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Apparently I'm Picky  

D11377 51F  
163 posts
8/4/2016 9:39 pm
Apparently I'm Picky
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justskin1 72M
13175 posts
8/4/2016 9:45 pm

 Like there is something wrong with picky?
Would not be surprised if even the bang and go girls have too high of standards to do him.
If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


kcerforever 53F  
11 posts
8/4/2016 10:08 pm

 I've been told that because I prefer bi/pan men. As though I should open myself up to all comers and be dissatisfied with the results I get.

So much entitlement out there. It's hard to see women as human and not just objects of lust if you can't see past your own dick.


xtcnsideu 118M
460 posts
8/4/2016 10:10 pm

 Profile looks good to me. Pretty straight forward. Not hard to understand. Game over. He lost!


angel222006 64F
149 posts
8/4/2016 10:22 pm

 agree with u 100%. I get told also Im to picky. Its not being picky its knowing what im looking for. Just because we r on this sight does not mean we r easy and will hop in bed with every guy who wants to hook up.


D11377 51F  
68 posts
8/4/2016 10:25 pm

 Thanks everyone, I'm glad you all can understand where I am coming from.


reign532 36M

8/4/2016 10:26 pm

 Profile seems straight forward and reasonable to me. Besides, you absolutely should be picky as you have every right to decide personally who want to be with and who you don't.


coptrainer56 74M
1880 posts
8/4/2016 11:15 pm

 It is YOUR body and YOUR choice. Just ignore the silliness and remain focused on whatever it is you seek.
Be safe, relax and just have fun!


Will4funinbc9 63M
202 posts
8/5/2016 3:35 am

 To picky never such a thing! Stick to it's your life. I really can't believe some of the men here. Hell I am picky does that make me wrong as well? Have a great weekend!


Yours_4A_knight 59M

8/5/2016 4:40 am

 You need to have standards, lets say realistic standards but lets face it everyone has them, this young man is just upset that he does not seem to be up to yours or maybe anyones standards, and being in the same position I feel his pain. [image]
But that never gives him or anyone else, the right to vent at you about it, and certainly does nothing for his cause to be upset with you. Iyt seems far to many people have forgetten that as much as we use computers to communicate that there is a real person at the other end of the message whose hopes dreams and aspirations are as important to them as our are to us.
Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
8/5/2016 7:35 am

 LOL I actually have a blog dedicated to hate emails sent out by men that are frustrated that they can't get any. I know why they can't get any!! I know of no one that is going to say they need to change to do the guy that just slammed them via email. It doesn't make them look appealing, in fact, it shows why we didn't want them.

Lowering ones standards means facing disappointment!! If someone is willing to screw anything and everything that lets them that shows how pathetic they are and not worth my time or most of anyone else's. Whenever I see 'age/race/weight doesn't matter' I just laugh. It means anyone and everyone and I can't imagine not having at least one preference.


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
8/5/2016 7:46 am
    Quoting astuteone:
    Reading all whom responded thus far, I think it is easy to see that many truly understand, get it and yet have their own opinion and desires. One thing I have learned over my years is that beauty and attraction, not unlike picky and selective can differ with each individual. More often than not talent, knowledge, compatibility and experience is rarely a consideration at all. I have witnessed many whom prided themselves with looks whether it be skinny, slim, average, BB, etc., but I can testify that in the other very relevant departments which do also matter to me, the larger majority lacked tremendously. Some times once, is more than enough. Just my opinion based on experience.
    ENJOY ALL

    R
I usually tell people that it is a combination!! If one is talented, but looks like Quasomodo, I am not going to be there. If they are model gorgeous, but are a total jerk... I am not going to be there. I know some fantastic people that I am just plain not attracted to and no amount of talent or experience is going to make me want them sexually. It just isn't there.

A combination of all those things is what makes it work best.


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
8/5/2016 9:14 am

 Some only need a pulse. While I don't base my choices on looks alone, there has to be some chemistry and attraction. If it isn't there, it can't be forced. None of this "it will happen in time." Nope, won't work for me. We all, or should have, preferences and we are entitled to them. I just don't understand why this is so difficult for people to understand.


I_willoralu 49M
1684 posts
8/5/2016 12:48 pm

 You can be as picky as you want. You like what you like and shouldn't have to settle for something you don't like or want.
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