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More Deception – And The Implications, To Me – are Large  

Msmealsonheels 30F  
185 posts
4/29/2019 5:56 pm
More Deception – And The Implications, To Me – are Large


I had noticed something recently while viewing member profiles. Maybe it’s just another website glitch? But I have my doubts about now. In viewing member profiles, I noticed I stopped seeing any, and all references to the last date the member had logged into their account.

A correction here - I know the display of a members join date on the members profile can be turned off by the member, in their account settings. And I know some members do turn off the display of the join date on their profile. But I thought it strange that I was no longer seeing the date of last visit on any profile…

I had also noticed that if someone peaked my interest , I could sent them a flirt, or hotlist them, and their last log-in date would be displayed in the list of profiles in my hotlist, or my flirts sent page.

Today - I notice all references to a members last log-in date – no longer display in either my hotlist, and my flirts sent page…

If this is not just another website glitch - to me, the implications of this are a bit large.

This means to me I will have no idea if a profile is abandoned, or not. if I were to write to a person, to try to contact them – I might well completely wasting all of my time and effort in trying to write them a creative and inviting message…

Not knowing if a profile had basically been abandoned by it’s owner would also help make it look like there are more people on the website – than their really are. But something like this is only more deception, by the parent company of all of the websites they run.

And at my expense, writing to profiles that may be abandoned. This gets more and more worthless, as a possible social website, as time goes on. Excepting the blogs here, of course. About the only place you may have any idea now – if the member is still active on one of the websites...

Msmealsonheels 30F  
688 posts
4/29/2019 6:02 pm


clittywhisperer1 59M
1415 posts
4/29/2019 6:18 pm

it is called marketing manipulation , make you keep trying and keep you active when no real profile person exists . bait and switch simple as that . only the chat rooms give any real interaction with some real people, but many are bots too .


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
4/29/2019 6:29 pm

the last date the member had logged into their account disappeared over a month ago.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
4/29/2019 6:34 pm

Hello young lady, as other have reported this feature did disappear some time back. it still shows on view all top fans I think. Not sure why this was removed as it was a nice tool to be able to tell if some one was active...

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
4/29/2019 6:43 pm

It was a month or 2 ago that this disappeared. So did the numer of friends in your list. I sent 2 complaints to Passion.com (Senior Sizzle). I want to know when people were last online. Why bother sending a friend request or message to someone who may not have been on the site for months. I suggest everyone send complaints to Passion/Senior Sizzle.


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
4/29/2019 6:50 pm

and in the last few days the "last date for people that flirted and view" one is now gone. So they have made all look the same, cant tell if some on is here or not. Like some of the other antics to create artificial "looking" activity....

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


Msmealsonheels 30F  
688 posts
4/29/2019 6:52 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    the last date the member had logged into their account disappeared over a month ago.
Well, I had noticed that. But as late as last night, I was still able to see the date of last log-in by a member - in my hotlist, and on my flirts sent page. Today the members last log-in date is gone from my hotlist, and my flirts sent page.

After the date of last log-in by a member disappeared from the profiles, I had been purposely either sending flirts, or hotlisting the member - just so I could see the date of their last log-in.

Now, today - that no longer works for me...


Msmealsonheels 30F  
688 posts
4/29/2019 7:01 pm

    Quoting clittywhisperer1:
    it is called marketing manipulation , make you keep trying and keep you active when no real profile person exists . bait and switch simple as that . only the chat rooms give any real interaction with some real people, but many are bots too .
Marketing? I agree.. But to me, more than just marketing. Absolutely deception. Lots of people that have been on here abandon their profile. You used to be able to see that when you viewed profiles. And I mean a very high percentage of profiles on the website showed the person had not logged-in months, and some not for years..

This means viewing profile looking for someone of interest - will be pretty much useless now. Because there will be a very high percentage chance you would be trying to contact someone that has abandoned their profile here. And this is on top of the percentage of people that just won't bother to answer anyway.


looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
4/29/2019 7:01 pm

Wow. I just went to friends list and now it dosen't show when they have last been online either. That's new in the last week. Severely not impressed.


Msmealsonheels 30F  
688 posts
4/29/2019 7:03 pm

    Quoting looking4u69ca:
    It was a month or 2 ago that this disappeared. So did the numer of friends in your list. I sent 2 complaints to Passion.com (Senior Sizzle). I want to know when people were last online. Why bother sending a friend request or message to someone who may not have been on the site for months. I suggest everyone send complaints to Passion/Senior Sizzle.
It's starting to look like why bother with anything - other than a free membership, and the blogs...


Msmealsonheels 30F  
688 posts
4/29/2019 7:13 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    Hello young lady, as other have reported this feature did disappear some time back. it still shows on view all top fans I think. Not sure why this was removed as it was a nice tool to be able to tell if some one was active...
On Friend Finder Networks, because they will keep abandoned profiles for years, to keep the member numbers high - it wasn't just a nice tool, it was a necessary tool!

To help keep you from completely wasting your time and effort - writing to abandoned profiles.. If you were ever going to try to contact anyone of interest to you.. As you might, on any kind of social website..


scott0250 57M
511 posts
4/29/2019 7:18 pm

Welcome to the new and unimproved Senior Sizzle.


Newbe509 47M

4/29/2019 7:26 pm

This site is sure nuff going backwards.


Msmealsonheels 30F  
688 posts
4/29/2019 7:29 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    and in the last few days the "last date for people that flirted and view" one is now gone. So they have made all look the same, cant tell if some on is here or not. Like some of the other antics to create artificial "looking" activity....
A thought I've had for a while, about that artificial "looking" activity. You all, the men on the companies websites - you all have been targeted. Especially those gullible enough to believe all the artificial "looking" activity they receive on this companies websites.

So many accusations have flown about scammers on this website, and I know there are a lot of them. Some of the scammers never seemed to get the recognition they deserved though - anyone using lies and deception for their personal gain. And on this companies websites, more often than not - it's about something other than money.

The artificial "looking" activity? That is about money though.. But guess whom the scammer is this time though...

And not knowing if a member is actually active, or not - it's in the same vain..


luv2meetu36 105M
671 posts
4/29/2019 8:29 pm

hmmm will need to check that out.. thanks for the insite


pketch 50M

4/29/2019 8:46 pm

This is a very interesting thread you've started. Things to think about. Thanks.


XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
4/30/2019 1:15 am

Good Morning, I wrote a Post about this back in February.
"WTF is this Site doing? This morning I searched members near me, suffice to say I was extremely surprised to see nearly 60 members in my local area!!

However on further investigation, there were some in there that I knew from previous searches hadn't been online for more than 3 months! On checking the profiles, they only had Joined Dates, the Last Visit Dates were all missing!
I cannot search by Last visit within 3 days etc. that has also disappeared! The only way to see current local members, is to search members online.

Yet another cynical attempt by Senior Sizzle, to try to Con Members into thinking there are more local members, than are actually there"

I feel your Frustration


Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"


Msmealsonheels 30F  
688 posts
4/30/2019 1:49 am

    Quoting  :

I would rather chose someone of interest to me - rather than wait to be chosen by someone that is not really of interest to me.

If I knew that a member had not logged-in in nearly 3-monthes or so, I have sent a one-liner before, asking if they were still watching their mailbox here. There will be no way to tell now though, how long it's been, since someone logged-in to their profile.

I have a hard time sending one-liners though. I know one-liners are less likely to be responded to. I know I don't view one-liners all that favorably, when I receive them.


Msmealsonheels 30F  
688 posts
4/30/2019 2:21 am

    Quoting  :

If you never send a man a message first, then this change in the website may never effect you. I would rather have a choice in a man that I think could be of deeper interest to me though. Honestly, there are a lot of men on here that I'm not really interested in.

I have a feeling the last log-in date will never return to the profiles though. When someone views profiles, actually seeing that so many members haven';t logged into the website - in months, or years... That would ruin the illusion, and the promise of the illusion - the parent company wishes to create on all of their websites. That all of the profiles on the website are real and active members.

It doesn't have to be real - it only needs to look like it could be real.....


Msmealsonheels 30F  
688 posts
4/30/2019 2:41 am

    Quoting  :

After writing about this a bit now, I think I understand.. The rationale for making this change in the member profiles, removing the last log-in date - is to help create an illusion. Especially for new and non-paid standard members.

To help create the illusion that there are many more active members on the website - than there actually are. The member profiles don't need to actually be real and active members - they only need to look like they could be...

Maybe it's a bit like men's profiles that have the marital status omitted... Unless you know up front to look for something - seeing something that isn't there can be a little more difficult to do....


Msmealsonheels 30F  
688 posts
4/30/2019 2:53 am

    Quoting XHamburgDave:
    Good Morning, I wrote a Post about this back in February.
    "WTF is this Site doing? This morning I searched members near me, suffice to say I was extremely surprised to see nearly 60 members in my local area!!

    However on further investigation, there were some in there that I knew from previous searches hadn't been online for more than 3 months! On checking the profiles, they only had Joined Dates, the Last Visit Dates were all missing!
    I cannot search by Last visit within 3 days etc. that has also disappeared! The only way to see current local members, is to search members online.

    Yet another cynical attempt by Senior Sizzle, to try to Con Members into thinking there are more local members, than are actually there"

    I feel your Frustration
My first thought was deception. I still see that, but now the word illusion is included in my feelings of the changes made to the website. And I feel this deception, and the illusion it helps create - is focused at new members, and especially potential new members.

The member profiles on their websites don't have to actually be real, and active members on the websites - they really only need to look like they could be....

And seeing that a member hasn't been active for months, or even years... Well, that would ruin the illusion...


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
4/30/2019 6:16 am



Cheers - P


backpocket13 50M
9007 posts
4/30/2019 2:44 pm

Hey Darlin,
..........This place is Notorious for not only using outdated profiles of people who haven’t been here in years,.........They also send out fake flirts and a whole host of other nonsense,........That’s why I’m here to blog only,...........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


Msmealsonheels 30F  
688 posts
5/1/2019 6:42 am

    Quoting backpocket13:
    Hey Darlin,
    ..........This place is Notorious for not only using outdated profiles of people who haven’t been here in years,.........They also send out fake flirts and a whole host of other nonsense,........That’s why I’m here to blog only,...........
    Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
Let's see.. Make such promises for the website members right on the landing page of the website - essentially promising the viewer that the members of the website are going to want to have sex with them...

Bombarding new members with fake generated website email messages, and paid for ambassador contact messages...

Fake profile view messages..

Flirts, and what all else???

And now going out of their way to hide the fact a profile may be inactive, or even abandoned for more than a year...

I admit I was a bit upset at first. Because the most recent changes will effect the way I had been using the website. Looking at things now though, there could be more to what's going on.. There just might be a part-two to this blog post..


GangBangMemphis 46M  
183 posts
5/1/2019 11:05 am

The "nearby" search is totally worthless if I can't eliminate the people who haven't been on in weeks or months or years. Goodbye nearby.


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