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Topical Groups and choosing a Main Pic  

Vampaerus 48M
272 posts
3/6/2008 2:36 pm

Last Read:
6/21/2009 6:29 pm

Topical Groups and choosing a Main Pic

While LMO does not have a strict rule against genitalia pictures, there are some factors which you should carefully consider.

Yes, it is a "sex site" and we're all adults. What you choose as a Main picture expresses to everyone you encounter on this site, not just our group, how you wish to present yourself. Afterall, you chose that picture of yourself to put forward.

Many people throughout the site, as well as LMO specifically, do not enjoy carrying on a conversation with "a Dick". While you are free to make up your own mind, do not be surprised if you are shunned if you take this route. Perhaps surprising to some, but in-yo-face female genitalia is typically ill received as well.

I should also point out here, there is a HUGE difference between a "cock shot" and a quality nude photo. A "full nude" that shows the total package has been found to do very very well on this site, and will typically get a favorable response in LMO as well.

The Main profile pic is *by far* the single most important feature to using this site. Choose wisely.
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rm_texasmermaid 53F
738 posts
3/11/2008 6:01 pm

I, as most women on this site state in our profiles ...
*to please refrain from sending a cock shot*
Its amazing how many do anyway, then they wonder why they never get any responses

Seems some Men are so proud of their cocks they think the rest of the world wants to see them.

Hey dont get me wrong I adore cocks

Its just not the very first body part I want see when your introducing yourself.

So if you dont belive it.... just take a look at some bling made by several gals. on the site.

[bling 136599] [bling 138761]


gonzo729 60M
105 posts
3/12/2008 12:14 pm

Nicely put Vamp.


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
3/13/2008 11:16 am

I have followed a few blogs and such on this *cock shot* thing. I did go read the actual studies.. and it was based on 30 women, of which not all of them even completed it and one never got started and left. I have a hard time understanding how anyone would see a test with 45 people (15 men), and suddenly it speaks for the Millions of people on the planet.

ON THIS SITE.. there are SO many dicks at us, the normal person in every day life doesn't see that nor is exposed to it. YES, when you first log in it is an "Oh wow"... but by day 2 or 3...lol even liking to see them women get "tired" of it. You can't have the same dinner every day and NOT get bored.. thing.. same sex every day.. you get BORED!! So why does anyone think seeing 50,000 cocks a day is NOT going to get boring.

Also, it IS the first impression. It does represent yourself. I am not saying I don't like men.. I am not saying I don't like penis'. However, if you walk into a room and act like a DICK FIRST.. everyone will remember you ARE a dick!!

A cock shot and a 'full body shot' ARE two different things. A close up of a hand choking the little bastard till it turns purple with a hairy scrotum.. is NOT attractive!! YES, there are some women that would like to see them. But in the long run.. your FACE and BODY WILL have an effect on if they do meet you or not!!!

YES.. sex site... NO .. whorehouse warehouse. I have met some really wonderful people and some total losers on this site.. and the penis didn't make me over look the losers, and the penis didn't make me do the nice ones either. "Chemistry" usually plays a part in that. Some people just don't click.

ALL men have penis'.. ALL women have vaginas. Yet think.. we are not ALL having sex with each other. Even your divorced wife/husband had genitals.. why divorce them if showing their dick/vagina would solve it all???? rofl


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
3/13/2008 1:55 pm

HEY>. I am adding MY cock shot!! Vamp.. your is more colorful, but mine is actually rather electrifying..lol


rm_jastin31 46M/47F

6/16/2008 4:36 pm

I love that you have this posted. I have seen my fair share of hairies in here and there is more to it than that!


huggybar56 68M

7/3/2008 4:46 pm

I think its very silly for men to just have there cocks as a photo itonly proves what they think with. I agree with Vamp if its a total nude shot then thats different but, please why not have that as one of your photos in your profile for one to look at if they want and not as primary photo.


ChillyAzTx 69M

1/10/2009 12:56 am

    Quoting  :

I just could not help myself . . . sorry!

I hear all of what you guys are saying, but I will say that I got over 12,000 views when I was active and nearly 500 friends, many of which I actually met. I am certainly not active now, but I figure, whatever works is what you should do.

Chilly


Vampaerus 48M
372 posts
1/28/2009 12:08 pm

    Quoting ChillyAzTx:
    I just could not help myself . . . sorry!

    I hear all of what you guys are saying, but I will say that I got over 12,000 views when I was active and nearly 500 friends, many of which I actually met. I am certainly not active now, but I figure, whatever works is what you should do.

    Chilly
you always were the exception to the "rule" anyway...


rm_MonK_76 48M

3/4/2009 1:48 am

I don't see the point of showing my dick to all here. It takes away some of the fun and excitement when flirting.
I love to flirt, all over, even with the cashier at the lokal grocery store. Old, young, don't matter. If I can give them a better day by giving them a compliment or two, I also have a better day.
I feel I get much better in contact with ladies if I use my humor, and are not afraid to speak up.
... but then again ... I have a profile here. hehe.


ChillyAzTx 69M

6/14/2009 10:29 pm

    Quoting  :

Still here, but not for long. Thanks for remembering! When I joined the group I became a big subject for discussion, but they realized I was harmless and let me stay. My pics did work for me when I was playing, not to compete with the ladies, but I had over 10,000 views when I was active. They are not for everybody. Chilly


sparksandbarks42

8/30/2009 10:02 am

Well, I want a woman to want what I do: to wonder and then not be disappointed. Though I can't be certain how I measure up against that standard, I try . . . hard. So, I chose a teasing pic and the other is on the profile. And when emailing a member who isn't Gold I never include cock shots of any kind. Yes, I want a woman to want my cock and a pic of it, too, but only after I believe she wants me - first.

Fair enough?


rm_FRANKNEE123 78M

9/28/2009 8:55 am

i don't have even one shot of me naked

frank


rm_FRANKNEE123 78M

9/28/2009 8:58 am

i love high pink

frank


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