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5 reasons, Why...If I wanted them young...
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5 reasons, Why...If I wanted them young... ...you know, I get AT LEAST two messages per day from males age 26 and under? This is at least 14 messages a week from guys in that age range. It would be a cinch for me to bang a youngster...but I don't want to. 5 Reasons in no particular order: 5. Nothing in common 4. Anxiety about my own projected body image expectations 3. There's nothing I can expect to happen beyond sex 2. Flakey--1) because they are unreliable in general, and 2) they are too busy looking for the next best fuck to actually be dependable. It takes men MORE time to mature than females, so it's a crapshoot. 1. Generally these guys are not established in any way, so they try to cut corners on where to have sex, paying for drinks, etc., and I like to be treated like I'm awesome...because...I am, amirite? What about you? Do you like dating them young? Why or why not?   MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=} |
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You are right, Red Elf. You are awesome. Youth is not an advantage for seducing me. I could enjoy the company of a woman who remembers M*A*S*H. I would be frustrated by a woman who communicates in LOLs. My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.
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I like them young!! I have more fun! I need a really great kiss!!
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I completely agree with you about the young men. What is even worse is the gold members who CAN read my profile where it explicitly says no one under 40, and they message anyway
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I don't want any one I could be their mother, lolol, I get those too, so I change my title so if they can't read profiles they will know not to message me, will it has stop some, but I still get some, this is why I don't men under 45, they don't listen or read lololol some older ones too, yes they are sexy but not into younger men,
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My prefs on the age thing are, anyone at least a few years older than my oldest kiddo. And believe me, even that put's me in the "wishful thinker" category. The fanatic "wishful" ones. In real terms, anyone from 40 and up. At least, if even that is wishful, is not fanatic!
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I also have no younger men in my profile. Two or three places. I get the "I am mature" line. Sometimes " I love older women ". Whatever line I get it never works. Some are desperate. Women their age don't want them. They think us older women are desperate or are cougars. Not this 60 year old. Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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the depth of the life experience and the wisdom, and the lack there of...lol... my daughter is 21...i know she is matured for the age, but still, you can gain experience and wisdom in one day...that comes from actual aging process... i feel very weird to get asked to have sex with those kids...can i fuck them? yes...but so what? they just don't have that kind of technique, and art of sex...won't worth it...
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I have dated considerably younger men since becoming a member here in 2011. They have great stamina, and really appreciate the "older woman" who has experience and is patient. I always used to ask them what exactly was the attraction to us oder gals and I would get the same three answers from them indirectly of course. They would say: 1) We know what we want and not afraid to express it. 2) No drama, no expectations that they will call us again soon. 3) Easy to talk with, not jealous or needy like women in their own age group. I have not dated a younger guy in a long time and now pretty much staying in my own age group. I found that a few of them had no idea what a 78 or 45 rpm was; had never heard of something called a "record player" plus they were shocked that we actually had to get up from our chair to turn the channel our TV in the 60's! Great sex is one thing but having a conversation with things common is important as well.......
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Honestly, it's an ego stroking to have a much younger woman interested in a man my age, but the young lady would have to be very mature, intelligent, thoughtful, independent, and not needy. Thoughts from the Garden...
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My wife is about eight years younger than I am, so I regularly have sex with a younger woman. She's spectacular, and has been ever since we met. But although she is younger, she wasn't really young even when we met. If I were on the market, I'd likely continue to look for younger women. Superficial or not, looks are part of arousal, and younger women are more likely to accomplish that part. There's more to arousal than that, of course, and if they're too young inexperience can leave them less arousing in other ways. If I were on the market for a relationship, not just play, things like common life experience are more important; a twenty-something woman might be very nice to look at, and probably trainable in bed, but I think adult conversation might always be weird. In one way, inexperience can be advantageous. The young person may not know what to do, but if they're trainable that's a temporary problem, and the older person will be able to amaze them with moves they never knew existed. Looking at your list, I've covered "nothing in common" a little. That's not entirely true; I'm sure there are women of all ages who have some overlap with my interests, but things like absence of any memory of eras that are parts of my earlier life would be strange. I feel good about my body, and aside from somewhat less aerobic endurance I'm probably as physically fit as anyone who isn't completely out of my league. The "nothing beyond sex" point isn't necessarily true, but it goes together with the "nothing in common" point. I think flaky is at least as much an individual thing than an age thing. Some aspects of maturity are often lacking in young people, but plenty of young people are reliable, and plenty of not-so-young people are flaky. Looking for the next person to play with may be an issue too, but again I think that's at least as much an individual thing than an age thing. The "not established" point is almost always going to be the case with a young person. If one does choose to play with someone young for whatever reason, that's definitely likely to be an issue. Anyway, I'm not trying to make a case for aiming young -- just observing that it's a trade-off rather than a clear case.
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