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easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
6/18/2018 1:43 pm

Joy, glad to hear you have friends in the family. I only had one brother older than me, next month is the 13th anniversary of his passing, tomorrow is not guaranteed! Enjoy the present, the future hasn't happened and lets hope we learn from the past.


XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
6/18/2018 1:58 pm

I have to keep my own secrets, I am an only child

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Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
6/18/2018 2:02 pm

We are both very lucky, you to have sibblings you get on with and me not to have any to get on with.

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Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
6/18/2018 2:38 pm

Enjoy your time with your sister my friend and NO I don't speak to none of my family..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
6/18/2018 2:42 pm

I have a pic in the family album of my sis & I, shown as in #1, when she was about 12, and I was 5. It is a treasure memory, because within a year of that pic, she became a "woman" and I was forever more her brat baby brother, and after 50 years, that rift has never healed. I love my sis, and am sure she still loves me, but we cant be in a conversation more than Hello, without a fight starting, and that is SAD, as she is my only family I have left, and I guess I really dont have her either.


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
6/18/2018 4:07 pm

All my siblings are extremely close.
I am #4 on a list of 8...


wantaplay8 71M
5606 posts
6/18/2018 4:21 pm

I am a sibling from four or five (two parents going in different directions)( hard to explain) different blended families and we did not spend our whole childhood together in any family but there is a familiarity when we are around each other..but not one of them has a close relationship with me. Depending on which way you spin the families I am the oldest by my father and mother. Two of the steps siblings were born in the same year but a few months earlier than I. Oh, 5 half siblings by the two parents, 4 with father and one with mother.


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
6/18/2018 4:23 pm

Yes, we all get along. There are some differences but all and all, it's all good!!


wantaplay8 71M
5606 posts
6/18/2018 4:24 pm

Nice photos of your sister!


Story435 76M
3791 posts
6/18/2018 5:01 pm

Hello Joy!
I guess I don't have to do that I am only child. But wish I had some all the time!
You have fun with your sister Joy good for you!
Butch


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
6/18/2018 5:59 pm

Hi Joy.

thanks for sharing and taking me further... but, not that far this time...

I always tell my mom that she should have stopped at perfection...

but, alas, she had more than two children...

We were a family of 6 kids growing up, one is my step-brother... but, who cares... it's all one crazy family...

life is good...

I'm glad that you have what you need in that sense...

Some don't realize what they have till it's gone..

hmm...

Loretta Lynn - "Big Sister Little Sister"

(Give up to the baby that's what they'd always say)
And big sister would let her path away
We shared a sandbox little sister and me I was her big sister and she was only three
Give up to the baby that's what they'd always say
And big sister would let her path away
All through our childhood and our high school days
My little sister always had to have her way
Now I can't hurt the baby and I can't let him go
Be brave big sister this time and say no
Now all that I remember as they drove out of sight
Just married and her holdin' the ones I love so tight
Now all I do is rock my darling I just can't let her cry
So rock a bye baby rock a bye
Give up to the baby and I'd lose every time
Now they're saying big sister is losin' her mind

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wd40w 71M
6966 posts
6/18/2018 6:37 pm

Older Sis & Brother here...We are all six years apart...Meaning Sis is 12 years older...She was for all intent and purpose my "Mom"...Mom was always in her own world...Had Post-Partum Depression really bad when I came along...Coupled with OCD...Neither of which was given much import at the time...Love my Sis a lot...Brother...Not so much...Being the "Baby" had lots of perks...By the time I came along...The folks had pretty much surrendered...I'll be in the Garage...

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mc_justmc 63M

6/18/2018 7:38 pm

I am the middle child of 3. One older and one younger sister. My younger sister died coming on 5 yrs in August of the same brain cancer that John McCain has. My older sister is a cunt. I only talk to her when she says something to me. When my parents are gone I will cut her out of my life completely.


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
6/18/2018 8:10 pm

I am the oldest, my sister is younger by nearly 5 years. It is only the 2 of us. We are fairly close, but she doesn't know all my secrets...most, but not all.

She was not happy when I moved across the country, and will not come to visit. I think we were likely closer before I moved, but her half-hearted support has been hurtful.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


Eviloutlaw1 62M
5180 posts
6/19/2018 1:49 am

Nope, I'm not really close with any of my siblings. I was the youngest of six for the longest time, till a younger brother came along just as I started middle school. Funny story that, Mom went into hospital for a Gallbladder operation, when they opened her up to remove it they found out it wasn't her Gallbladder at all. A few months later my brother was born.

I guess we were closer when we were all kids, but the death of our only sister at twenty five, well it sort of took the heart out of our family. Being the middle child, and the only girl I think she was the glue that held us all together. It's not like we all don't get along, more like we all just went our own separate ways.


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
6/19/2018 2:01 am

I agree my lady
I'm the older brother in a similar relationship,
and the times we spend together, although rather sparse,
due to the distance, are priceless indeed
- especially our strolls down memory lane

Cheers - P


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
6/19/2018 5:14 am

I am the fifth of seven kids. Sadly I am not close to any of my siblings. Partly because I never really fit in with my interests and partly we were never a very close family.
I does sound nice to have someone that close.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
6/19/2018 5:32 am

2nd of 5 girls. 3 of us live in the same town, and the other 2 we see once a year or so )and perhaps less frequently now that our Mother has passed, and the other 2 will no longer be coming her to visit her).

We are close "when it counts", but some are closer than others. We have some similar traits that sometimes make it difficult when we are all together. There have been some "blowups", but when all is said and done, we love each other, and can forgive (or ignore) each other's faults.

In fact, I think we often "err on the side of caution", instead of calling each other out - which could possibly "clear the air" and bring us closer together. I probably love the 1 sister that has the most problem most, because she is so needy. But everything always has to be about her, what she wants to do, and the way she wants to do things - so I try not to spend much time in her company, and she is the one I get along with the least. .

I think we've made a mistake by giving in to her, because we are all afraid of hurting her feelings. She never lets go of anything, and I think this is the cause of many of her problems. She still carries on about the sister who only lived 3 days, and would have been her closest sibling, had she lived. This was 60 years ago, when the living sister was 2 !

That said, we are more alike than we are different - and I would defend any of my sisters to the death, if someone tried to harm them.

They don't know my secrets - and never will.

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citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
6/19/2018 3:40 pm

I have three younger sister's and one older brother. We've always been very close, in fact, we all still live in the same city


Shakenandbored 58M

6/20/2018 2:26 am

My younger sister passed away 10 years ago we were close but didn't see each other too often yet another regret.
Oh to have that time over again.
At least she's with my father and mother now which is my only comfort.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
6/20/2018 5:36 am

I am the oldest of 2 and one half ( half brother when my father left me when I was three and married someone else). My sister and I have "conversations". She was a very spoiled brat being the youngest and got everything. She does not share information well and we have never talked about our childhood, growing up in Denver in a single parent household. I believe she has totally blocked it all out based on things i have mentioned that got ignored. My half brother- well, he dances to a different drummer, and not a rhythm I can "grok". I took him to Scotland for a surprise 60th birthday.
His behavior reminded me why I do not visit anymore

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