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Why do guys do this???
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Why do guys do this??? Gentlemen, take a moment and explain something to me.. WHY DO YOU MEN TREAT A WOMAN LIKE A QUEEN WHEN YOU FIRST MEET HER... START DATING HER..... OPEN DOORS.... CALL HER SWEET PET NAMES... AND THEN.... A FEW MONTHS LATER...STOP DOING ALL THAT AND START ACTING LIKE A JERK.???????? IF YOU START OUT BEING A SWEET MAN TREATING ME GOOD.... KEEP DOING IT!!! WHY DO YOU ALL CHANGE???? THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG |
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9/4/2018 4:10 pm |
Cuddly_Kitten, here is my take on it! I think that most men are goal orientated. That mean when we reach the goal, our job is done. I know I have to make a concerted effort to not do what you are complaining about. Because, once I get my goal (her heart or whatever) I don't have to try anymore. But, I also knows how that hurts, so I am an ape that is "growing up." My analysis. Take it for what you paid for it. But, I do have several leading men's researchers behind me on this. Because, I really wanted to know why I did it!
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All men change? Isn't that the same as saying all women change? Some do , some don't.  " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I'm never a jerk to anyone. Dewy"s Cooterlicking Corner
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The old bait and switch, they win you over and now got what they want. I have a friend that started dating a guy just before Christmas. she got no presents, still with him for valentines day, not card, flower, candy, night out on the town still with him. year later she asked him to marry her he said why would I want to that. she still with him. who the stupid one. I asked how many time in a day did even say I Love You she didn't answer me but she take care of his needs just the same. he got money that's what she wants. Back to subject once a guy puts a hook into reel you in, you don't want to get away and they know it. I hold the door for my wife, I let her start any thing before me, respect is lost with the next two generation wait till you see the next generation to follow.
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9/4/2018 4:27 pm |
I think You are talking about the Younger Guys of today... You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!
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Because, as my mother always told my sisters "All men are assholes. Eventually they will show their true colors."
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9/4/2018 4:36 pm |
It’s not all guys.... the guys that stay that way are just way harder to fine... trust me I know one he just lives states away...
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9/4/2018 4:40 pm |
You're meeting the wrong men...
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9/4/2018 4:58 pm |
I can not speak for all the jerks! I know I would always treat u like a lady
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9/4/2018 5:05 pm |
hmmmm ...what about how she changes...does she stop saying thank you... does she stop making him feel like a King...two way street
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Not all stop being a Gentleman. That is just a way of life. We treat everyone with the respect they deserve.
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Sounds like their true nature came forth...I also open the doors etc, Im in my 50s you get more with honey than being rude or an asshole esp if you meet a woman who responds back and shows appreciation to being treated well .Thats the best thing when its a two way street if you please
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I can't really answer that. I've seen this throughout my life. I've had friends and my sister go through this. My sister would end up with a man she loved who at first would treat her right, but then would become a jerk and start abusing her and controlling her. I hated seeing my sister go through that, but yet after a few months she would continue to let him get away with because in my heart she loved him. A friend of mine a few years did the same thing and it caused friction in our friendship. I've told you about her in your blog a few months ago. Women love a man who worships them, but also has some bad boy instincts in them too.
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Kitten, this is Joey and Jess will probably give me a "ration of" for this answer. My answer to your question is a question. Why does the road head stop and the bitching start? Just kidding girls. I still open doors for my lady, hold her hand, and lift the covers in the middle of the night, just to watch her breathe.
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maybe not every man is like that
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I never have, no fake here. Always the same.
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9/4/2018 6:31 pm |
Not all guys do this.
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9/4/2018 6:59 pm |
I treat my lady the same most of the time. "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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I kind of resent the implication that we all do this. but to answer your question I'd guess the guy just viewed the girl as a piece of ass, and has now decided to move on. Most of My Friends Would SayYoure a FAKE Scary Places I Get Around [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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Well, I'm from the old school, where men were taught to always be a gentleman, I did all of that stuff with my ex clear up to the time we divorced, so not all men are like that at all. I love the way you make me horny without even doing anything.
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Dating and romancing a woman should last forever.
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WHY DO YOU MEN TREAT A WOMAN LIKE A QUEEN WHEN YOU FIRST MEET HER... .... I don't. I wouldn't. She hasn't deserved / earned that kind of treatment. That would be stupid. Men who say they do this special treatment to women , have low self esteem. Why do they? Because the guy wants to get laid. He thinks no other woman will give him attention. But of course, some guys do that because he knows women will react favorably if she hears the right words, and experiences the right actions. Basically , "Seduce her mind , fuck her body". .... OPEN DOORS.... CALL HER SWEET PET NAMES. .... I don't. I wouldn't. The woman can open her own door, and the woman has a name. She's not a special person to justify such behavior. .. AND THEN.... A FEW MONTHS LATER...STOP DOING ALL THAT ..... As I said... they have low self esteem, or were running a game on her. But either way, these guys got what they wanted. This kind of male behavior probably would not happen if women , -when invited out on a "DATE"- would just say, "No" when she's not sexually interested. ....Why? Because just about any woman over 25, knows within the first 10 seconds of meeting a man if she ever wants to see him naked. The guy has approached you, invited you out, because he wants to get sex. Women say, "But I need to get to know him"....... no she doesn't...... she wants a commitment from him.... she's not excited enough to just have sex , for fun. She wants a production. AND START ACTING LIKE A JERK.? .... A man is not a jerk because he won't open her door, nor do any of the "Polite" things women of the early 1900's , were accustomed. Funny when a woman calls a man a jerk because he got sex out of her, and stopped pretending to be a gentleman. ....She set the game rules, he only played her game by her rules, then he got his rocks off, and he left... he met his goal. When todays woman sells her vagina for a certain expected behavior , a certain price [food , drink, favors, gifts], men with low self esteem will try to pay the price of admission. Or he's shrewd and reasons if he plays by her rules, and gets to fuck her, he has met the game goal. IF YOU START OUT BEING A SWEET MAN TREATING ME GOOD.... KEEP DOING IT!!! .... But why should he? Are you making him jump through hoops to get some pussy? Also he would have to be much more than "Sweet", he needs to be viscerally arousing to you. My way of treating women , is not to treat women until she has earned special treatment. Women say that is being a jerk, because this is not playing her game, not putting her on a pedestal. I know , if a woman wants to have sex with me, I don't have to treat her special.... I don't have to buy her stuff.... I know I can get sex without playing her game. WHY DO YOU ALL CHANGE? ..... Because he got the prize. He played your game. Don't play games with him, and he won't play games with you.
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There attention span is limited .
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Hello Kitten I love doing this for ladies at anytime I can would like to never stop too. The gf that I have now I was doing all of that for her like opening doors. One day she told me to stop it. She said she didn't want to be treated like she couldn't do things for herself. Classy Cat Butch
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I still do after 14years
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