he worked away from home in the borders weekdays and went home every weekend. Pity as it was a good night and would have repeated it but not when the proverbial hits the fan!  I live and learn, still ....
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Like you (prior to this recent experience of yours) I would never entertain sending my 'mug' shot first. I too live in a small ish town now tho originally from a city and believe me, the latter is easier in terms of being less likely to awkwardly know / recognise someone. I am also now far less likely to reply to men who only have torso shots as their profile pics as turns out they're in a relationship even if not living together or married but the other half has thought they were in a monogamous relationship ... but how are we able to check that? I like you, was much too trusting in the past and I've never wanted dalliances / fun with someone who was openly lying to their other half! 😒
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Just read the "creep" fuck! that is scary, definitely scary shit for a woman with a kid. And what a laugh for the law. Such an ass. The police can only follow laws that some idiots bring in! Haha human rights! Now, for a man is different, of course, even if we can be victims of abuse too. And this man, ahh...See, for a change, and as I am not on any social media, I may of chosen to use some very willing mates from Eastern Europe, people I could meet on building sites every day, and do a locate and extract kind of thing. Locate person, and extract knee cups! One would be very surprised to find out what could be achieved with a couple of hundred!!! Just saying  Thanx for liking my pic!  Of course, it's a mutual feeling!  I am saying no more, only wondering how after that, you went and trusted, and send pics! Well I am not wondering. You told us you wanted to prove you are real. And it's the believing, damned believing, believing that most others are like us, that pushes us to such mistakes, at times. But if you stop believing, what next? Big 0. Hope dies last they say. Anyway here are a few things to help you find your feet on here. If you are interested, a mail box for others to be able to contact you, please no creeps, here [post 3923095] A bit of code for this place here Codes, Charts amp Tips A bit of bling and history, here Standard can get all free bling through this topic and a bit of history And some info about intented fake profiles created just to bug you, me, or anyone else, via my private messages link!
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Now that one is a scary one. I'm very skittish to send my pics out first, and if theres any chance I know you I just won't do it until I learn something about you so to eliminate that problem. Makes meeting locals difficult, but its your safety and career that can be jeopardized. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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It's nice to be part of a site where members are for the most part honest and sincere in their efforts to build thicker walls and maintain soaring towers of glistening ivory.Deepening the divide and ensuring that the disparity they provide will long endure in the hope that one day we will conquer imperfection as a species erasing any need for excuses for hiding who we really are. Where presumptive as well as assumptive reasoning that drives so many to unfounded calls of judgement would combine with the thin air where our messages of interest call home and just disappear for ever.It's just a dream!Sorry to hear that happened! Using more than all the road!
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That is creepy one can never be too careful here.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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3/31/2017 12:44 pm |
One of the reasons I do not post a photo here is that I not only know a few people here, I'm related to them. So here you go. LOL. Small town = everyone knowing your business is already a pain. There are good people out there but sometimes they can be hard to find. Don't let a few bad experiences outweigh the good.  Jimmy B.My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.
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he sounds like a real asshole and stalker
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3/31/2017 12:30 pm |
dont send a naked face pic.
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Hassle? Like as in, please take it down it's scary? Nope. The otherway around? Again nope! I don't mind who knows I am here and who does not. I even passed the link to my blog to both my daughters and my sis. Ok now you started me... Years ago, on another dating site I am chatting with this woman. We arranged to meet the next day. Next, her niece visits, that evening on the eve of the date. Niece was schoolfriends with my older daughter! Niece also, did not know I was divorced by now. Well, excited auntie and niece, talked about tomorrows date, auntie says, I got a pic of him, let me show you!!!! Niece to auntie 'noooooo, he is married, he is so and so's dad!!!! OMG!!! Then I returned home and my older daughter was there, ( still living with me until the house was sold.) She was on the phone to the niece, and we all pissed ourselves laughing. In the end, the next day, at the date, it was me, that woman, her niece with boyfriend, my daughter with boyfriend, ouch. I think I better start hidding my picture from now on, might be cheaper lol.
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There's been a couple of times I thought I might have been talking to someone I actually knew. Fortunately, it was never the case. It is a harrowing experience. I can only imagine what it's like for it to actually happen. You have my sympathies. I've long railed that the info discrepancy has to be heavily skewed towards the person who initiates the conversation. I have no shame about expecting 10 times more information from them than I actually give out in return. I've also learned to not give out my actual location. I always list myself a town or two over from where I really am. That's becoming more and more the norm around here.
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We sometimes do have a slow learning curve, wanting to encourage a "good one" while sorting out the lecherous and creepy stalkers. Forgive yourself. Learn? Of course. Let him know that you're looking for more chemistry and someone with similar values, like honesty. Or just plain stop answer his emails. He'll get tired of the game and move on sooner or later. He asked if it was a problem.......yes. Just plain not what I'm looking for. No more explanations.
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He might have just sent you a fake picture anyway, knowing that you're from the same area. . There's so much to think about before meeting people from here.
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Ouch! You send your pic first? Double ouch. erm, can I send you my account details. I am held to ransom and need a few hundred. I am a real prince. And he is the same guy? Biiiig treble ouch! Is pathetic a word to use here or will it offend? I mean the word been offended, for underusage. Every nut from the nut tree, and then some. We learn from mistakes. It gets better, really. Now, can I have a pic of you? Full body and face and naked please? Nooo I am no picture collector no! 
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