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Advice would be helpful My friend recently asked me for advice, but I've never been in her situation so I didn't know what to say. She has let her best friend's cousin move in with her (I'll call him Bob). He was at the mission because he had so much to pay in support and other bills that he couldn't get his own place and his "girlfriend" and his family would not take him in and help him. She let him move into her apt in her extra room. Everything is working out well in that respect. The problem is that she is very sexually attracted to him and is even developing an infatuation and she believes that he feels the same but won't act on it. He is afraid that his girlfriend (I use the term loosely because she treats him like garbage) will find out and will never let him see his again. She has full custody. She has also filed false domestic violence reports on him when she is mad and he has spent time in jail for that. She then recants her statement after the damage has been done. Bob is also terrified that she will put him in prison by lying to his probation officer and the police. Bob has been flirting and teasing my friend something fierce, but just wont take that last step, and my friend doesn't want to push it because she's afraid that he will feel uncomfortable and move out and end up at the mission again, after he's been doing so well. Should I tell her that she has made her feelings clear and leave it up to him to act on it if he wants to, or to just ignore the attraction because nothing will ever happen because of his baby's mother? |
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I say let him tap that ass! All the other stuff may be up in the air, and he's obviously had a child with the wrong woman - anyone who acts like that needs some stick time! If he's stuck everywhere else in his life, what's wrong with serving him some hot poonaner...
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I think as a man if it's sex or a mission I'm going for sex, tell her to mistakenly walk out of the shower naked or just leave the door open.
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If he's the man you say he is, then don't do it. He shouldn't put his relationship with his daughter at any further risk. She probably needs her father in her life.
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Tell her to go find another guy that she thinks is cute, and get laid. It's surprising how many bad decisions are made in horniness. Get that out of the way before assessing the situation, and keep in mind that it may never become what she wishes it would be. The GF will always be there doing the same stuff, and the child will be the only one to really suffer for that. It sounds like a bad situation to get into, and I think she should let it be until he straightens himself and his life out. Then if the feelings are still present they can act on them since feeling of lust are only temporary anyway. It will show if it's lust or something else. Just my thoughts. I'd tread lightly, and cautiously.
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Tell her to go find another guy that she thinks is cute, and get laid. It's surprising how many bad decisions are made in horniness. Get that out of the way before assessing the situation, and keep in mind that it may never become what she wishes it would be. The GF will always be there doing the same stuff, and the child will be the only one to really suffer for that. It sounds like a bad situation to get into, and I think she should let it be until he straightens himself and his life out. Then if the feelings are still present they can act on them since feeling of lust are only temporary anyway. It will show if it's lust or something else. Just my thoughts. I'd tread lightly, and cautiously. woop woop
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it's generous to offer a room... it's not generous to sleep with a convenient guest who has issues... I'd be careful about the potential for domestic violence -- there's a he said and she said... and what the courts said... jail time for convicted law breakers...
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Your friend appears to be rather stupid if she can't figure it out. The guy is a total loser, which is why nobody else wants him around. Keep your nose out of it.
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Thanks, I just told her to be patient and if it's going to happen it will. As for everyone on here saying he's a loser...I know him, he really isn't. He's working hard to get his life back after some bad decisions and the crap his baby's mother put him through. I know the girlfriend too...total self-centered, low class woman who spends money going to the salon and buying designer clothes on herself before she'll buy for her daughter. My friend isn't on this site, but she still dates and is sexually active, so she's not waiting and pining for him.
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