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Rodney Dangerfield did a bit in his stand up act many many many years ago and he was talking about how one person can turn you on and someone else annoys you. Both people do and say the say thing and the reactions are very different. Talking about the person who turns you on and they suggest..."Let's grab a bite to eat and you think "Oh they are brilliant!! This person KNEW they are hungry!!" But if a person doesn't turn you on, the scenario is more like... "Let's grab a bite to eat.." and the reaction is more like.. "WTF are you hungry again?!?!?" 
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Definitely need the 'GEL', that's for sure! 😎❗❗ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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That chemistry is so important. If I knew how chemistry works between people, I'd be a rich man. A friend of mine once set me up on a blind date claiming that we'd both hit it off. We didn't! 
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"Have you meshed, gelled your naked bodies with others both in real life and those you meet here online that you did not like at all? No, I need to be friends before I become a lover. Some people you just naturally connect or have chemistry with and you become friends very quickly.
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6/30/2021 1:29 pm |
I aced chemistry in High School and College! Please become an Apollo602021 blog follower!
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good post and the mystery of chemistry between two people or more ~~ I think it is pheromones resonating when a sexually exciting match connects..... makes sense in that it is natures way of keeping the species reproducing .... then again, sometimes we just want to fuck...to hell with pheromonal attraction ...cheers!
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6/30/2021 2:04 pm |
Connection, gel, draw, attraction, it's important! Usually the ones we don't connect with, we just move on, and my not ever see each other again.
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chi soul mates, spirits. gel. it has been called many things. the one thing i am 125% sure of, no one has ever been able to explain it. no one ever will. when it works it works, and everything runs smooth. when it is not there every word hits you like sliding on sand paper. sex is unbalanced, the kisses are off, the sex is more of an irritant than a pleasant experience. it's like the timing and the body parts are slightly off.  makes me wonder... could all these posts of woman complaining of men being rude just be a case of bad gel?there is a world of difference between insane and stupid
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I suspect being able to explore each other's minds, before exploring each other's bodies is why meeting blogger-babes works so well for me! Doing My Own Thing, on HNW I Never Knew A FUN New Olympic Sport [post 3312759] My Private Post - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets – Anything you write here is just between us
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Crees que nosotros "gelificamos" ??? Salvo la distancia, yo creo que si, que tenemos intereses y vivencias parecidas y eso nos empatiza ... y podemos llamarlo "amistad" bloguera ... ja, ja
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We just are not meant to mesh with some people. Others, it is instantly apparent. Sometimes, I have found nothing special initially but had something more develop over time. It's kind of like not finding someone attractive at first or not liking a song and then one day you find yourself attracted to them or start humming along to the song.
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I loved this post. I agree with all of it 100%. I am an extovert also. I develop friendships that last for lifetime.
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I only I knew then what I know now..... It is easy to mistake lust for chemistry. So easy in fact that I have ex-wives(yes that is plural) to reinforce that notion. Lust is when the mind imagines the body connection.. I mean when seeing physical attraction at work it almost seems mindless because it is. Don't get me wrong, the physical is important part of the total chemistry aspect. BUT it's NOT the only aspect. FINALLY having learned the chemistry involves so much more. conversation, likes and dislikes. And in my immature wisdom I swung the pendulum the other way and mentally demanded that ALL aspects must be present perfectly matching mine........ and the sad part was that "perfectly matching mine'' just wasn't really gonna happen. BUTT, if you take most parts and find common ground and converse openly and honestly...... well THAT comes pretty fucking close to perfect in my book. oh yeah....... I have had those instant "chemistry" ladies cross my path. The physical attraction was instant and HOT, but when she spoke my mind crashed and my attraction vanished.... I often joke about those moments with friends... she was the perfect woman until she spoke and wanted something I didin't have.....  The Hubby
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Very much agreed. I only in the last few years learned the term "Sapiosexual" and realized how critical intelligence and good conversation is to me for that "gel" or "connection". It definitely makes the friendship and the sex better. And I have found it more "instantly" with some people than others. But in darker times where I was seeking sexual release as a way to self-medicate for my depression, I have slept with men I didn't "gel" with. It usually didn't give me what I really needed/wanted. Most were quite regrettable almost immediately. Not something I'm proud of.
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What a thought provoking write, Joy. I knew there was a reason why I liked you. *. *. *
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I wish we could explain how we gel with some but others irritate us to no end Hun..It could be due to not gelling with rude men Hun....xoxo you can not explain it. you just have to ride it there is a world of difference between insane and stupid
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Hello Sweet Joy ! I believe more and more that people are meant to meet and become either a part of our lives or change us so we become the person the universe has us destined to become ! It is so funny how like you say meet someone new and you just "Click" I have had that a few times in my life where I have met people like that some became lifetime friends ! Just a comment ! Stay Beautiful Joy xoxo
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