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merlot5555 67M/57F  
1472 posts
6/23/2021 11:26 am

...the mind is a thing not to waste.....
...take your time and don't be in haste....
...cuz if it's the thing that you do....
... your thoughts will be thick like some glue....
...instead of deep insight you get paste....

.... some jobs require acceptable looks..... but all jobs require a good mind......


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
6/23/2021 11:53 am

When I used to work in Florida as an engineer, the installation manager and I would tell the receptionist we might be late coming back from lunch since we're headed off to the beach on a recruiting trip.

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easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
6/23/2021 12:07 pm

In a word equal opportunity, the best person for the job is the best person for the job. xoxo


Ultraviolet_Sol 43M
622 posts
6/23/2021 12:08 pm

Joy, there is a lot of wisdom in your words. I have known all types of people, who were fully capable, cool, and unique: from gang bangers, to corn bread mafia, to pistoleros/bandidos, to rich-preppy formally educated folks, to homeless individuals, to the waitress at the truck stop (who helped me when no one else would), from toothless and everything in between... And I do concur with what you are saying.

However, I am not totally certain that the blog post, which you cite, meant that remark in such a way, as to imply that a toothless person is in any way less capable, purely based on looks.

I think we live in a society ruled by an information deficient mob, and they are the ones that are profoundly judgmental, and we have been conditioned to see through their eyes, even if, if we are lucky, we have the perspective to see or think outside the box.

But we are capable of seeing how they "would see".

And I think if the venue is a very public one, frequented by the mob, a greater emphasis is placed on this perspective, without necessarily placing our personal feelings or opinions into the matter.

I know if I had a work colleague who was toothless and this was suddenly revealed like the phantom of the opera or something, I would silently be thinking that they may encounter some BS from some people, who laugh at meth/crack memes etc. dumb mf's...

but that would not mean that I, too, laugh at such things or think derogative of such attributes.

I think you are very on point with this post Joy, but perhaps the writer of the blog post did not mean their observation in the way that you perceive. I, personally, do not feel that they meant it in this way.

Much love my friend

Ps. I find your mind, dearest Joy, to be of the highest class of Sexxxyyyy...

*. *. *


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
6/23/2021 12:09 pm

Brains are best. Where I worked brains was all that mattered.


staci_19702 53T
3767 posts
6/23/2021 12:56 pm

Give me brains any day!!!
I need free thinkers. Problem solvers. Folks that can work with minimal supervision and not call me 30 times a day. Make a decision. If it’s a mistake, we learn.
I do t care how good looking you are, if you cant function and utilize basic common sense, then I don’t need you.

Have a great day! 💋
Staci


BabyBoyOH 57M
80 posts
6/23/2021 12:59 pm

I want your body and your soul and love and worship ❤️❤️


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
6/23/2021 2:06 pm

In hiring, competence (brains) must be married with personality - an ability to fit in with other workers.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
6/23/2021 2:11 pm

The blogger who posted the observation — about a co-worker revealing his toothless grin — questioned whether leadership could be earned through visual stimuli.

I was the person who commented on that blog with a facetious example. I pointed out that President Kennedy would NOT have been elected had he been gap-mouthed; he would have remained a toothless janitor (*a made-up job *) and probably retired in peace.

My 'bad' for being careless with my thoughts, but — it's also true!

I didn't mean to imply that janitors without teeth are LESS capable leaders than those whose mouths are filled with enamel. However, society doesn't measure ability without leaning on the prejudice of visual stimuli; and THAT'S a fact.

Our world uses physical attributes to judge EVERYONE; it's no longer the blind 'Radio Age'. All of our social media platforms use visual, physical features to evaluate the contributor, and — although unfair — it's NOT going to change.

Everyone and anyone can become a leader and influencer on our planet. Those skills will ALWAYS shine through any prejudice we — as a collective — impart on that person; it's a challenge a TRUE leader will overcome!

Unfortunately, I still remain a hypocrite. No matter what, I'm NEVER voting for a toothless political candidate; regardless of their skill-set. NOT having a good dental plan shows a lack of planning, and leaders — should be GOOD at planning.

Yep... slap me! 😎❗❗


nsnguystill 71M
428 posts
6/23/2021 2:22 pm

oh my joy! oh my joy!
although i do not agree with the way you saw that post i do believe that upsidedownsky has made more valid points.
and yes those that hire, or even befriend people based first on appearance over abilities...
well those are the ones that truly miss out on the better things in lie
now that your rant is over
i hope you feel better now

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


nsnguystill 71M
428 posts
6/23/2021 2:31 pm

sorry sorry i did not mean agree i meant disagree!
ps. if i can spank that cute little darrière of yours i'll give you one more



there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


naughtynate77 46M
680 posts
6/23/2021 2:47 pm

I'm not the one who does the hiring as that's the job of people just above me. I get to meet most prospects and give my opinions, but we are desperate enough for help right now that all but the biggest red flags are overlooked.

As long as you're physically able, competent, punctual and aren't going to be a pain in my ass, I don't care what you look like. Having eye candy around would be a detriment to productivity.

In terms of sexual partners, I have had better action from partners that would be less desirable to others than with ones that I could brag about having been with.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
6/23/2021 4:41 pm

Look at the situation this way... if a person doesn't don't have the qualifications for the job, then that person doesn't get hired.

As for , "Looks"...."Looks", [and hygiene] are important when a business is physically interacting with the public.

The , "Eyes are the windows to the soul", is romantic nonsense. I, too, spent the year looking at people suckered into wearing masks. Seeing only eyes and foreheads , sometimes only eyes, is isolating, and not healthy. Especially for infants and children.

Yes, I said, "Suckered" into wearing masks. "Frightened" into wearing masks, too, by those constant pictures of the big red ball thingy, and constant death count.

When a person can wear a mask, and still smell someone, a distance away, they're not keeping a virus out of their respiratory system.


voyeur2017 61M  
1481 posts
6/23/2021 8:32 pm

I find wearing a mask to be liberating ....it covers my toothless grin when I tongue dance in anticipation of discovering your soul....


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
6/23/2021 9:21 pm

Brains are sexy. The biggest sex organ we have.


Apollo602021 63M

6/23/2021 10:21 pm

Gray brains matter, I feel!

Please become an Apollo602021 blog follower!


1salesman3 69M
7623 posts
6/24/2021 2:48 am

The brain is the largest sex organ.


Pegsarefun 46M

6/24/2021 5:19 am

If i hired someone on looks and wearing short skirts, with flesh on show, how much work would i get done????

I'd be distracted constantly!!!!! and think of the harassment lawsuits lol


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
6/24/2021 11:24 am

The Mrs won't allow anyone to see her with a missing tooth


nsnguystill 71M
428 posts
6/24/2021 3:54 pm

" Two spanks is all you get Hun....xoxo"
just two? but after can i make you feel better with my tongue

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
6/24/2021 8:18 pm

The Government doesn't tell the people what to do.
The People tell the Government what the People want.

Shutting down the economy of this country for a virus, was the stupidest move in the history of the world.

All we accomplished was, telling , and showing our enemies how easy taking us over would be.

And teaching CRT in the military is a mistake , too.


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