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That just threw a wrench in things  

rm_NWOparties 48G
130 posts
7/20/2019 5:10 pm
That just threw a wrench in things


So IM has been acting up on here for the last several days. First it was thing now its something else....or is it, hmmm. So I notice the other night the message about standard members not getting more than 3 IMs a day was gone. Yup as another nail in the coffin of Senior Sizzle, they have now taken away IM standard members. Not that as a single guy I ever meet many on here, but host the was another topic. So not sure how to at going on from here.

Ideas please! is join just for a month before the parties. So thats like 30 bucks which I guess I could spread guests. Another is figure a way me with their info so I can them. Any ideas here???

dahliafan 44M  
6 posts
7/20/2019 5:18 pm

You could a new email acct and post the info for that on your profile. Or create a KIK acct under the profile name. Alot of people in the community use kik.


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
7/20/2019 6:15 pm

I hope you don't take the advice of dahliafan where he suggested you post an email account or kik profile name on your profile here. If you read the Terms of Use (also known as TOUs) you will find that doing so is against the terms and can result in your profile being shut down and you being banned from the site.
If you're needing a way to allow other members, whether standard or gold, to contact you, I suggest setting up a private post box here on your blog. If you wish to provide contact information to people who contact you there, you are allowed to do that.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
7/20/2019 7:07 pm

The most reasonable method now to communicate after this last change in the messaging rules it to do as "Pagancountrygirl" suggests. a complete guide to do this is located on: profile name " BiggLala" in her blog dated Feb 12 2018, entitled " Build your own Personal Postbox Receive Readable Messages and Reply"

This is a viable method of communications here, but to make it work , In the first words on your profile you have to announce that you have this in your blog, otherwise they will not see it.....Good luck, enjoy

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
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gr8pussyeater256 40M
81 posts
7/20/2019 7:17 pm

Good advise. How do you create a private post box?


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
7/21/2019 6:30 am

This is a link to the post on BiggLaLa's blog that explains, step by step, how to create your own private post box. [post 4074810]

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


rm_NWOparties 48G
149 posts
7/22/2019 9:51 pm

Well I have a private post box already. The problem is that when I have told people to contact me there they tell me they do not understand how to find my blog or can not understand how to do so? So is this just survival of the sexist?


hiagainitsus 61M/57F  
21 posts
8/1/2019 1:37 pm

We will pay for a months gold membership, if that would help!


rm_NWOparties replies on 8/1/2019 7:50 pm:
I have thought about this. My problem is several things here. First is the lack of respect given to groups on here. Second this crap they sprung on here about IM. Really no warning just cut standards off IM. The other problem is the way ones shut off Auto renewed gets magically turned back to on come renew time. This has been going on for years yet the site has not done one thing to fix it.

shnizmiz 37M
16 posts
10/26/2019 4:38 pm

I'm a standard member and I figured contacting through active blogs was the easiest. It does not work on mobile apps but if you're on an actual computer you can access the Blog tab on the full webpage profile. I also think there is a link you can add somewhere to advertise your blog. To reiterate on some of what was said as well, most people set up kiik or snap accounts with their names identical to here. Most people just instintly type in matching usernames into different services to see the results. And you dont necessarily have to say or advertise you have those services.


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