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Not renewing my membership  

ColoradoGoddes71 53F
96 posts
8/12/2015 7:10 pm
Not renewing my membership

OK, so here's the deal...

I'm a woman. I like to have sex. I don't have a boyfriend/husband/significant other that I can have sex with so I hoped on here looking for someone to have sex with. I'm not looking for a boyfriend/husband/significant other. I don't have time for that in my life right now. A friend yes. A boyfriend no.

So yes, I want to have casual sex. That does not make me a slut or a . It makes me human. It also does not mean that you can disrespect me or my concerns. They may seem silly to you, but I have my reasons. I'd be happy to explain them to you if you'd only ask.

It also does not mean that you can use me and toss me away like the trash. No, I don't expect you to call me the next day. No, I don't expect you to say you love me. But I DO expect you to treat me with respect. And yes, I'll do the same.

There are plenty of women around here who enjoy being treated like trash, and if that is the kind of girl you are looking for, then go find one.

However, the type of "man" described above seems to be the majority of the kind of men that I talk to on here. No, it is not true of all men. There are several of them who have been nothing but nice. but I am just so fed up with the jack asses that I have talked to on here that I will not be renewing my membership when it expires....

HH_boobs_bbw 49F
35 posts
8/12/2015 7:45 pm

 Oddly enough I think a marjority of the women on here experience the same thing from the men. They just have no idea on how to approach a woman in any aspect. I typically get the same type of IMs and emails over and over. They want to know what I like with sex but don't ask my name....Yeah that's gonna get my motor running.
I decided recently that I'm not going to respond with derogatory stuff to the morons but simply give them some advice in a copy and pasted statement (makes it easier than retyping it over and over LO and if they want to take it to mind they can...if not. Fuck em...let their dick explode from blue balls then.

“Hate to sound sleazy, but tease me,
I don't want it if it's that easy”
― Tupac Shakur


ColoradoGoddes71 53F
14 posts
8/12/2015 7:48 pm

 Thanks, Ladies! I'm glad it's not just me!

I am not opposed to having sex with someone the first time we meet. That IS why we are here after all!!! But they seem to think that just because I insist on meeting in public, and using a condom, and carrying on a conversation to see if there is any chemistry between us that I want a "relationship." Not with anyone I meet on here I don't!!!


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