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No I don't get stood up and neither do I stand others up. Ya know... there was another blog post here recently (I don't recall who), and they got stood up. Turns out that the guy got run over by a tractor. She ended up visiting him at the hospital 🏥. Did you check local hospitals? 🤔 😊👍 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Joy sorry to hear your tale of woe. Not sure if this counts as being stood up but I was chatting to a woman for a couple of weeks on another site , she said she couldn't meet for the next couple of weeks, but she agreed a date and we were to meet at a restaurant that I booked, the day before she tells me she has met someone and won't be coming, I suppose she was a liar, good thing maybe. I still think if one makes a date they should turn up. I certainly would not stand you up 3,000 miles is a long way to come. Like the idea of sex in the woods though. Don't get mad, get even!
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9/28/2019 12:20 pm |
I got stood up, but I didn't lose any sleep that night, good blog!
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Darling, I would never stand you up...or any woman... Please don't label and judge all men by a couple losers. There are still good men out there...or at least one . .ME !!! Don't give up just be cautious and have fun..Dont take them standing you up personally. It was 100% their loss and they are the ones who screwed their selves out of meeting an amazing woman !!!!
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9/28/2019 12:24 pm |
It is hard to believe why someone would stand You, Dear up? But your right, she has missed out on an opportunity to get to know you, your personality, lovely curves, and more JOY in his life than could have anticipated. His loss. Too many possible connections, that could possibly lead to the JOY you desire and the JOY that you bring when that special one makes you their priority versus an option. A lady as the Beautiful Ginger as you are have so much JOY to share with a nurturing and caring partner.
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well hope you know you arent the only one who has been stood up .canadian cpl pursued us for a yr , we drove over 140 miles to meet them and they were a no show and wouldnt answer their phone , you live and learn we guess
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I got stood up by someone who I thought was the love of my life on Valentine's day I was standing waiting with a dozen red roses I waited for 2 hours only to be shit on talked to like a dog and to top it off I went to have a drink and she was at the bar with another guy and it was priceless she tried to not be seen by Mel and he had a look on his face like oh shit I fucked up needless to say she and I don't talk any more and I haven't let anyone close to me again . Life is to short to be putting yourself through bullshit that someone else causes you if I'm gonna deal with bullshit I want to be the one that causes that grief not someone else
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I would never stoop that low. I would find a way to send a message if it was absolutely unavoidable. I have manners and class BUT it has happened to me -twice. One of them was weird- I felt that he was somewhere within 100 feet of me just watching and he never revealed himself so after 20 minutes I left. I actually felt his presence- maybe in a car? He got totally demoted from my life and like you, I decided NEVER AGAIN (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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I would never stand you up Sexy!!
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I have never stood anyone up. If circumstances caused a change of plans I definitely would communicate the fact. Hope they would too! My best first dates have started outdoors with walks and we always became good friends.
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Getting stood up hurts. If he had a change of heart or something came up which made it impossible for him to meet you, the least he could do is man up and let you know. Based on previous stories I have seen posted on here, it happens to men, women and couples alike, far more often than most would imagine.
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Hi Joy taking me further with a sad tale So ladies and gents : When was the last time you have been stood up? So, no shows are terrible, and that's not happened to me in years However, cancellations with very little notice have happened here, and for me, as easy going and cautious as I am, I don't setup 200 dates a year, my numbers are far lower, so, to plan something "special" or elaborate may not make sense for me "here" I have given plenty of notice, should something come up, and, of course, sometimes, emergencies do happen our time is valuable, especially, our free time, as we cannot create it, save it, or bring it back for another day let this brighten your day Cigarettes After Sex - "Nothing's Gonna Hurt You Baby" Whispered something in your ear It was a perverted thing to say But I said it anyway Made you smile and look away Nothing's gonna hurt you baby As long as you're with me, you'll be just fine Nothing's gonna hurt you baby Nothing's gonna take you from my side When we dance in my living room To that silly '90s R&B When we have a drink or three Always ends in a hazy shower scene...  To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!! 
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Have you stood anyone up without a message or warning? I've never stood anyone up. Why bother asking them out if you aren't going to meet them? When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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9/28/2019 1:52 pm |
6 X*z.  ,,,and that was 8yrs. ago.2 were close, 3 were a distance, and 1 left Earth. Since these event*z, ][ consider logistic*z more seriously. ][ ]-\\m patient,,, not a patient. ][t may still happen, and it may not, (\/)y Peace is (\/)y own and as yet,,,unshared. As it was sung,,, Ti(\/)e is on (\/)y side. Better will come, in it*z Ti(\/)e ~   Even tho S/-/ip*z may pass each other in the /\/ight and not even see each other,,, ,,, they still cross each other*zWaKeeeeEEEeeeeeeEEEeeee ~
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Oh ive been stood up couple of times Joy. These kinda men totally have no manner at all just to send 30second message to cancel. For me i always blocked them and delete them permanently. Ah and i never stood up someone. Ill text saying sorry need to cancel. Its that simple really.
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Would I ever stand you up......... why yes I would........Stand you up against the wall.......against a tree....... but never on a chance to meet thee.
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Getting stood up sucks, no matter what sex you are. If I arrange to meet someone, I GO! If I don't make the date, it's because I'm dead. Otherwise I call with why I'll be late, IF that might happen. Just common courtesy.
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It all depends of your definition of "stood up". My FWB manages it about once a week, to be fair it usually has something to do with the never ending drama of her family tho. As to a date, I got stood up this spring by a cpl that claims to live within 10 miles of me, we were to meet at a bar of their choosing (I hate bars but I agreed anyway), but, they never showed. I waited over an hour, by myself in a sports bar where I was getting asked what I wanted to drink at about 10 min intervals, and I tried to contact them via the wonderful IM feature of this sight, to no avail. I finally left, only to hear from them 6 hrs later via IM that they tried to reach ME but couldt, that they had gone to the wrong bar, and when they figured it out, was to late to meet me at the right bar !! And to top it off, they have avoided me online ever since, whenever I log on & they are on, they log off !! Now all summer long, I have been scheduling M&Gs at the local clothing optional beach, and every week, several respond they are coming, ask directions etc, not once in 4 months has someone shown up that identified themselves as hearing of the M&G in any forum! Have met several folks there this summer, singles, cpls etc, on week we had a dzn people there at one time all in the buff, and some went into the woods for funn, others right on the beach, a few even in the water, BUT not a single one of them had arrived knowing others would be there. So I guess I have gotten stood up alot recently, but ....... I am always aware that will happen more often than not !
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No excuse!!!!! 
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Alright... so I don't do the chat and correspond for days and weeks. I learned not to do that, in either 1979 or 1980, when getting someones phone number from a mutual friend, was the process of a blind-date, and talking for hours on the phone, over maybe a few days to a week before meeting. The internet is worse, because there is no sensual stimulation from the other. With the exception of facetiming or Skyping, which I won't do... this is still incomplete and they can pirate your image, or record the conversation. So ... not going to do that. So , now with internet social sites, when I have a woman's attention, that first day, I tell her, "Come meet me today at a location, at this time, and we'll talk for about 30 minutes. [Not a request, not plead, just a statement]... This is the best way. Introduce the senses first, and second get the background. I've determined doing the lengthy chatting and emailing is just fueling the imagination of what the other is like/all about. And that maybe the reason people get stood up , is because they chatted and corresponded at length, and now one or both don't want to meet, because that might ruin the imagined image of the other. Or maybe they never really wanted to meet , but just enjoyed the online attention and distraction. Of course about 10 years ago, there were radio talk discussions on this topic of chatting online and then meeting. Was determined that more people get laid this way , on the first meet [IF THEY SHOW UP]. ...Why? Mostly because of the false reality each built in their minds of the other. Excitement clouds their perception, missing important visual and behavior clues that would stand out as a redflag had they not gotten their imagination involved, building a false reality. And yes, I've stood women up , back in the 1980's and 1990's... because I learned something about them. And yes.. been stood up, but I didn't, and don't, care. I always have a Plan B. And no, I didn't get angry as to be ready to maim any women that crossed my path that day. Mostly it was just business as usual, see an attractive woman, objectify her, see if I can get her naked. So my advice: Get to a meeting [time and place , in person] as soon as possible. Don't waste time online.
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So sorry to hear this my friend sorry you were stood up and no message or phone call that's just disrespectful on his part. But some people just don't have the common courtesy to let you know that they won't be able to make it. I am glad your rethinking all of this and I hope the next man that wants to meet with you realizes what a great lady you are. I hope you enjoy your evening.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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The most recent *event* (for lack of better term) happened about a year ago, and with someone who is still an active member here. The schmoe even had the audacity to request a second friendship from me, after I unfriended him because of his actions. Blocked, not a second chance. Not sorry.  I've been stood up a few times before, but would never do that to someone whom I've had made plans with to meet. I was brought up with the belief of "Your word is your bond", meaning that you're honest to the other person(s) involved, as well as your own inner self. It speaks of your character to others. All too true, however, "Life happens when you're busy making other plans". Thank you, John Lennon, and such moments as those have arisen in the past when I planned to meet someone. I let them know as soon as possible, be it email, text, or phone call. I feel bad if I have had to back out of a meet, but do offer to reschedule at another day and time. "Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.
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btw... Maybe it's time to get a cell phone. Perhaps he might have been trying to message you. Shit happens, no? Ya know.. technology is not ALL bad. Just my thought . 😘 I hope you figure it out... Cell phone.... I'll help you set it up. My fees are minimal. Sunday? I got a Spanish pot roast... chilling. Lol.... ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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being stood up is so frustrating, im right there with you. however, you can't give up just because of a few bad dudes on here. you can, i just dont think it;s right. you say one can never have enough joy in their life yet you are depriving all of the good guys a chance at getting that joy.
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We have all been there Joy. There is no excuse in this day and age. He should have contact you right away. Even now with an explaining what happened. I still can’t believe someone would ever stand you up. I am sure you will here from him. Hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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