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8/14/2017 10:49 am |
Hoping you find someone who makes you a very long term # 1 Priority Always {=}
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Great post, and well done for saying thanks, but no thanks. It's always difficult when that happens, especially if you liked him and enjoyed his company, but it does feel good to say "stick in your pipe and smoke it" 
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Hu Joy Wow that took a lot of balls the ass! what the hell is wrong with some men that is very low I think. Butch PS Good for and you was nice about it too good for you! 
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Joy, glad you made the right decision, too many people like that around and they should be put in there place, only thing is how does one know what they are like until they show their hand? x
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 Great Post JOY, well done for putting him in his place! What a Loser  Visit my Blog Older but no Wiser and find out more
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hot boom,hot tits and sexy pussy baby xxxxx
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On these sites you have to be lucky. From the blogs I read there are many men on here that are only interested in their pleasure and will lie to women to get what they want. For many it is all in the chase and when that is done they have nothing else. To say No when you want to say Yes is possibly the hardest thing for all of us. You have to believe in Karma and that one day when they find someone that they really want that person will walk off and leave them. “For a moment, nothing happened. Then, after a second or so, nothing continued to happen.” ― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy Much like this site  Visit my Blog for my adventures.
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Karma is like a man then as it likes to bite arses, especially ones like yours. LOL “For a moment, nothing happened. Then, after a second or so, nothing continued to happen.” ― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy Much like this site Visit my Blog for my adventures.
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Great blog hun well stated, and sometimes you just got to let it go and move on. We are constantly learning from our relationships. Some men obviously don't know a good thing when they have it. In saying that some men even can't admit it when us ladies get in their so called "Four Walls" many times when they realize they have feelings for us they deny deny deny. I had that happen to me with my current hubby, I got in those walls, and when I moved on he found out got all jealous and were still together. Sometimes you just cant "REPLACE" the good things in your life I know there is that wonderful man out there some where, just waiting for you my beautiful loving, giving friend..  Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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good for you! sighs. i'm glad he missed you, glad he wanted more. and glad you said no. You cannot conceive the many without the one.
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Hi Joy. I love reading your posts... the good and the not so good... the versions of you continue to amaze... some people will say anything to have the moment of intimacy... they may say anything for quite some time... and, then... they are on to the next conquest... and... you do take your time... you do size people up... but, sometimes, what drives some people is for that desire to get fulfilled... at all costs... it's unfortunate... but, it does happen... I find myself, weeks ahead... in kind of a similar situation... a young lady joined the site a few weeks ago... and, caught my attention... she friended me... and, wanted more... of course, the distance makes it safe for me... however, she then de-activated her account... and, went straight to email... no phone numbers exchanged yet... but, she has certainly hit alot of buttons... and, has set the stage for something in the future... I'm not sure yet... but, she is young... for me, that is always a warning sign... as melonlicious beauties seem to have many options... before they select that special... one... the one for firsts... and, yet... that doesn't seem to be the case... hmm... food for thought... I will tread slowly... and, she may just be using me... you know... my dark silhouette has attracted many butterflies... but, only a few get to indulge in an easy going first... this is not a one-size fits all kind of a proposition... but, it's not for marriage either... that word scares me... just being honest... I'd rather be lucky than smart... but some women... will say anything to get into my pants... and, that is not what I want... I don't want to be a notch on someone's headboard... I'm not sayin' that I'm not game for incredible moments of intimacy... with a lover that wants to please and be pleased... and, likes the color "blue"... no, I'm not saying that at all... what I'm saying... is that I want to be treated with respect... I want to be pampered... I want to be loved... and, have that woman mean it... passion is important... if she wants to pay for my trip to visit her... so be it... if she wants to pay for all of my meals... so be it... but, that doesn't entitle her to a piece or all of me... that just breaks the ice... so, to speak... although, it does not get that cold in god's country... so maybe, it is just casting the reel or the dye... or whatever floats the fancy of the environment we find ourselves in... and, that's all I've got to say about that... hmm... Sevyn Streeter - "Shoulda Been There" Nah I mean it is what it is Like, everybody been through it, everybody's gone through it where, you know You tried to give somebody your energy, your love, or whatever the case it may be, and they just didn't appreciate it They took it for granted and all of a sudden, once you move on and you in a different space in of your life Then that's… To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!! 
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What a positive and powerful post hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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I swing, but it is always disclosed before I meet someone. It's always good to be up front. Sorry he did that. I wish I could meet ya!!!
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Ohhh I wanna kiss your sexy butt cheeks!!
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we have all been there and done that.   
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The fact that this a 'Dating' site... full of profiles, means "Options". Everyone has the potential to seek options on here, when little or no interest happens. You electronically communicated with a guy for 2 months - maybe longer, he dropped you, and moved on. ...Why do you suppose he did that? You say; What once might have been a budding friendship, ... How do you reason he is looking for a friendship on this site? Sure, if you found him on "Match", then perhaps, but likely you are talking about a male-profile on this site. So why do men take the time to join a 'Dating' site? Sex. Of course. So would it not seem reasonable to first establish sexual chemistry, and soon? turned let's meet,I want you, goes by the wayside as the next distraction comes along. ... Sure. 2 -or more- months later! Can't you see why that would happen? "Let us meet", probably is what he said. But no, instead you wanted to keep communication to 'online', pretending to get to know him. "Getting to know someone" , happens organically, spending time together in person. Always has. So yes, naturally another woman comes along, or is found, she is more spontaneous. Basically more fun than you. So you really can't be upset with him, he tried. You postponed. Poof, just like that after months and months of conversation, one becomes an option. ... Absolutely. I don't blame him at all, when you could have met each other on the first day, or within the first week , in person, and settled the question, "Is there anything here worth staying for?" The excuses or putting off the meet start after that [2 months of online chit chat]. ... Well yes. Can't you understand why? When one invests the time to get to know you, .... "Getting to know him" never actually happened. Wasting 2 months of his time, and in the process, yours as well, ....that happened. He, "Got to know you are not interested in him". then drops you like a hot potato,it is not a good feeling at all. .... Then you can imagine how he felt after 2 months of wasting his lifetime on an electronic conversation , that could have easily taken place within an hour or two, in person, 2 months ago. For you to matter to someone, you have to give that someone a good reason. Likewise , that someone. Last thing... by keeping him online, you were telling him, "You're not important enough".
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Okay, then completely end of story... he found someone close by, whom he could meet in person. That is healthier. A "Friendship" online, doesn't really exist.... at best you have an "Acquaintance".
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You deserve the best and it will find you....Focus on your sister and comfort her.....You are way to good to be anyone's second option....You have it going on girl!
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8/14/2017 5:38 pm |
Hi my friend, Lately I'm not a good blog friend. But reading the blog, you deserve better. You are a beautiful, smart talented woman and you deserve a good man! Someone who going to appreciate you, he's out there you both just haven't cross paths yet.
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Good for you. I said do not be surprised when he surfaces again. They have a way of doing that. I'm guessing his ole lady didn't want him back. Good for you for putting you first.
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I'm sorry to read it didn't work out for you, hun, especially as the chemistry in bed worked for you. But you're right to stick to what you believe and you would never forgive yourself for compromising your standards. There are plenty of good guys walking God's Earth! You'll find one. View my blog guy4frot2
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It's a shame that he couldn't tell you up front that he was here for sex and not to make you a prioity. Who knows what might have happened should he have been honest of his intentions from the start. Being poly also has its hurdles with people that just want sex. Sex isn't the goal, its a reward for a relationship built on trust. Sadly there are many that feel the sex is the only goal that matters The Hubby
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I understood what he said the first time. . That happens. But his coming back now let's me know what he's REALLY like.  Good call on your part... 
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8/15/2017 8:52 am |
You made the right decision to see him initially and then to not see him after his recent call. I'm sure you were a little stung by his admission about his Ex but you shouldn't have any regrets that you put yourself out there...AND you had some great SEX!!!
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