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Profiles that say "no single men?" A warning sign?
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Profiles that say "no single men?" A warning sign? I enjoy playing with married men. I understand the need for extra excitement. Often, I get couples writing to me to arrange for fun. I've enjoyed a few couples since starting this lifestyle. Great fun. But I always get a little suspicious when I see "no single men" on a couple's profile. Sometimes I think it is a control thing. Sometimes I think it is an insecurity issue. Often I find it is a very inexperienced couple not truly ready for this lifestyle. Regardless, I have always thought what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I've heard all the excuses, "she is completely satisfied by the husband", "not at all interested in any other man", "she is only looking to explore her bi side." I just get the feeling that these couples are not really ready or worse, the wife is only going along because her husband says so. And I have yet to find a woman who can honestly say she is not the least bit curious about enjoying another man. These all seem like excuses for the man to get his cake and eat it too. Reverse cuckold in action perhaps? I don't really know. What are your thoughts? |
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I find it disturbing when the male of a couple vets and arranges for a man to fuck his wife. Makes me feel she is having no say in the matter. That and when the only pic are of the man. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well. 
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Hmmm, very interesting, I've thought about this as well. 1st I thought it was because the user or users get spammed by single males such as me. Then I thought well, the husband don't want to let them explore other men due to their insecurities or not being able to pleasure his wife by himself. The slight fear of liking my dick or his. @CarbonRoadBike I don't think this has to do with dick size..but matter of a racial preference, Even thought I'm black I like consider my self as a BBC cause thats what others considers me as. Actually I think the word BBC is more of a cute nick name other than just a Black guy. It doesn't even have to be about our dicks most of the time, stamina can take part of it, body figure might attract them. possibly the Coco butter most black men are known for wearing, Proably want's to be more open minded and Black is the first person they thought of. je suis desole, qoui je suis fatigue. ~Sean. ~Sean K.
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Having been on this site and others as both a single man and a man woman couple I wanted to comment here ( I must say I'm not an expert just my perspective). While on LS sites as a couple our profile was one the stated no singles men or woman. MY girlfriend at the time was bi and enjoyed FF play but was very possessive. We played with couples or rather the girls would play then any MF play was with your own partner. I hoped eventually she would relax. we went our own way for other reasons. So my belief is the no single guys in profile stems from insecurities on one or the others part. Many profiles that don't have single guys selected will later in the profile tell what type of single guys they are looking for. As a single guy I will respect the profiles that say no single or not looking for single guys. I may look at the profile but when I read No single guys I respect it. I know some do not. Bottom line both everyone needs to be secure in their relationship and their own skin to have any fun in the LS.
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WHEN I was married, I never once had a woman or cpl or group refuse me based on my marriage status. When I have been Single on the other hand, have often been refuse BECAUSE I was single, sigh. I, have never refused a gal because she was married, if I refused, which has been very rare, it has been on hygiene basis, or the inability to find privacy (I once was brought home by a gal my age, who had her children & a cpl of grand-children IN the house, introduced me to them all, and then we proceeded to her bedroom for our fun, me knowing those elsewhere in the house knew what & could HEAR our activities! Abit un-nerving, but I didnt refuse, as long as we could lock the door). Otherwise, am not sure I have ever refused a gal who requested sex.
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