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Is it Really Safe to be Vulnerable with You ?  

CUMHANDLEME 61F  
199 posts
5/25/2015 8:16 am
Is it Really Safe to be Vulnerable with You ?


I've been talking to you
... but ...
You're not listening
... or is it ...
You're not hearing
... or is it ...
You're not really caring

Something about you makes me
feel safe to be vulnerable ...
You told me I was safe ...
to be vulnerable with you

The way you look at me is special
The way you touch me is special
The way we whisper to each other is special

Our connection and chemistry is rare
It is powerful and undeniable
It's tangibility is in the air around us

My desire to please you is high
My desire to return your lust is high
You just bring out so many desires in me ... for you

Nothing is off limits to you
I will be as naughty or as
Nasty as you want me to be
But I only want to experience and explore this with you

I call you Daddy because we both know who's truly in charge

You say you appreciate me
You thank me for my patience
You say you want me
You say you 'like this' when we sleep and cuddle close

You ask if 'I feel this' connection
You ask if 'I feel this' chemistry
Of course 'I feel' it ... how could I not
Together we are powerful

We've done this many times
We get sooo close and then
Comes the silence

The silence hurts the worst
I feel disrespected
I feel discarded
I want you to fight to keep US

Maybe it's me you've been talking to
... but ...
I'm not listening
... or is it ...
Me not hearing you
... BUT ...
I WILL NEVER NOT REALLY CARE

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


Vavavoom_23452 49F
896 posts
8/7/2015 10:21 pm

"We've done this many times
We get sooo close and then
Comes the silence

The silence hurts the worse
I feel disrespected
I feel discarded
I want you to fight to keep US

Maybe it's me you've been talking to
... but ...
I'm not listening
... or is it ...
Me not hearing you
... BUT ...
I WILL NEVER NOT REALLY CARE"

Sometimes, trying to understand human emotion gets us to this point, and it's good to be OK with silence too. Nothing is ever exactly what it seems and we never really know another, or ourselves. And that's precisely what makes it all possible for us to feel as new, fall in love a little more or differently each day for instance. Without the void, uncertainty and anguish, there could be no fulfillment, satisfaction, happiness, each time we take a step to get closer .


kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
5/28/2015 1:48 am

Hmmmm....no denial of the shotgun...I'd best behave

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
5/27/2015 9:08 pm

    Quoting kittyliquor519:
    Uhhhh....... ......is your daddy the kind of guy who sits on the porch with a pipe in one hand and a shotgun in the other?
NO, he doesn't smoke

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
5/27/2015 9:00 pm

    Quoting CUMHANDLEME:
    I don't need no stinking piece of paper but you do need to ask my Daddy for permission, I'm old fashioned like that.

    Let's leave the decision up to Blogland. Washington can do a poll in his blog (Sorry I couldn't resist)
Uhhhh....... ......is your daddy the kind of guy who sits on the porch with a pipe in one hand and a shotgun in the other?

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
5/27/2015 7:52 pm

    Quoting kittyliquor519:
    LOL interesting proposal where would we go for our internet honeymoon

    I was married once, don't see the need to do it ever again...do not need a piece of paper from the gov't telling me it's okay to be with someone
I don't need no stinking piece of paper but you do need to ask my Daddy for permission, I'm old fashioned like that.

Let's leave the decision up to Blogland. Washington can do a poll in his blog (Sorry I couldn't resist)

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
5/27/2015 7:47 pm

    Quoting scoupe42:
    Nice, you very creative, love it!
Thank you ... I've found your blog interesting as well.

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
5/27/2015 7:03 am

    Quoting CUMHANDLEME:
    We have a lot in common ... wanna get internet married ?
LOL interesting proposal where would we go for our internet honeymoon

I was married once, don't see the need to do it ever again...do not need a piece of paper from the gov't telling me it's okay to be with someone

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


scoupe42 60M

5/27/2015 4:31 am

Nice, you very creative, love it!


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
5/26/2015 9:28 pm

    Quoting kittyliquor519:
    I too do things well out of passion so I completely understand
We have a lot in common ... wanna get internet married ?

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
5/26/2015 9:24 pm

    Quoting rm_rakehell500:
    I think the biggest risk I took in my second marriage was when I told her she was vulnerable. Green eyes flashed and the red hair came to the forefront, but I held my ground and let the storm beat itself out on me and later that night cuddling, she told me "Dammit I am vulnerable. And someone seeing it scares me, but I'm glad it's you, because I'm safe being vulnerable with you."

    It's something a lot of women don't want to admit though if they have been through bad relationships and something a lot of men have even more trouble confessing to.

    Loved the poem.
My 'one true love' was the first man I allowed myself to be vulnerable. With my current lover, I allowed my vulnerability to surface quickly. Sometimes it scares me to the point I need to cry while with him. It releases all my fears so the vulnerability feels safe to surface.

I didn't set out to write a poem ... that's how it sat in my head so that's how it ended up on the page.

You're a smart & articulate man from your comments. Thanks for stopping by and I look forward to more of your insightful comments.

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
5/26/2015 8:51 pm

    Quoting CUMHANDLEME:
    It wouldn't have considered it 'poetry' ... I write when I have things to work out in my head.

    A professional writer is not my forte, far from it actually but thank you for the compliment.

    I believe everyone's best work comes from the point of passion. Passionate for the idea, passionate for the project or passionate for the movement. Or at least it is my driving point, everything I do comes from what or whom I'm passionate about.
I too do things well out of passion so I completely understand

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
5/26/2015 2:48 pm

I think the biggest risk I took in my second marriage was when I told her she was vulnerable. Green eyes flashed and the red hair came to the forefront, but I held my ground and let the storm beat itself out on me and later that night cuddling, she told me "Dammit I am vulnerable. And someone seeing it scares me, but I'm glad it's you, because I'm safe being vulnerable with you."

It's something a lot of women don't want to admit though if they have been through bad relationships and something a lot of men have even more trouble confessing to.

Loved the poem.



Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
5/25/2015 6:51 pm

    Quoting kittyliquor519:
    Well done ....I normally don't read "poetry" type posts but I skimmed over this one then went back and read it properly I've seen you post several others like this, if I am not mistaken, ever thought of writing a book?
It wouldn't have considered it 'poetry' ... I write when I have things to work out in my head.

A professional writer is not my forte, far from it actually but thank you for the compliment.

I believe everyone's best work comes from the point of passion. Passionate for the idea, passionate for the project or passionate for the movement. Or at least it is my driving point, everything I do comes from what or whom I'm passionate about.

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
5/25/2015 5:06 pm

Well done ....I normally don't read "poetry" type posts but I skimmed over this one then went back and read it properly I've seen you post several others like this, if I am not mistaken, ever thought of writing a book?

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
5/25/2015 2:15 pm

    Quoting  :

'and yet be confidant that if we make a mistake ... that we will work through it and be stronger for it'

Isn't that the truth ... vulnerability is a bitch, but sometimes it's worth the risk.

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
5/25/2015 2:00 pm

    Quoting kittyliquor519:
    Interesting piece of writing, says quite a bit, is it yours?
Yes

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
5/25/2015 9:00 am

Interesting piece of writing, says quite a bit, is it yours?

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


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