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Threesome gone sour!
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Threesome gone sour! |
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What does someone eles's experience have to do with what happened to you? First, I'm going to assume that this tale you are telling is true and not some fantasy you harbor. think of it like this, imagine if it was you and another man and you sat on a corner of the bed while your GF had several loud, orgasms while having sex with another man. *maybe* you'd like it at first, but imagine how it would feel if you thought she seemed to enjoy sex with this other man more than she ever enjoyed it with you. Do you see where I'm going with this? I have a question for you, do you want to save your relationship? If so, you need to have a talk with your lady friend about what happened and see how she feels. You may or may not be able to salvage what you have.
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Always better if the woman seeks out the woman she wants to have a 3-way with, instead of leaving it up to the man. Also, on top of that, the woman who left angry, she probably didn't enjoy getting urinated on. The idea that women "Squirt all over", is that she is urinating. You can look that up.
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What does someone eles's experience have to do with what happened to you? First, I'm going to assume that this tale you are telling is true and not some fantasy you harbor. think of it like this, imagine if it was you and another man and you sat on a corner of the bed while your GF had several loud, orgasms while having sex with another man. *maybe* you'd like it at first, but imagine how it would feel if you thought she seemed to enjoy sex with this other man more than she ever enjoyed it with you. Do you see where I'm going with this? I have a question for you, do you want to save your relationship? If so, you need to have a talk with your lady friend about what happened and see how she feels. You may or may not be able to salvage what you have. My friend WANTED to and ASKED for a threesome AND asked me to find another woman to have sex with her. We also talked ad nauseum about what she wanted to see and do (including me fucking the other woman, while she watched). As to the question; Do I want to save the relationship? Probably not. This incident revealed a certain degree of immaturity and frankly, I have 'other options'. Thank you for the thoughtful comment!
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6/25/2016 4:24 pm |
hmm welcome to my chats and spats
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Why did you refer to her, as , "My lady friend"?
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BigLaLa Actually, my friend and I talked about her desire for a threesome since last fall... She does know that our relationship is NOT exclusive, and she has always asked me to tell her about other women (including photos and videos). I did warn her about the emotional risk, and she insisted she can handle it. After all she is 56, and I have to believe that when she said that, she can handle it. This is not about my ego, more about whether or not we enjoy the things we do, or regret our choices. To be quite blunt, yes, I did enjoy the other woman more AT THAT TIME. but relationships are more than a one-time fling. She actually told me this herself several times. Was I supposed to PRETEND that I am not enjoying fucking a gorgeous 47 year old woman with eyes to kill for, a pussy as tight as vise grips, and tits the size of the Grand Tetons? I will give her another call tonight... If nothing else, I do need to hear it from her first hand.
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My friend WANTED to and ASKED for a threesome AND asked me to find another woman to have sex with her. We also talked ad nauseum about what she wanted to see and do (including me fucking the other woman, while she watched). At your age, there is an important fact you should have learned already but it seems you haven't: sometimes there is a huge gulf between fantasy and reality. To be quite blunt, yes, I did enjoy the other woman more AT THAT TIME. but relationships are more than a one-time fling. She actually told me this herself several times. Was I supposed to PRETEND that I am not enjoying fucking a gorgeous 47 year old woman with eyes to kill for, a pussy as tight as vise grips, and tits the size of the Grand Tetons? How experienced are you with open relationships and group sex? I ask because your comments here sound more like a 24 year old sexual rookie than 60 year old man who has been around the block few times. Simply, sometimes when fantasies become a reality, they can turn into a nightmare. that sounds like that's what happened to your friend (I'm going to assume that you are calling her your lady friend because neither of these women were your wife?) Pretend you weren't enjoying yourself, no. I've been through a number of open relationships and there are a couple of musts that one of the things that you hear over and over again (a) any kind of sexual encounter should only go as fast as the person who is moving the slowest, in this case your "lady friend". The other thing is that it is *your* responsibility to check in with *your* partner and make sure she doesn't feel left out, yes even when you are balls deep in another woman. You've got to remember who you came to the dance with and be sure she gets the best of your attention. I'm going to assume that if you are skilled enough to handle two women that you are skilled enough to involve both women physically through kissing, touching, sharing, etc. If you can't or don't know how to or were so lost in fucking a little strange that you didn't, you are just as immature as you accused her of being. Group sex, even at its wildest, is an enthusiastic ballet, not a random slam dance. There is an excellent book called Opening Up by Tristan Taoromino. Even though it was written with couples in mind, it is also an excellent reference of things to think about and questions to discuss before embarking on any kind of group sex. if you think this is something you'll be doing in the future, it's well worth an investment. Funny enough, you didn't address one important thing I said. If the situation were reversed (because I'm sure that if it were her fantasy to be with two men at the same time, you'd accommodate her) and she seemed to be having a better sexual experience with the other man (who also happens to be about 10 years younger than you and swinging a bigger, harder dick) , how would you react? Given your response here, do your lady friend a favor and skip the call, you'd be doing her a big favor to break things off with her.
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My friend WANTED to and ASKED for a threesome AND asked me to find another woman to have sex with her. We also talked ad nauseum about what she wanted to see and do (including me fucking the other woman, while she watched). At your age, there is an important fact you should have learned already but it seems you haven't: sometimes there is a huge gulf between fantasy and reality. To be quite blunt, yes, I did enjoy the other woman more AT THAT TIME. but relationships are more than a one-time fling. She actually told me this herself several times. Was I supposed to PRETEND that I am not enjoying fucking a gorgeous 47 year old woman with eyes to kill for, a pussy as tight as vise grips, and tits the size of the Grand Tetons? How experienced are you with open relationships and group sex? I ask because your comments here sound more like a 24 year old sexual rookie than 60 year old man who has been around the block few times. Simply, sometimes when fantasies become a reality, they can turn into a nightmare. that sounds like that's what happened to your friend (I'm going to assume that you are calling her your lady friend because neither of these women were your wife?) Pretend you weren't enjoying yourself, no. I've been through a number of open relationships and there are a couple of musts that one of the things that you hear over and over again (a) any kind of sexual encounter should only go as fast as the person who is moving the slowest, in this case your "lady friend". The other thing is that it is *your* responsibility to check in with *your* partner and make sure she doesn't feel left out, yes even when you are balls deep in another woman. You've got to remember who you came to the dance with and be sure she gets the best of your attention. I'm going to assume that if you are skilled enough to handle two women that you are skilled enough to involve both women physically through kissing, touching, sharing, etc. If you can't or don't know how to or were so lost in fucking a little strange that you didn't, you are just as immature as you accused her of being. Group sex, even at its wildest, is an enthusiastic ballet, not a random slam dance. There is an excellent book called Opening Up by Tristan Taoromino. Even though it was written with couples in mind, it is also an excellent reference of things to think about and questions to discuss before embarking on any kind of group sex. if you think this is something you'll be doing in the future, it's well worth an investment. Funny enough, you didn't address one important thing I said. If the situation were reversed (because I'm sure that if it were her fantasy to be with two men at the same time, you'd accommodate her) and she seemed to be having a better sexual experience with the other man (who also happens to be about 10 years younger than you and swinging a bigger, harder dick) , how would you react? Given your response here, do your lady friend a favor and skip the call, you'd be doing her a big favor to break things off with her. If I understand you correctly, I am supposed to guide, hold the hands of, emotionally protect, and shield a mature, experienced, multi-partner adult woman from her own insistent desires and wishes? Really??? I am always (always) uber considerate when it comes to intimate relationships. But I draw the line when "I really want to do this.." turns into "damn you for letting me do this.." As for "...funny enough, you didn't address one important thing I said. If the situation were reversed .." It is a non-question, a problem for a solution that need not be addressed. She never asked for another male in the mix. However, I have seen pictures and videos with her having sex with other men, and she has seen me with other women. It had always been a source of 'inspiration' for fantastic sex between us. That is what make the whole situation even more bizarre! As for the "... (who also happens to be about 10 years younger than you and swinging a bigger, harder dick) , how would you react? " Well, my answer to that is, My hands are fine, as proclaimed by our fearless leader, Donald Trump  In any case, I didn't have to call her last night... she did. She apologized for how she left, but she was/is very upset, and ended our 3-year relationship. She mentioned that she will try to repair her relationship with her husband, and 'change her life". I truly wish her all the best!
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