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Limp dick syndrome
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Limp dick syndrome I wouldn't want to be man these days. There is so much pressure put on you. Women can fake it very easily but you HAVE to perform and when you can't perform you are called "LIMP DICK"... Women don't have to worry about hair loss, shrinkage and other issues that men have to deal with but we do have to go through changes and mid life crisis too. I will admit that men have it worse than we women do though.. How embarrassing it must be to be in bed with a woman and you can't get an erection. When I was younger I dated an older man who told me he had erectile dysfunction. I was so ignorant to what that was ... that I told him if he had to take a pill to be with me then I didn't want him... I was admittedly an idiot back then. I am now ashamed of the way I behaved when I was younger. When do you tell your date/girlfriend that you have erectile dysfunction. The answer is "there is never a good time"... but hopefully if you have issues with this condition you will find a woman who is understanding.. Any comment on this topic?? Kitten THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG |
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Hi Kitten, I was one of those young men that into my late and early 40's I could get hard and stay hard for a good long time. Now, like many men my age, I have ED issues. It makes me shy away from advances from ladies that in the past I would chase without a second thought. Yes, there are treatments and pills, but they do not always work for all men. But I have been lucky enough to find a lady that is supportive and understanding beyond what I thought could be possible. Maybe her being a nurse is why she is so understanding. And I have found out, through being with her, that even without a hard cock, I CAN please her and we are both happy with that.
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The penis isn't the only thing a man has available to excite a woman to orgasm. It's been my experience that those tools can be even better when a man knows how to use them and knows where to use them on a woman! 
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Haven't had that problem yet but will deal with it when it happens
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I think you have it wrong. Although meds don't work for all men, they do work for most. So there are drugs to cure ED. However, there is nothing to cure when a woman is inorgasmic. Women's orgasms are waaaay more complicated, and a lot more than biology is involved. Its way more mental and I thing there's a ton of research to conclude that. So there are drug therapies to resolve inorgasmic or ED in men. Nothing to date for women. However, the drug company that does resolve women's problems in orgasms is going to get rich beyond Bill Gates' dreams!
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Hey gals. This is the very best opportunity to take a man into your mouth and very thoroughly suckle away.....really get into it without choking. How erotic and maybe for you both. Fingers and tongues, oh my, oh my. FYI....a penis with nerve endings can feel and orgasm mightily without being hard at all. Just like our softer tissues, it still loves to be touched and it inspires our man to touch back with pleasure!
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I've been pretty fortunate to not have much of a problem with that...thanks for your concern...
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Unfortunately, these days, ED is affecting more and more young people. The availability of copious amounts of media containing naked women who are way out of our leagues and performing sexual acts we've never dreamed of, is having lasting affects on our bodies. Research I've looked at shows that porn induced ED can happen to anyone, regardless of age, and it appears to be more severe dependent on the amount of time (years) it has been used. The good news is the affects are reversible, the bad news is to reverse the affects, one must give up masturbating to porn, then he will be able to be aroused by a woman in the flesh and not only the perfect arrangement of pink pixels on a screen. Stop fucking your computer and start fucking your girlfriend!
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Glad I don't have this problem but if I ever develop an issue as I age, I would hope my lady is enlightened as you.
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6/1/2016 9:31 am |
Well I consider Myself lucky for not having that problem..I still get rock hard.. You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!
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You are, truly, one in a million! Men get hard Through visual as well as physical stimuli.So I' gladly accept my share of the problem.Being shamed for it and blaming ourselves only is not a healthy way to combat it. Using more than all the road!
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You are a very wise understanding and compassionate woman! Kudo's to you lady! 
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The Cock Is KING. Get reminded every evening news program's commercials. So many fixes and go-arounds, that there is hope for every man's condition. Last MFM, with married nurses, we spent the majority of time not actually fucking or using hardness of cocks. In play and having fun, it is a whole-body-experience. I have zero problems, but used Viagra twice a dozen years ago. What an odd, unsensual feeling it made, but sure was erect for hours straight. Normal to go, then rest a few mins, then ready again.
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6/1/2016 12:12 pm |
I girl can always recusitate it with her mouth
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I've had a few experiences with this issue, and they all happened on first time encounters. It was embarrassing for sure, but the women were always sympathetic. I don't have ED... those few times it happened were purely due to nerves on my part. In fact, in a couple of instances I was able to get it up through gentle coaxing on the woman's part.  Thoughts from the Garden...
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Thank all of you for responding and sharing your stories. Next blog I may have a penis in mouth ... lmao.. just kidding... THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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6/1/2016 8:56 pm |
It's been a big issue with me since my mid 20s due to radiation therapy and surgery I had. I have tried various therapies that do work. One of them was an injection into the penis which took about 10 minutes to work. It certainly took the spontaneity out of things but, I would get hard enough to cut diamonds for hours. It does make it near impossible to develop a relationship though. I wish I could find a woman that would explore ways to enjoy ourselves. It sucks
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Thank you all for the input. THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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i would want to either
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6/8/2016 4:52 am |
To be honest, Kitten, I have had experiences at both extremes. ANY guy, at one time or another and for any number of reasons might not be able to perform. Actually the same is true for premature ejaculation. I was involved with one lady where there was an episode of both. She wasn't very understanding and moreover didn't seem to want to discuss it at all. A short term relationship I had involved a lady that totally understood and was very supportive. I would still be with that one today except for her moving across the country and me unable to follow her. While it may seem hard, it all comes back to communication and honesty for me. Sure, the first thought it to explain the instance away and/or "ignore" it, but talking it out and being honest about it even when it makes you vulnerable is my idea of the best way to deal with it. I believe in talking with your partner.
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6/30/2016 8:59 am |
Only happens with to booze.
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Well...here's MY story. I've been a Type I diabetic for 40 years, and things started NOT to work like they used to. Viagra, Levitra, Cialis, and combinations of the three...NOTHING WORKED, thought my sex life was over! Went to a specialist, and he recommended a Penile Implant! I had the operation a few years ago, lost a little length, but it can stay up ALL NIGHT LONG, and is as hard as a rock! and no one can tell by looking! I had to trade a little QUANTITY for the best QUALITY i could have ever imagined though! I'm not hung like a horse, but I can run the race better than ANYONE!..and cum back for more!
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It is more of a problem for the lady if a man does not get it up every time? She can take it to heart you do not love or care about her and she need to understand and learn that is not true but it not always easy to be ready for her when she wants it????? but I am willing to try and be@@@@!!!!!!
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If a man can eat pussy well, it shouldn't matter if he can't get hard. I'd rather have oral (giving and receiving) than penetration any way of the week.
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That's really frustrating I have had it a couple of times and it is very killing it it had happened when I have been working for long time without having a break I hate it and there is nothing wrong with the partner
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