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Emerging into a new day more slowly  

Ianpoman 79M  
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3/29/2021 3:11 am
Emerging into a new day more slowly

What a year when<b> fantasy </font></b>took control of reality--at least sexually for . Solo fun but with lots of correspondence and IM chats. You AFFers are great share greetings and chats and imaginations. Many of you are lucky have partners who love and look for some "more" spice things . Others I talk are like , lonely with partners we love but for whom sex just isn't "on the menu".

What do you think? Do we expect too much of sex? Do we load it with performance anxiety--am I good enough? Do I want my partner be someone this partner just isn't going be?

I think I've come accept that I'm bi, really love my wife, really enjoy flirting. I'd be adventuresome again but this time without being so impulsive. I want some chemistry, some sense of connection without insistent expectations. I can take care of "nature". It still feels wonderful.

Really looking emerge into something more than wham bam and less than strings attached. Covid 19 isn't the only terror going around. But I don't want fear to crush the life out of me. Life is risky. Sanity is possible. Let's and see where it goes? Life is still great.

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