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Where is the RESPECT?
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Where is the RESPECT? Yes... R-E-S-P-E-C-T... like the old Aretha Franklin song. Anyone remember that song? I write this because more and more I receive messages from men that show no RESPECT as they would perhaps when meeting a female out or through friends. But sometimes I have to wonder if even then with some of you. So many.. "wanna lick that pussy".. "baby I can make you cum" .. etc in FIRST messages sent. NO wonder you have issues with connecting and think the females that are on here are here to play games or aren't real. Who wants to get real with you? I certainly won't and I believe that there are many females on here that feel the same as I do. Do you honestly think that you are being cool.. sexy... let alone ""manly" when you send first messages like that?  Fellas.. ever hear the saying... "You draw more bees with honey than with vinegar" ?? Yes this is a sexually oriented site designed to bring like minded people together.. to connect. But that does NOT mean you should lose the upbringing that I know most of you have had. We are all adults but behavior like that is childish and crude and shows so lack of respect that most of us females get with first impression, at least myself anyway.. that this guy cannot be trusted to meet. Just because sex is the theme and sex is what this site is all about.. being a gentleman has not lost it's appeal. Anymore I just delete the messages without reading. The same goes with the IM chats when I see crude sexual remarks. Am I being old fashioned because of my age? I don't think so. Females on here deserve to be messaged with respect, kindness, consideration. It 's ok to tell someone how sexy you think they are. What woman would not want to read that? But do it in such a way that is not offending at first reading. Get to know them a little first... then erotic talk just may be welcomed. All that being said... I DO WANT TO THANK ALL THE GENTLEMEN THAT ARE ON SITE! Yes you know who you are. The ones that KNOW how to approach a female and still get his point across that he finds her sexy and is interested. I am sure you see action and good responses from those that you message. Even if you don't.... please do NOT stop being a gentleman! I enjoy this site and have met many great people and some not so great. This site is more real than any of the more acceptable well advertised dating sites. It is real because sex is what we ALL want and we are able to openly express it and what we desire with our profiles. The other sites... you know what they are.. are a total joke. Said my peace about this.. Thanks for reading. 
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Excellent post !! Can't argue with anything that you've said either. some get it, some don't.
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You know very well that there is anything in this world. Education and lack of it! But we can not judge all by the stupidity of a few. I liked the post! And agree !!
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11/15/2015 6:37 pm |
Great Post I tip my Stetson to you madam, I hope that you write some more blogs. I really don't understand today's generation, and where are their manners and respect. just remember trust and respect are earned not a right.
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im showing my age.but I was raised to respect women.and that's what I do.to many men on here think with there little brain.
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Agreed! Very Well said Though its a sex site but that doesnt mean all femles here are SLUT and they will let themself Fuck with everyone who passes by  Maintaining her DIGNITY & respecting her are the key issues which gentlemen allways follow while approaching a lady  Its all about knowing her , respecting her and fullfilling her wishes togetherCheers 
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1 post 11/15/2015 8:32 pm |
Well spoken my dear ! Hope to enjoy that restraunt again sometime !
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there is a lack of gentlemen on this site, but I apologize on behave of the non asshats,
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I like your profile. You're very clear about what you're looking for. Ted
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You have made great points and I agree. However many ladies on here put up one thing, then get upset by the response. For example A woman that has pictures of her vag and dirty details in her profile. Then she complains about what Men say to her. Back a couple of years ago it came out that Senior Sizzle members profiles were being used on different sites. So your profile shows up on a site with a suggestive name in the title and others think this is who you are. Just some things to think about.
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I thought this was like high school. All those "I fuk and eet you reel gud" guys are fighting off the attractive women. Seriously, respect is part of my work, I even blogged about it a while back (not on here.) It is a way of living. Chuck
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The seduction is a big part of the fun. Showing respect and having fun outside of bed starts the seduction. Ted
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great posting love to ask you out to dinner sweetie ....
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9/21/2016 12:59 pm |
Lady - You have got a class!! It is not easy to find somebody with clear level headed thinking. I hope we connect. - RK
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Very Eloquently put I completely agree with what you've said. Yes its a sex site but a little manners go a long way. Its true there are more fakes than real women on this site but the real women that are on here do appreciate appropriate behavior.
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