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Keepsake Box ...
Keepsake Box ... I have this like totally awesome keepsake box that I picked up at a thrift store. It's actually more like a mini trunk. All my cards from my hubby, from my D/s family and friends are stored in there. Plus, event programs and stuff like this. Over the last few days, I have been looking thru it and came across a memory. A long time ago, what seems like eons, someone gave me this. I always wanted to keep this - us - as a great memory - still do. I picked it up and realized how long it has been since I actually held it in my hand. Realized how long it has been since I heard the sound of it buckling round my neck - all the happy feelings it brought to me. All these things came flooding back into my mind. Then, there was the toxicity of the relationship. All the nites that I cried myself to sleep in bad tears. No matter how much we tried to make it work over a period of like 9 years or so, the Universe just didn't allow for it. This is what led it to ending somewhat badly - continued attempts to make it work after the window of opportunity passed. Now that I reflect upon it, I am not so sure there even ever was a shadow of a window. Part of me wants to salvage the happy thoughts. Part of me wants to throw it away, tho, I still can't even bring myself to delete 9 digits from my phone. Not today - maybe tomorrow or next week. Maybe never. It's one of those things. I don't want to have "landfill regret" ... So, we will see what happens. The Universe has a way of helping me sort these things out. I just have to be open to it, whatever it may be ... In Luv, Lite, Laffter ... |
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Trix, what an awesome box hun I love these memento keepsake boxes. And what surprises you come to find in them..
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woww In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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keep it! it doesn't take up much space physically but it signifies a significant event in your life
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Trix, what an awesome box hun I love these memento keepsake boxes. And what surprises you come to find in them.. In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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I pretty much keep that keepsake box in my head. People deal with things differently and in their own ways. If it works for you then keep it. Some people throw everything away with the relationship! Hey, BTW, off topic... I've tried emailing you but this system is a little wacky. Keep on rockin'! In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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Keepsakes of good times are great. Keeping things that remind us of the bad times are tough. We learn about life through the keepsakes we collect! In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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keep it! it doesn't take up much space physically but it signifies a significant event in your life In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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Thank you kindly! The "vacancy" sign in my head has long since stopped flashing - LOL - too funny! A piece of my heart is definitely in that box. The way it was cared for. And, the way it was torn to shreds. Definitely bittersweet. We live, learn and continue on. In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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I did an exhibit and book, "Precious Objects". about the special meaning of things. While not quite the same, the best parts were about how person came to have the things. The actual object had little meaning or commercial value. It is difficult for many people to share this stuff. Chuck
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I did an exhibit and book, "Precious Objects". about the special meaning of things. While not quite the same, the best parts were about how person came to have the things. The actual object had little meaning or commercial value. It is difficult for many people to share this stuff. Chuck In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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