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Red_Elf 51F
578 posts
3/15/2016 11:16 pm
Standard members may contact me here.


It seems hard for standard members to send me messages at times. Here's a place where you can do so! I suggest you leave a kik handle for me to message you back.

Here's my profile info:

Introduction
Intelligent, youthful, fun type looking for same.

Woman seeking friends and lovers for low key, local fun. Very much anti-Trump, so if that's a problem, don't waste your time. Apparently I have to tell people this...

I like strings, and men who are both kind and a little bossy. I can tell the difference between authenticity and bullshit, and need time to decide if a connection makes sense to me before I follow through. I am conflict avoidant, and yet, find ways to communicate when I'm unhappy that are lower drama than many.

I'm just a standard member (unless they give me free gold for a stretch, which happens) and single ladies are pretty popular around here, apparently, so if you want me to reply, be sure to send me an intelligent email and some pictures that will pique my interest. It's just a matter of how many minutes I have in a day. Work With Me Here following simple instructions

Ideal Persons of Interest:
Socially and emotionally adept males who understand consent, realize men need feminism just as much as women, and light my fire.

If you want to know more...there is a list of Requirements Goals
Are you capable of actually being fully Naked?
Just...Oh, myyyyy, oh my, oh my, oh my

Make sure you attach a picture.

Heteroflexible?
When I say heteroflexible, that means I'm more sexually interested in men, and male minds and bodies, but I've found a couple females I've been interested in kissing. I'm not really going to go for a situation where really I feel like a woman wants me to be super into her. It's way too much pressure.

Wait--there are rules?
There are rules for contacting single females on this site, or any<b> internet dating </font></b>site, whether you realize it or not:

1) Be interesting and interested.
2) Be forthcoming.
3) Convince the sexy, hot vixen that you are not a sociopath or psychopath waiting to r*p* or murder her in the dead of night.
First, be not stupid
because it's lazy

Remember that the people here aren't doing the advertising and guarantee you nothing, even if the site, itself, does.
Why are you here, anyways
Entitlement

Also, don't be a dick!
Dramafree and NSA
Alpha males

When you are a dick, you quickly become blog fodder, because writers use writing to deal with their feelings and emotions, and they will write about it. Don't piss off a writer!
That's Gay A Primer
Sometimes, ya have to wonder

Safety Third
Your job is to convince me you are a worthwhile and reasonable risk or I just hit delete. Every time. You may want to read this to help understand what women face when dealing with men on this site...Would you

And, yes, I'm not only real...I'm fun...and intelligent...and I will treat your intentions as suspect until you've given me reason to feel otherwise.

We're strangers--remember?
If you are outside my predetermined age range, I won't reply.
If you are outside my predetermined area, I won't reply.
If you are particularly vague or boring, I may give you an opportunity to up your game. If you can't, I will no longer reply.
How To Handle Rejection Exhibit A
Remember, Boys amp Girls, Talking To People on the Internet is Talking To Strangers

Dick is abundant and low value
Remember: The reality in online dating is that it's a numbers game. On this site, those number vastly favor the women, as with most online dating sites. Remember, "Dick is abundant and low value" (Google it if you don't recognize the phrase and learn about internet Dickonomics). I've met plenty of people from online dating sites. If I choose not to meet you, it's because I haven't been given a reason to do so. That's just the Dickonomics of these things. Just be thankful you weren't born with any Exploding Penises.

Keep in mind:
A List of Things I39m Too Old For

If you are feeling particularly testy after reading all of this, feel free to throw in your .02 in the battle between the sexes:
Hey You Can't Be A Feminist

MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

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