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Prof10001 63M  
4094 posts
3/31/2017 3:26 am

Good that your sister has you available to coach her on safety. My sister has been having some health problems and I was able to help her navigate a health care system that doesn't always help people. Family make a difference.

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camperdude_69 63M
4641 posts
3/31/2017 3:35 am

very good watching for sister. have to be very careful on-line. many on here NOT who they say hey are.


kissing_softly 109F  
216 posts
3/31/2017 3:42 am

I think it's a good indication that this guy is willing to travel to your sister after a few months of connecting online. If the guy is a fake/scammer, he would usually ask for money for some reason or give excuse after excuse for not meeting. I know of a couple in which the woman traveled from the U.S. to London to meet her guy, he came back to the states with her, they married and now own and operate a lovely B&B.


rick315875 65M

3/31/2017 4:05 am

I believe that you need to meet the person first and have spent time with them in person before you can truly say you are in love with them. Otherwise I believe it is just infatuation.


xptsing 53M
250 posts
3/31/2017 4:06 am

One in 10 relationships starts online nowadays. And it is only going to increase. I think it is wonderful that people can connect this way. People who otherwise would never have the chance of meeting each other. People of different nationality or race or age group. Of course there is a great element of risk with all these scams but you can be also scammed by someone you have met in person too.
Technology offers us more possibilities now. We could meet a lot more people But getting to know them, build on the connection and feelings still happens in a similar way. Especially with the phones, the tablets, the skype, the facetime.
Does your sister use skype, facetime or other to regularly see her love interest? This would be my strong suggestion. It is nice to be able to exchange photos and messages but to be able to see the other person when you want, anyday you want creates an additional level of security.
If both sides are genuine love can start from online too. As in every relationship there has to be commitment and dedication and hopefully when they meet they can take it from there.
I strongly advice that they start using skype or facetime or similar. Whether they live 50 miles away or 5000 miles away.


HamburgDave2 80M
16526 posts
3/31/2017 4:07 am

Good Morning JOY Happy Friday my Friend

Great that you are there to coach your sister, and it sounds good that the guy is willing to travel.


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greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
3/31/2017 4:44 am

I too believe everything is possible on the online world. Even finding love. Love is a bit of a strong word for me, only to be used sparingly. The man offering to meet your sis obviously has not lied about any physical characteristics about him, but he could still be dodgy, like nut case, dodgy,etc. Face to face will help her make her mind up. Love may come later. Think of how many dating sites there are, apps, and what have you. Out of all of those people there are the real ones, as well.
Now, on a different matter, I am been held to ransom by someone. Can you please deposit a couple of hundred, so I can be released back to the wild? I am a prince, realy. If you can't do it, ask your sis lol.


CNYMale4Fun 63M

3/31/2017 4:50 am

Yes it can happen online! I have my Fingers crossed for you Joy!!!


Story435 76M
3791 posts
3/31/2017 6:33 am

Hi Joy
I think she still has to be careful! I would like if someone could be with her for awhile maybe. Not to sure how that would work out.
I am sure that you can meet someone online and love them very much too. But still have a lot of fakes out their.
I have been with three ladies that I meet on here was a little afraid about that but it was very good. We did meet at places where there was a lot of people first..
I think you can give her some good advice because you been on here for awhile and know what's going on.
I do wish her the best!
Butch


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
3/31/2017 6:42 am

Is it possible to meet ones Kindred Soul mate online?
Just about anything is possible, the question is - Is it probable, or what are the odds?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
3/31/2017 6:45 am

First let me say YES it's possible to meet the love of your life on line. I have been there and done that even though after time it wasn't meant to be.

I hope your sister is very cautious when meeting him having someone with her when she does for the first time. It's always important to be safe when meeting anyone on line for the first time especially meeting in public that's the first and foremost thing that she should do.

You have been very fortunate my friend that you have met some wonderful men. I hope you continue to do so. I know how close the two of you are and I hope you have shared your experiences with her about being on line and meeting men..have a great weekend hun..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
3/31/2017 7:02 am

I think it is totally possible BUT there is always the BUT. Honesty will win out. Glad she told you about this man and I am glad you are supportive regardless of the outcome

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citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
3/31/2017 8:29 am

I have travelled to meet women that I initially got to know online. There have been others that I'd loved to have met. I know you have to be careful but I believe fortune favours the brave.


PyschoLoco 61M
1550 posts
3/31/2017 9:27 am

I think big sis should go for it. If he's willing to travel and they've been talking for months, she should still meet him in a public place the 1st time. I'd have no qualms bout meeting you and we only know each other cyberly it'd be worth the risk even if you were a Nigerian princess.

Standards are people too.....kinda


mike19619999 62M
645 posts
3/31/2017 10:39 am

Yes I believe you can meet a kindred spirit online and yes i believe that you can call in love with them, although that will be the "love at first sight" type of infatuation. The real love that comes between two people can develop from that, but only through meeting up, spending time with each other, being there during the good days and the bad ones, and sharing with each other.

It sounds like your sister is doing it the correct and sensible way, chat online first, exchange photos, phone calls/web cams and then arrange a meeting. I hope it goes well for her.

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goodatpoetry2 74M
16552 posts
3/31/2017 10:59 am

Sure, it's possible. . And nowadays it happens more and more.
Good thing she has you checking up on her just in case.

I would never try it, though. . Look how many people here have fooled me into thinking that they were nice people, but weren't. . I just don't have the time to waste to find out anymore.


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
3/31/2017 1:57 pm

I hope for her sake it's real. I know it's possible. there are entire businesses predicated on it.

I trust he is paying for her plane fare?

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


wantaplay8 71M
5606 posts
4/1/2017 3:24 pm

LoL about short people,,I am 5'7" or 170.18 centimeters. I know a lady from Florida U.S.A. that met a man, online, from Australia. She traveled there and they are very happily married for 20 years. I know a few couples that met online and married. I won't say that this works for everyone or is it a safe way to connect with someone you feel love for. "Careful or caution" are the words to use when meeting anyone online or in real time. I wish your sister all the happiness that this possible relationship with her online friend can bring her.


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
4/1/2017 4:54 pm

Even off this site it can happen. I even know of a couple who got married and one moved 3000 miles to
Be with him giving up her high paying job. In your sister case proceed with caution. Sounds like a scam to me. Hugs V

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