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Uncivilized?
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Uncivilized? I noticed you here...noticing me- with your face up Now, normally, if your face is up here, I either: 1 don’t respond because it’s obvious that you have either nothing to lose or you don’t care (both are indiscreet and unattractive to me ) 2 respond to ask why it’s there and educate on why it’s not a good idea ( which anybody who I would choose to deal with would already know mostly because they think that far in advance because they don’t want to lose their things that they have going on in their life about a simple afternoon screw- even if it feels like more) 3 look for ways to block you before you speak because usually I’m asked why my face is not up to and told that it’s OK to put your face up ( it’s really not - this site gets hacked- public officials have been taken down from office because of their presence on this site... But beyond that is simply not a good look when you know what’s happening with other people and you have plans for yourself) Now this young man actually has a job that matters where his face should not be here - your face is undeniable I’ve blogged about that before. He’s very kind and intelligent so I transfer him to a different app to chitchat, And that goes downhill the minute that he asked me for my photograph and I decline as his response was he prefers to see the face of the person he’s talking to and if I don’t wanna share mine, he doesn’t understand why the conversation should go any further ...This would work if we were actually going to meet. He was not in the country that I was in he will not be in any country that I’m in for a while and I’m not going to where he’s at.... I have no idea who he is we haven’t even said anything that would give me a clue who he is at this point....All I know is that he is of the school that he must see the face of the person that he’s talking to to figure out whether or not he wants to talk to them. Now, men are very visual creatures but you can be a pretty asshole and it doesn’t matter I don’t like to put faces to the people I chat until I know I want to meet them I don’t need to see the face of an asshole (there are many) and I don’t need to be the face of an asshole, lol... But we haven’t gotten that far to figure out if either one of us is, so I definitely am not trying to send my face. now, I have a crazy history of reasons why I don’t share my face and they’re all gifts from friends on this website.(thanks guys- NOT) I do meet people usually without sharing photographs I was not asking him to come meet me nor was I offering to go meet him so photographs were not of issue( in my mind in our conversation we never got to the part where what I look like mattered beyond the photos that he saw of me here ) but once he said he could not understand why the conversation should go any further because I did not want to share a photograph...My understanding was to block him since there was nothing else to talk about. Now I was completely prepared to end the conversation and be done after I blocked him ( he ended the conversation right? ) What does he do? write me from a different phone number calling me uncivil, lol Lmao Being uncivilized for me is cussing you out for demanding my photograph. What I did was cut you off because you were finished talking to me because you couldn’t see me like you wanted to - that was my understanding and is the protocol.... at any rate....Now our conversations are<b> weird </font></b>because I don’t know if you’re done talking to me or not and I won’t block you from the new number because I don’t know how many you have and apparently my ending our conversation is not enough for you to respect because you changed |
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