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IS IT CHEATING?  

Cuddly_Kitten 54F
15141 posts
9/7/2018 4:10 pm
IS IT CHEATING?


Is it cheating if..... it's with the same sex?

If you walked in and your girlfriend/wife was in bed with another woman.... would you consider that cheating? Would you be less offended than if it was with a man????

I just over heard some people talking today about this topic.... and I wanted to see what you guys think....

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tmacshane26 39M
2092 posts
9/7/2018 4:13 pm

Well I would have to talk to her first before she decides she wants to have her first girl on girl experience. I would be surprised at first if I did she her with another woman, but it would definitely turn me on some.


Darkthorne 54M
14 posts
9/7/2018 4:14 pm

This is a good question. It is cheating and while I would be a little less offended I still don't think I could forgive it. There is emotional trust that is betrayed by that. And while I admit as a guy the though of it is a turn on in the area of the darker fantasies, its still a betrayal and not right.


scott6250 61M

9/7/2018 4:17 pm

It would still be cheating but very sexy to watch.

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littlebbwfairy44 49F

9/7/2018 4:26 pm

It's cheating even though its most guys fantasy to watch their wife/girlfriend with another woman


alohashirt50 73M

9/7/2018 4:37 pm

is it cheating to look and want to have sex with same sex person or someone else besides you husband or wife?


love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
9/7/2018 4:40 pm

No it's not cheating 2 me. I would tell her way 2 go. Then ask her could I join in or at least let me watch.


boredarmyguy3 43M  
121 posts
9/7/2018 4:42 pm

If you feel it is cheating then it is cheating. If it is something that you wish would happen then you can't be mad.


bitchkitty2017 71F

9/7/2018 4:46 pm

lol yep everyone says the same thing follow like sheep but bottom line wonder who telling lies or whos telling the truth? lol would be interesting to see especially if the wife or gf would enjoy another woman more than him and not be into him much any more ..that be a hoot..good one girl..


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
9/7/2018 4:47 pm

    Quoting tmacshane26:
    Well I would have to talk to her first before she decides she wants to have her first girl on girl experience. I would be surprised at first if I did she her with another woman, but it would definitely turn me on some.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
9/7/2018 4:47 pm

    Quoting scott6250:
    It would still be cheating but very sexy to watch.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
9/7/2018 4:48 pm

    Quoting alohashirt50:
    is it cheating to look and want to have sex with same sex person or someone else besides you husband or wife?


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
9/7/2018 4:48 pm

    Quoting boredarmyguy3:
    If you feel it is cheating then it is cheating. If it is something that you wish would happen then you can't be mad.


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Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
9/7/2018 4:49 pm

Who cares as long as I can join in.

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
9/7/2018 4:52 pm

Very true

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hungin928 52M
14 posts
9/7/2018 4:53 pm

Of course it is


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
9/7/2018 4:53 pm

    Quoting  :

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
9/7/2018 4:53 pm

Yes... it is.

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luvgluv19 75M

9/7/2018 4:54 pm

That is a very personal question that you must sit down and discuss first with your self and then with your spouse. Man or woman alike it is sex. If my wife did it I would let her go to it and keep an ace in the hole


Blackiron35 40M

9/7/2018 4:54 pm

no its not


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
9/7/2018 5:23 pm

well let see there are in are bed and she on my side of the bed it cheating if I aske to join in and the wife said no its cheating. if I walked in and saw another woman naked in bed and I striped down climbed in and went for her not the wife would it be cheating. lolololol no I would be less offended if it was a woman over a guy.


EWGuy 64T
563 posts
9/7/2018 5:36 pm

YES, plain and simple. You play together or it's cheating.


jones8559 49M
19 posts
9/7/2018 5:49 pm

I would just be sad to not be invited to at least watch...…...


jrfree2play 54M  
140 posts
9/7/2018 6:30 pm

The gender of the other person makes no difference, if you're doing shady things with them without your partner knowing.


Idaho_Author 54M  
23 posts
9/7/2018 6:37 pm

I think it depends on the circumstances of your Relationship.....if the two of you had already discussed and laid out that it was okay for her to be with another woman, definitely not. If you had talked about it but not actually agreed on it, then it's up in the air. If you had talked about it and said NO, then yeah....it's cheating.
Every Relationship is different.....and it depends on the circumstances. At the same time, our perception is our emotional reality; if you perceive it as cheating, then it's going to have the same effect, whether it is or not. That emotional effect has to be dealt with.....


Looknfind18 71M  
4379 posts
9/7/2018 6:59 pm

probably cheating but I would be less offended.


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