3 posts 7/29/2015 3:05 pm
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Labelling yourself is a cop-out! Don't do it, and remain free.
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There's my 10 cents, my 2 cents is free! foreskinfancier
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4605 posts 7/29/2015 3:26 pm |
I have no problem labeling myself. If not, how do I describe or define me? Reminds me of when Prince used a symbol instead of a name. Don't think it lasted very long. I don't feel I am copping out at all. 
foreskinfancier replies on 7/30/2015 9:53 am:
I appreciate your opinion; and, if that works for you, who am I to challenge it?
I just don't like the idea of being pigeon-holed or restricting the scope of my experience through someone else's conception of who, or what, I am, or should be... I dig chicks and dicks, but not universally, and I'm still *very* selective about who I play with---contrary to many popular conceptions---and I don't want to base my identity on my sexual tastes, or let anyone presume that they eclipse any of my other human qualities. As a human being, I am much more than that!
Sure, plucking a label for yourself expedites and simplifies the process for others to screen you for casual sexual encounters; but, I'm not sure I want that kind of attention as much as I once did...
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foreskinfancier replies on 7/30/2015 12:52 pm:
How do you "describe or define" yourself without the tidy labels?
You describe the kinds of people you're interested in having sex and/or relationships with, the kinds of acts and scenarios that appeal to you, and what you've decided you 'don't' like, already, too... It's not as quick, but, it is more accurate, and generally gets better results, not least because if the candidate takes the time to listen, they are demonstrating positive qualities, themselves, that may be valueable to you also. No, it's not as easy; but, it does a good job of separating the wheat from the chaff, in my experience.  |
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