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GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
7/5/2021 12:19 pm

I disagree. I feel that it is the gentlemanly thing to do. ESPECIALLY IF I was the one asking to meet. If it were the other person asking, I would be okay with them picking up the tab. And I never feel like anyone ever 'owes' me anything.

Over the years, I've usually picked up the tab but I did have one relationship whereby she was way more affluent than I was so we usually took turns picking up the tab.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
7/5/2021 12:22 pm

On a first date I would assume that the bill would be split; going Dutch stops any sense of obligation, plus it's fair!


AdventurousGuy07 59M
672 posts
7/5/2021 12:50 pm

How do you feel about Going Dutch?

These outfits are a bit kinky Joy but sure i'll try anything once ...


voyeur2017 61M  
1481 posts
7/5/2021 1:06 pm

I found that wearing Dutch shoes gave me bunions ......


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
7/5/2021 1:16 pm

Dutch is great.
But I never understood a word she said. 😎❗❗🇨🇦


Apollo602021 63M

7/5/2021 1:34 pm

I wish someone would teach my wife about going dutch! She might listen at first thinking it's a new sexual position!

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1salesman3 69M
7623 posts
7/5/2021 2:47 pm

Great advice.


peladodel56 67M
10340 posts
7/5/2021 3:34 pm

Depende del momento. Hay veces en que se quiere agasajar a la otra persona y se lo invita pagando lo consumido. Lo que si digo es que puede ocurrir desde cualquiera de las partes y no necesariamente del hombre a la mujer.


Outlaw9inc 52M

7/5/2021 3:56 pm

depends on the moment i am happy to pay


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
7/5/2021 6:19 pm

If it's so important to you, you can even pay for mine!

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pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
7/5/2021 7:32 pm

I don’t mind paying on a first date if the woman I’m with is fun and respectful. 😎

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


Timleo3 47M

7/5/2021 8:40 pm

It makes sense to me. In a relationship even it should be 50 50. But what about a situation where your only job in life is taking care of your lover your home and your family. Not sure that pays well enough to go dutch. Lol I have always been blessed with the ability to provide so I have never asked a woman to work outside the home. I should have you think?


Otis_Good 71M
4037 posts
7/5/2021 9:43 pm

Just who is the Dutch guy and why would he be coming along on our date ?


easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
7/6/2021 1:07 am

I agree women should pay their way although not every woman earns the same as a man many earn more and that is a good reason to join a union, equal pay for the job. All this doesn't mean you can't treat someone and as the woman might have paid out for some enticing lingerie then it will all even out or thereabouts. xoxo


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
7/6/2021 1:19 am

I prefer to pay my own way until there is a relationship. Then we can take turns if thats easier. I don't need a man to buy me anything, including Cowboy. I taught all my kids to be strong, financially independent humans.


needluv814 51M  
276 posts
7/6/2021 3:57 am

I'm cool with that, I can spend my extra money on sound gear, lol


CL_Love 51M/50F
425 posts
7/6/2021 1:09 pm

I don't have a hard and fast rule on this. I tend to at least OFFER to pay for my own (and always am prepared to do so or at the very least kick in the tip), but don't let it become some kind of argument if they insist on paying unless I get some kind of feeling that they are expecting something in exchange. Beyond first meets, I tend to be more of "Hey I'll get it this time, you can catch it next time" or vice versa. My first meets are often just lunch so it is never more than like ten or fifteen bucks tops anyway. I don't feel like I take advantage of anyone.


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