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What I'd give....
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What I'd give.... What I'd give for someone who really enjoyed being with me. For a lot of people on here it seems like cheating is just an entitlement...like no one else matters...for those you're just really an asshole at heart... men AND women. For those that are neglected at home...and because I'm a woman I hear it from the men so I am not speaking on behalf of the men. Only myself and my own experience and thoughts... I fail to understand women that "loose all interest" in sex with their partner and fail to see why that person then stays. First off...as a person who has ever truly had a man who was in love with her and shown her what love and affection can be like I am disgusted by those women who take it for granted. My guy would never lack in a daily blow job or me saying yes to a quickie if he desires. Porn wouldn't need to be hidden and sex would be very regular. Not because I would feel obligated but because that I think is part of love. Now...if he just plain sucks in bed...well you can always show the way...for some (of course you can lead a to water....ya know). Of course there are those that say that leaving over just a sexual issue is vain or unrealistic...I am curious what the person who is being cheated on thinks about that. The emotional impact and the break up especially if married would be greater I think than if you just ended it. Maybe I am wrong....staying because you love the person, but it's not love if you want intimacy with someone else. At least that is my take on it. For those women who think a man should just love me because I'm me and I'm not going to have sex with him anymore...or lay there like a dead fish....or any variation there in....I say shame on you. Sex of course does not equal love....but giving your man what he needs is love. I'm flipping about this subject a bit I guess but I guess I find it very frustrating of how I have experience nothing in the way of love and just want to tell those women who do such things to wake up. *Sigh. Hope this wasn't unintelligible “Hate to sound sleazy, but tease me, I don't want it if it's that easy” ― Tupac Shakur |
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@54956 Agreed everyone has their reasons, and I have talked to men who are lacking any type of intimacy at home and I have talked to those that are just narcissistic and think that it's something that is fine because that's what they want. The ones that I have talked to that are like the latter are just personality wrecks, mean spirited, entitled, flaky and just plain jerks more than 95% of the time. I feel bad for the women they are with, because they are probably really trying to be the best they can. “Hate to sound sleazy, but tease me, I don't want it if it's that easy” ― Tupac Shakur
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Good discussion, I am in the part that my wife just does not enjoy sex anymore, Why? I do not know she says it is not me it is just her, I believe her I am not a specialist on this matter but I believe things happen that effects different people different ways. I have been with a lady where she said that she was never as horny or wanted sex as much as now. Personally, I did not marry my wife for sex so why would I divorce her for lack of it? I was married before for 2 years and we had a great sex life just everything else wasn't right so we decided to go our own ways. Lots of different views just be open to everyones reasons, and remember not every male is an ass I am sure there are plenty though.
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@ruleher Thank you so much for the luck....You guys have fun!!!! “Hate to sound sleazy, but tease me, I don't want it if it's that easy” ― Tupac Shakur
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@honeydipt Yeah financial is always a factor...but if you live in a state where you can claim spousal infidelity...you're fucked anyway. lol “Hate to sound sleazy, but tease me, I don't want it if it's that easy” ― Tupac Shakur
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we agree with you .Our thing is that alot of "men"on here cant read.all.they want is the notch on there bed post. oh,and dont get us started on the dick pic.it makes it hard for finding a real relationship.thanks for your post.good luck in your search hon.
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Some just cheat cause they are entitled dick heads....I don't think I elaborated on that too much lol. “Hate to sound sleazy, but tease me, I don't want it if it's that easy” ― Tupac Shakur
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you said that very well., i have thought the same things many many times, mostly when i was chatting with some woman's husband. the husband who is seeking intimacy because she refuses him for whatever reason. for some i think it would be the financial devastation they dont want to occur if they were to leave the spouse. its not vain to need to be wanted completely, mentally, emotionally, and physically.
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