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peli1234 66M
49 posts
11/6/2018 11:26 am

Read you blog and fully understand your frustrated angry hurt feelings in loosing a lover but that is temporary and you will heal but remember loosing a long time husband is a lot worse and what I see you will definitely not be alone very long - good luck


scott6250 61M

11/6/2018 11:35 am

I understand your being upset and frustrated my friend. In time it will get better.

"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


tinroofrusted59 64M

11/6/2018 11:48 am

Hey there author, I am writing this with a little trepidation. I am not a believer of asking others to qualify or to disqualify why that person has decided to end that relationship. There is nothing wrong with some self evaluation afterwards. From what I have learned from our brief meeting, you are an intelligent person. You will know if there are things you believe that would be good for self improvement and those that are worthy of your personality. Asking him is who you should be directing the questions to, and receive the answers gracefully and hopefully he will be honest about them. What I or spoonman think has no bearing on what his decision was whether they are legitimate or not. Most of all, after any self evaluation you put upon yourself, which is healthy, you must move on and accept what has happened as what was going to happen regardless. It is just one page of what is the book of your life. Tomorrow will be a new day and you will be at your third stage. Saying that, you know our wine together was enjoyable, that is all that is needed. Life is full of challenges........and they will never quit, its how we take on the challenges...with grace, humility, and perseverance. Hope this was useful


Apollorising2057 63M

11/6/2018 11:50 am

For me it's all about being in JOY!

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Eviloutlaw1 62M
5180 posts
11/6/2018 12:35 pm

Sorry to learn of the end of your relationship my friend. Although we've never met in person I don't believe you should question your own self worth. From what I've read in your blogs and on that book of faces, many men would consider themselves lucky to be your one and only. Long distance relationships seldom work out, this I know all to well. You will go on, bounce back. Hugs my friend!


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
11/6/2018 1:25 pm

I am so sorry my friend and you are exactly right you are here as you are everywhere else..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


banjo6660 57M
615 posts
11/6/2018 1:31 pm

Don't second guess yourself, it is the worst thing you can do, we all are our own worst enemies when it comes to that.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
11/6/2018 3:27 pm

I'm just sorry it didn't work out Joy


Buldge25701 47M

11/6/2018 4:42 pm

So sorry


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
11/6/2018 6:56 pm


I believe distance was the issue!
You already know tomorrow is another day....a starting point!!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
11/6/2018 7:23 pm

Hi Joy.

thanks for taking me further with this one...

all I can do is post this one...

shake it off...

Taylor Swift - "Shake It Off

I stay out too late, got nothin' in my brain
That's what people say, mmm hmm, that's what people say, mmm hmm
I go on too many dates, but I can't make 'em stay
At least that's what people say mmm mmm, that's what people say mmm mmm
But I keep cruising, can't stop, won't stop moving
It's like I got this music in my mind, sayin' gonna be alright
'Cause the players gonna play, play, play, play, play
And the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate
Baby, I'm just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake
I shake it off, I shake it off
Heartbreakers gonna break, break, break, break, break
And the fakers gonna fake, fake, fake, fake, fake
Baby, I'm just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake
I shake it off, I shake it off
I'll never…

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
11/6/2018 7:53 pm

Oh no I am sorry to hear this. I am sure it was the distance that caused your breakup. There is always be someone else. His lost hugs V

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FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
11/6/2018 9:29 pm

We all know that you are going to bounce back from this. And though you might not recognize it as such, this breakup may have taught you exactly what you need, to be ready for whoever is down the path ahead.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
11/6/2018 9:38 pm

So sorry to hear my dear friend. I thought for sure you finally found lasting love that wasn't going to end.

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Story435 76M
3791 posts
11/7/2018 6:02 am

Hello Joy
I know your not happy but I am sure you will get over this soon sweetheart!
You are a very good person!
There is nothing wrong with you at all may just be to far away.
Butch


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
11/12/2018 6:54 am

Yeah, I ask myself those same questions too. It hurts, and it takes me a long while to get over the rejection.

Thoughts from the Garden...


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