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The little extra that makes it so good.
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The little extra that makes it so good. ....I wouldn't think that finding what I'm looking for in a romantic friendship would be so hard. I think I do a good job in spelling that out in my profile. Yes, my profile is a bit lengthy but it is that way on purpose. Number one, as stated, it spells out who I am, what I'm about, what I'm seeking and why. Number two, it gives the woman reading my profile the chance to think to herself, yes, this is in the ballpark or no, he is not the type of person I seek. True, the only pictures on my profile are the often hated 'cock pics,' but I'm always happy to send a face picture or two after some introductory emails. All of that said, I find it very interesting.... and frustrating....to find that so many women, while eager to engage in adult activities or so they say, don't seem to want to take the time to get into their potential partner's heads at least a bit and allow me to do the same with them. This helps to not only enjoy the physical side of things so much more but also is a great way of vetting out a potential lover a bit more. The old adages, "Take the time to get into my head....and my body will follow" or "Get into my head....it is worth the effort" are true. Even in a "no strings," Friends with Benefits arrangement, a bit of connection makes it so much better and more worthwhile. I'm not looking for a relationship to replace the one I'm in. I'm looking for something to fill some voids. In that process some really hot sex is nice too. I'd also really enjoy developing the FRIENDS part of FWB as well. I guess I'm just frustrated right now. No offence to anyone. My last couple of ventures into the extra relationship world have introduced me to a fine woman each time. Both were/are seeking erotic times. Both are attractive women. Both know what they are doing in the bedroom. Neither one seemed to have any interest in keeping interest going in between times we're together. What I'm saying is that if I were looking for Booty Call Partners, they are out there. At this stage in my life, I want and need more than that. Some years ago I got spoiled by a wonderful woman who enjoyed friendship and contact as well as sex. We had a part time physical relationship with frequent contact in between times for several years and truly enjoyed sharing parts of our lives with each other as good and special friends. I miss that. Make me want you. I'll do my best to do the same for you. Make the journey be the destination. I hope to find a companion for the journey. |
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